Izindaba ezishukumisa kakhulu zenza okungaphezu kokuzijabulisa; zibambelela kakhulu ekuzishintsheni ezimpikiswaneni zomuntu, zembula izifiso eziphitheneyo, ukwesaba, nezinkolelo ezisishukumisayo. Akukho lapho kusobala kakhulu kunendawo ehlelekile yobuntu, uhambo lwangaphakathi nolwangaphandle oluguqula imishini efihlekile yezisusa, izingxabano, futhi ngokuhlola lemiklamo efihlwayo, singaveza ukwazisa okujulile hhayi nje kuphela ngekhono lokulandisa kodwa nangezinto eziyiqiniso ezilandiswayo. Lokhu kuhlola imishini efihlekile yezisusa, ukuphikisana, nokushintsha okwenza ukuba abantu bahlale isikhathi eside ngemva kwephepha lokugcina noma ukuthenga izikweletu.

Indima Engenakulinganiswa Yezici Ezisahluphayo

Indaba engaguqulwanga yisithombe, hhayi ibhayisikobho. I-oceal compact iyinjini eqhubezela lendaba phambili, inikeza izilaleli isizathu sokusebenzisa imizwelo. Ziphendula umbuzo obalulekile: "Ingabe lomuntu uyoshintsha, futhi uma kunjalo," i-arcum iwumbhalo wesihloko sendaba, unikeza ukuhlola okuhleliwe kokuthi ungubani, ukuziphatha okuhle, nokuzinzisa. Uma uhambo lomuntu luhamba luvumelana nesilinganiso esithile sengqondo, izilaleli ziyoba nohlobo lozwela olungaba lukhulu futhi lukhanyisele.

Ukuba yiqiniso kwengqondo engxenyeni yohlobo lwe-arc asho ukunemba komdwebi; kusho ukukhula noma ukwehla komculi kulandela umqondo wangaphakathi ovumelana nokuziphatha kwabantu ababukele. Noma iqhawe linqoba ukwesaba okujulile noma ukumelana nokuzibhubhisa, ukukholeka komlobi kuxhomeke ekuqondeni okusobala noma okucacile kobuntu. Yingakho abalingi abaningi abakhumbulekayo ngokuvamile bezizwa njengabantu esibaziyo, noma ngisho nezinguqulo zethu.

Ukuchaza Izici Ezintathu Zophawu

Nakuba zonke izindaba zihlukile, ngokuvamile ama - arcus anezigaba ezintathu ezibanzi, ngayinye inezisekelo ezihlukene ezingokwengqondo.

  • U-Positive Arc (Uhambo lokuguqula): Umthathi-mfashini uqala ngokushiyeka okuyisisekelo, ukuqamba amanga, noma ukungaqondi kahle ngawebo noma ngezwe, futhi ngochungechunge lwezinselele, banqoba lelophutha ukuze bafinyelele ukukhula kweqiniso. Ngokuqondisisa, le nqubo ibonakalisa ukuvuleka kolwazi nokusebenza. Isibonelo: Ebenezer Scrooge in A Krisimisi Carol[[FLT:]]
  • I-Arc ebekwe phambili (Intