ILens Yasendulo: Isizathu Sokuba Lezi Zinhlangothi Eziyisikhombisa Zisalokhu Zikhathazekile Ngokuhola Kwanamuhla

Abaphathi abaphambili abamane nje bamane nje bamane bahlome, bathathe, noma benze izinqumo ngesivinini. Bayinkundla yokwakheka kokuziphatha, lapho ukuphila kwangaphakathi komholi kuchitheka khona kuyo yonke imihlangano, nako yonke imikhakha, nakubo bonke ubuhlobo. ISiphethiso esibulalayo Sini (ne-pride, ukuhaha, umona, ukuminza, ulaka, intukuthelo, nesloth , kungabonakali nje kuphela; kuyizimo zengqondo nesimilo eziphazamisa ngokuphindaphindiwe amaqembu, imisebenzi ekhubazekayo, kanye noshevu lokuphathana. Isiqalo sawo sawo amandela akuqala anjengo-Evagrius Policus futhi kamuva athotshiswe nguPapa Gregory I, lezizinto ezimbi zabonwa njengezonobhulozo ezibangelwa ukuphakama kwezono. Emsebenzini, bayizinjini abaholi beminde abantu abaholi abaholi, futhi baguqula izigebengu.

Okwenza lezizindlela eziyisikhombisa eziyingozi kakhulu ekuholeni ukuthi ngokuvamile zibonakala zinamandla. Ukuqhosha kungabonakala njengokuqiniseka. Ukuhaha kungazenza isithunzi sokuvelela. Ulaka lungazizwa luyisifiso sobulungisa. Ngaphandle kwesisekelo sokuqaphela izinhlangothi zabo zesithunzi, abaholi bangena ezindleleni zokuziphathela amaqembu aphukayo aphukayo futhi aqede ukukholeka. Ukuqonda lemibisho eyingozi yenhlangano yanamuhla kusinika ithuluzi elinamandla lokuhlola izimpi ngaphambi kokuba ifike phambi kwe-metastasizes jnes-ne, kanye nendlela ecacile yokukhokha intela ekukhululeni kwangempela.

Ukuqhosha: Umholi Ongenakukona

Ukuqhosha, ngokuvamile okubizwa ngokuthi impande yazo zonke ezinye izono, umuzwa osontekile wokuzifihla. Emholweni, lokhu kubonakala njengokwenqaba ukuvuma amaphutha, ukulalela ukungavumelani, noma ukuphathisa igunya elibalulekile. Umholi oqhoshayo wakha inqaba yamagumbi okunambitha, ezizungeze nabantu abaqinisayo kunokuba baphikise. Umphumela uwukwenza isinqumo esiyinhlekelele singazichazi. Ukucwaninga ngemibhoshongo, kufundwa kakhulu ngemva kokuwa kwenkampani nokuhluleka kwezombangazwe, kubonisa ukuhlobana okuqondile phakathi kokuqhosha nokuhluleka kwesimiso sobuso obungalawulwa. Ngokwesibonelo, ukuwa kuka-Entron, akubangelwangakho nje ukukhohlisa; kwakubangelwa ukuqhosha kobuholi okuqhosha okwakukholelwa ukuthi kwakungaphezulu kakhulu kwemidla yeze yeze futhi kwakuhlola isimilo.

Ukuxabana okubangelwa ukuqhosha kuvame ukuthatha uhlobo lwezimpi ezinamandla, ukuxoshwa komphakathi kokwaziswa kweqembu, nokwesaba okugcwele ukukhuluma. Ukukhululwa kuqala ngalokho izazi zengqondo ezikubiza ngokuthi "ukuthobeka kwangqondo"" [1] umkhuba wokufuna ngentshiseko ukuqinisekisa ubufakazi nokwazisa ubuchwepheshe babanye. Abaholi abafunda ukuthi “Bengingalungile” akulungiseli nje kuphela kodwa futhi babonise nempucuko yokufunda emelene nokucabanga kweqembu.

Ukuhaha: Lapho Okwengeziwe Kuba Umgodi Omnyama

Ukuhaha kobuholi akugcini ngokukweqisa ngokwezimali; kungokokuhahela kakhulu ukuxhashazwa kwezentengiselwano okwengeziwe, ukuphakanyiswa, ukulawulwa okwengeziwe, ukulawulwa okungaphezulu , − ekulahlekelweni kwabantu, ukuziphatha, nokugcinwa isikhathi eside. Abaholi abanobugovu baphatha imithombo, kuhlanganise nabantu, njengezinto ezingenakusetshenziswa. Lokhu kulwa ngokuxhaphaza: ukukhokhela izisebenzi, amaqembu asebenzayo, ukuzuza amagebedube ekulondekeni, nokuthatha phambili ekufezekeni komsebenzi. Ihlazo lezenzo zokulandisa zenkohliso zikaFargo zihlala ziyisibonelo sencwadi sendlela isiko sobuholi esihanjelwa yizihlupho ezise izinsimbi ezifanele, kushiye izisebenzi zivane amanxeba ezingoko zokuziphatha futhi zilahlekelwe ukuthemba.

Ukusingatha ukuhaha kudinga ukubuye kubekezelele injongo esikhundleni sokuqongelela. Amasu okuhlenga aphumelelayo ahlanganisa ukuphatha okuneqhaza, ukuhlanganisa isinxephezelo sokuqondisa esihlangene nokwaneliseka kwezisebenzi nokwesheshi, kanye nokuthuthukisa ukuphatha okusobala kwezezimali. Ukushintsha kusuka ekucabangeni kokuswela okugcina ingqondo egcwele eqongelela inzuzo engenisa imali.

Isifiso Sothando: Isivuno Esibangela Isifiso Esingafaneleki

Ebuholini, inkanuko idlulela ngalé kokuziphatha okubi kobulili − cishe okuhlala kuyinto ekhona nebhubhisayo. Emzamweni wayo, inkanuko imelene nokukhohliswa: ukuncishiswa komunye umuntu entweni yokuzanelisa. Lokhu kungabonakala njengomholi osebenzisa ukusondelana okungokomzwelo ukuze alawule ukwethembeka, owenza i-"amaqembu" ahlala engabantu abaphethe i-froms, noma osebenzisa amandla ahlukene ukuze afeze izidingo zawo ezingokomzwelo noma ezingokomzimba. Umzabalaze uveza indlela lendlela esakazeke ngayo, ukudilika kwama-histocs, ezobuchwepheshe, nezombangazwe. Impi evame ukufihleka, ithuleze igeleze ize iqhume izintambo noma iphumele ngokusemthethweni.

Isihlengo sidinga imingcele ecacile, ephoqelelwe nokubuyela ebuholini bezisebenzi. Izinhlangano akumelwe nje zibe nezinqubo eziqinile zokubika kodwa futhi zihlakulele isiko lapho noma ubani onegunya ekhunjuzwa njalo ukuthi indima yazo ingeyobuphathi, hhayi ukuzihlobisa. Abaholi abanamathela obala ezimisweni zokuziphatha futhi bathathe izinqubo zokuziphendulela ngokuqinile. Ngokufana nokukhuthaza kwebhodi ukuba intethelelo ingenzeka uma icala livunywa futhi isivikelo sokwakha sivunywa.

Umona: Iqembu Elicashile Eliyiqembu

Umona uwukuphela kwesono esingajabulisi nhlobo. Ngokumane sicanuca amagqubu ngenxa yenhlanhla yabanye. Endaweni yokuhola, umona uvame ukuvala isifihlakalo "sokuqhathanisa okuphilile" kodwa ngokushesha ufaka ukuziphatha okubhubhisayo: ukululaza impumelelo yomngane, ukugodlela ukwaziswa okubalulekile, noma ukululaza izimemezeli eziphakeme ngokucaphuka ukuze zifinyeze ukukhanya kwazo. Ukubhambana kweqembu ngenxa yokuthi abalandeli bafunda ukuthi ukuphumelela kuzakujeziswa kunokuba kuvunwe. Lokhu kuyingozi kakhulu ezinhlanganweni ezihlanganisanayo lapho ukuhlanganisana nomphakathi okungokongakhokhwabani kubalulekile. Umholi onomona imali yontanga, italente, noma ibhodi yokubonakala kungase kubangele ukuhlasela kwempi ephakathi kwempi.

Ukunqoba umona kudinga ukuthuthukisa i-zero-sum-i-sum-egnomes ukuguqula ingqondo. Imikhuba enjengokugubha ngenhloso ukuwina abanye, ukushintshanisa ukuhola kwemisebenzi ukuze kubonakale, nokuqamba ubuchopho. Njengoba isazi sokuhola uSimon Sinek siphawula, abaholi beqiniso basiza abanye ukuba bavuke. Uma umholi efunda ukubona impumelelo yeqembu njengokunqoba, babulala inkanuko yomoya - mpilo walo kanye nokusebenza kwalo njengeqembu.

Ukudla: Umbono Oweqisayo Owuhlolayo Lomsebenzi

Igluttony emongweni wobuholi wamanje ayihlobene kakhulu nokudla futhi idla kakhulu ngokusetshenziswa kwemali ngokungenakulinganiswa, isikhathi, kanye nokunaka. Ngumholi ofaka izinhlelo kuyo yonke imihlangano, ofuna imingcele eyandayo yokulawula, ogcina ukuqashelwa lapho ededela okuncane, noma ophikelelayo ngokusebenzisa imali eningi kuyilapho iqembu lisebenza ngokuhluleka ukulinganisela. Lo mholi uveza inzondo ejulile nokuswela ingcebo kuyo yonke inhlangano. Izingxabano njengoba abantu abanekhono beqaphela iminikelo yabo iyakwazi ukunikeza inzuzo yokwazisa noma ukuthokoza.

Ukukhululwa kusekwelulekweni lokungaguquguquki kanye nokuhanjiswa kwemitako. Abaholi kumelwe bafunde ukubuza: “Ingabe lezindleko zifeza umgomo, noma zikhonza isithombe sami?” Ukuhlela ukuhlelwa kwezimpahla okucace kakhulu, ukulinganisela amalungelo aphezulu, nokusebenzisa“ukwenza isinqumo esiphansi”""""ukuzama ukwenza izinqumo kanye nemithombo yemali kuze kube sezingeni eliphansi kakhulu elingenzeka. Umgomo uwukuba umsakazo wobulimi, hhayi i-partum.

Ulaka: Ukuzimelela Okuvuthayo

Ulaka luyaqhuma, kodwa ebuholini lungabangela ukwesaba futhi lungakhanye: intukuthelo eshubile evutha isisebenzi esithembekile esingenazwela, ukuthukuthelisa okuthulisa igumbi, ukujezisa ngecala okubangelwa amagqubu. Abaholi abathukuthele ngezikhathi ezilandelanayo badala izimo zentengo, lapho ukwakheka kwengqondo kufa futhi ukuphepha okungokwengqondo akunakunyakaza. Ingxabano ayibonakali ngokushesha futhi iyabonakala, izikhalo ezihleliwe, nedumela elixoxisayo elixosha itale lekhono eliphezulu. Nokho, umonakalo wesikhathi eside, iwumonakalo wokwakha: abantu bayeka ukuletha amandla abo aphelele ukuze basebenze futhi baqale ukusebenza ngendlela yokusinda.

Intukuthelo ngokwayo ayisona isitha; intukuthelo elungile ngokungabi nabulungisa ingaba ithonya elihle. Isono solaka silapho intukuthelo ingalawuleki futhi ibhubhisa. Ukukhululwa kudinga ukuqeqeshwa kokuhlakanipha okungokomzwelo, ukumiswa kwemithetho elandelwayo, nesenzo esilula sokulungisa. Abaholi abaxolisa obala ngokuphandle futhi bavumele ukungenela kokulawula intukuthelo bangaphinde baphinde bathembane.

Indwangu: Ikhono Lokuthula Eliphonsa Konke

Ubuvila abukona nje ukuvilapha; ukuhluleka ukuthanda nokuhluleka ukwenza uma kudingeka. Ebuholini, ibheja libonakala njengokugwema izingxoxo ezinzima, ukunganaki ukukhula kweqembu, amaphutha akhubaza ukuthatha izinyathelo, kanye “ukugwema” okushiya indle ephazamisayo ukuze igcwaliseke. Umholi ohlala ebuyele emuva ukuya emuva kodwa ongaluleki kunoma ubani, umphathi olibalayo ukusungula izinqubo ezibalulekile kuze kube yilapho imakethe isuka. Imiphikiswano epholile: imikhawulo ephelelwayo, ukulandisa inyamalala, ukulandisa okungabekezelelwayo kuyanyamalala, futhi izisebenzi eziningi ezibophekile zizama ukukhokhela abaholi abangekho.

Ukukhululwa kuqala ngokuba khona ngenhloso kanye nesibindi sokuhileleka. Izinyathelo ezingokoqobo zihlanganisa ukuvimbela isikhathi sokucabanga okuhleliwe kanye nokwenza imishini eyodwa, ukwenza amapulani afuna ukuvalwa (njengesimiso sokuphoqa nokufaka” eAmazon), futhi ukwakha ibhodi lomuntu siqu labaqondisi abangakhipha ukuziphatha okungalawuleki. Uvalo lokuhluleka, ukwesaba ukuxabana kuvame ukudinga ukusekela ukukhipha lezo zinkinga ezifihliwe.

Impi: Indlela Esinye Isono Esidla Ngayo Esinye

Akuvamile ukuba umholi abonise ububi obubodwa ngokuzehlukanisa. Izimo zesono ezihlangene ngokuzibhubhisayo. Ngokwesibonelo, ukuqhosha kuvimbela umholi ukuba avume ukuthi akhungathekile, kubangele ukuba avimbe emisebenzini ebucayi. Lokho kungazikhathazi kubangela inkinga yeqembu, ebangela ulaka lapho ibhekene nokwephuza. Umona ngontanga onekhono kakhulu ungabangela ukuhaha ukuze kuqongelele imisebenzi eyengeziwe ukuze kubonakale ukuthi uphakeme, kuyilapho ukuminza kuqeda wonke umoya, kushiya iqembu lididele. Ukuqonda lokhu kuvumelana kubalulekile ngoba ukukhululwa kumelwe kukhulume ngezimpande, hhayi nje izimpawu ezisobala. Ukushintsha kontanga kungahlanganisa ukuqaphela “iphutha esihambisanayo” okuvula umnyango wabanye.

Izimiso zokuhlela zingakhulisa noma zinciphise lezi zimiso ezithandekile. Ukuqondisa komsebenzi okuvuza amaqhawe ngamanye ngaphezu kokubambisana kuzakubangela ukuqhosha nomona. Isiko elivamile elithatha amasonto angu-80 anamahora livumela ukuminza kwesikhathi futhi lizala ibheja emndenini nasezindaweni zomuntu siqu. Ukuhlenga izimiso zokuqaphela kusuka ekuthuthukiseni inqubo yokuhlenga.

Izindlela Zokuhlengwa: Imisebenzi Ewusizo Yabaholi

Ukuvuma ukuba khona kwalezizindlela ezibulalayo akukona ukuvuma ukwehluleka okungenakulungiseka; kuyisenzo sokuqala sobuholi obuthembekile. Ukukhululwa akusona isenzakalo esisodwa kodwa ukuqondisa okuqinile kobuntu. Ukudwetshwa kwakho kokubili ukuhlakanipha kwasendulo kanye nesayensi yokuziphatha yamanje, ibalazwe lomgwaqo elilandelayo linikeza indlela ehleliwe yabaholi abafuna ukuqeda lobububi nokwakha kabusha ukwethembana.

Ukwandiswa kobuhlakani kanye nokuhlolwa kwesithunzi

Abaholi kumelwe bahlakulele ukwethembeka konya ngezisusa zabo. “ukuhlolwa kwesithombe” kuhlanganisa ukubukezwa okuhleliwe kwezingxabano zamuva nokwehluleka ukukulandelela emuva ebubini obuyingcaca. Amathuluzi anjengo-360-degree, ukuhlaziya inqubo (umz., Hogan Development Survey Survey elinganisa izintambo ezihambisana ngokuqinile nezono ezibulalayo), kanye nokuhlola okubonisa ukuma kwezindlela ezingabonwa ukuzazisa komholi ngokwakhe. Lenqubo idinga ukulandisa kwangaphandle (umqeqeshi, umelwa, noma iqembu lontanga elithenjwayo) ngoba ukuziqhenya kuzakumelana neqiniso ngemvelo.

Ukuvuma Izono Nokulungisa Ngezinga Lobuchwepheshe

Nakuba ukuvuma izono zomphakathi okugcwele kungase kungafaneleki kuyo yonke imisebenzi, isimiso sokulungisa sibucayi. Abaholi abaye babangela ukuqhuma kwentukuthelo noma ukuhahela intukuthelo kumelwe baqale ukuxolisa ngokuqondile, ukuqamba icala, ukuvuma ithonya lalo, nokuveza izibopho eziqinile zokushintsha. Izinxushunxushu zobuholi ezivuselelweyo . /Izingxoxo zokulungisa lapho abantu abathintekile bengahlanganyela khona okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo futhi umholi alalele ngaphandle kokuzivikela. Isenzo sokulungisa siyikhambiza lokulahla ukuphunyuka kwezono.

3. Ukusungula Izithiyo Zokulinda

Ubuhle bomuntu siqu buntekenteke ngaphandle kokusekela kokwakha. Izinhlangano ezizimisele ukukhulula abaholi bezimiso zokuziphatha zakha izinqanda ezikwenza kube nzima ukuba izindlela zesono ziqhubeke. Lezi zihlanganisa: amalungelo esinqumo adinga imishini nokulinganisela, imingcele yokusebenzisa imishini, imithetho ebophekile yamaholide (ukulwa nobudla), imigqa esheshayo yokuziphatha okuzimele, kanye nokuqondisa ukuziphatha kwe-CEO. Izinqolobane eziphumelelayo yilezo ezivimbela ukumelana nokulinganisela kwemisebenzi yansuku zonke − njengalezo “izikhungo zokudla” zokubulala umona, noma izikhangiso ezikhanyisayo ezikhanyayo.

Ukuhlakulela I - virtue emelanayo

Amakhambi asendulo ezonweni eziyisikhombisa afanayo: ukuthobeka kuphulukisa ukuqhosha, ukuphana, ukuphana, ukukhanuka, umusa kuphulukisa umona, ukudambisa ukuminza, ukubekezela kuphulukisa ulaka, nokukhuthala. Abaholi bangazisebenzisa ngamabomu lezizimfanelo ngokusebenzisa imikhondo emincane: ukuvulela phansi emhlanganweni ukuze babonise ukuthobeka, ukuzinikela emsebenzini onzima wokuzikhandla, noma ukufaka izinhlu zempi ngokubekezela esikhundleni sokuzibamba ngezahlulelo.

Ukuhlola Izifo Ekuholeni Nokululama

Umlando unikeza ukulandisa okunamandla okubonisa amandla abhubhisayo alezi zono kanye nethuba elingokoqobo lokuhlengwa.

Ukutadisha Indaba 1: Ukuhaha Okungalawuleki Nokuguquka Okuzungeze IPatagonia

Nakuba amahlazo amaningi ezinhlangano abonisa ukuhaha, umsunguli wenkampani u-Patagonia u-Yvon Chounard umelela ukuguqulwa ngamabomu. Lesisenzo esinzima asizange sibe yisidingo sokukhula okungapheli kodwa sasiwukukhululwa okuklanywe ngokucophelela kwezezentengiselwano zezingubo, u Chourainard wakwenqaba ngokuqondile ukuphambana kokuhaha ngokuhlela kabusha ubuni benkampani ukuze zonke inzuzo zingaphinde zibuyiselwe ebhizinisini ukuze zilwe nokushintsha kwesimo sezulu. Lesi senzo esikhulu sasingesona isici sokuzimemezeli esiphambili kodwa sasiwukukhululwa okuklanywe ngokucophelela ekusebenziseni izimpahla eziphambili, futhi sakhandleni ngokunelisayo. Isifundo: Ubugovu singalahlwa ngokusemthethweni, hhayi nje ngokunganaki.

Ukuhlola Icala 2: Ukuqhosha Kwezombangazwe Nokubuya Kwendoda Yase - United States

Cabangela iqoqo lomholi wezombangazwe − njengowayenguNdunankulu wase-U.K. uJohn Major, owathi ngemva kwesikhathi sokulimala ehhovisi wabhekana nokunqotshwa kwe-volotiwe futhi wahoxa ekuzisweni. Kunokuba ahlale egcwele igqubu lokuqhosha, uMajor wachitha iminyaka eminingi ehlanganyela emsebenzini othule, okhuthele womhlaba wonke futhi ekugcineni wasungula inqubo yokuthula yaseNyakatho Ireland isekela imizamo, efundisa isizukulwane esisha sabameli. Ifa lakhe lesikhundla sezwe lombuso liphawulwa ukuthobeka nokubekezela ngezinye izikhathi okwakungekho phakathi nenkathi yakhe yokubusa. Lenhlangano ibonisa ukuthi umholi angasekela ekuzindleni kwesineke ekukhonzeni isineke, anikeze umphumela wakhe emhlabeni.

Ukuhlolwa Kwecala 3: Ulaka Luguqukile Esanduleleni Sezobuchwepheshe

I-fintech esheshayo eqalayo i-CTO yabona ulaka lwayo lukhuphula iqembu lobunjineli lifinyelela eqophelweni lokucishe lifinyele. Ngemva kokudubula umphakathi okwaholela ekuyekeni okubili okuyinhloko, ibhodi layala uhlelo olunamandla lokuqondisa ngokugxila ekulawuleni okungokomzwelo nasekulondekeni kwengqondo. Lokhu kubonisa ukuthi ngisho nezinyanga eziyi-18, i-CTO ayifundanga ukulawula intukuthelo kuphela kodwa futhi yaqala uchungechunge “lokuhlola isikhashana” lapho avuma obala ukuthi kuyingozi ehoxisiwe, futhi iqembu lakhipha umkhiqizo wayo omusha kakhulu wokukhulula usuku. Lokhu kubonisa ukuthi ngisho nolaka olujulile lungathunyelwa lapho umholi ethatha ukwelashwa okuthatha isikhathi eside nokwakhiwa.

Ukwakha Umkhuba Wokuhola Izono

Kudingeka ukuhlengwa komuntu ngamunye kodwa akwanele. Izinhlangano ezichumayo emashumini amaningi eminyaka zenza kube nzima nganoma yimuphi umholi oyedwa ukuba alawule. Lokhu kuqala ngokuqasha izisebenzi zobuntu, hhayi nje ikhono. Izindlela zokuxoxa nodokotela ezifuna indlela abafuna ukuphumelela, ukulingwa, noma ukuvunywa kwazo zingaveza izimpawu ezixwayisayo zasekuqaleni zokuqhosha noma umona. Izinhlelo zokubopha kufanele zifundise ngokucacile ulimi lwenhlangano olubonisa ukuziphatha okuhle, kuhlanganise nendlela lezizici eziyisikhombisa ezibonakala ngayo embonini ethile.

Izinhlelo zokuthuthukisa abaphathi kumelwe zithathele ngaphandle kokwakha ikhono ukuze zithuthukise ikhono nokucabanga ngokokuziphatha. Ukuhlola okwenziwayo kokuhluleka kwezimiso zokuziphatha nokunikeza izingxoxo eziqotho ngamandla ashukumisayo kulungiselela abaholi ukuba bazibonele ukuguquguquka kwabo ngaphambi kokuba kube khona inhlekelele. Ukuhlelwa kwenkathi edlulayo yezizukulwane nemisebenzi kungaqeda futhi ukuqhosha. Umgomo uyindlela engcono yokukhuluma ngokushelela kokuhaha noma ukubheja kwakuqala, futhi lapho ukusabela kusekelwa khona, hhayi ukukhomba.

Ukuhlola okwengeziwe ukuhola kwezimiso zokuphatha nemsuka yokuthembana kwenhlangano, imithombo enjenge Psychology Today Leaderships kanye nesiqondiso se-Harvard Business Review yezenkambiso yezenkambiso yenkampani [[ inikeza izindawo zokuqalisa eziwusizo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, [[FLT:]] [4] ukucwaninga ngezokuphepha ngokwengqondo nobuholi kuqinisa ukuthi kungani indawo ezungezile evikela izono ezibulalayo yenza ngcono.

Umsebenzi Wokukhululwa Ukuphila Konke

Izono eziyisikhombisa ezibulalayo azilona uhlu okumelwe lunqotshwe kanye futhi luphele. Ziyizithunzi ezihlala njalo ezibangelwa ukukhanya kwamandla. Umholi ngamunye, kusukela kumphathi we-asterne kuya ku-CEO wembulunga yonke, uyozwa ukuheha kwakhe. Umehluko phakathi komholi obhubhisayo nomkhulu awukona ukungabikho kwalokhu kuhlola kwangaphakathi, kodwa isibopho sansuku zonke sokuziqaphela, ukumelana nazo, nokulungisa umonakalo lapho ziwina impi. Ukukhululwa akusona isimo esiyinhloko; kuyinkathi eqinile yokushintsha kwenhlangano, imisebenzi exubile, nokuhlola umphakathi, abaholi ababhekene nobumnyama babo siqu ngesibindi kuyoba yilabo abangasindisi nje kuphela kodwa abayo esiyisisekelo sokuthemba okuhlala njalo.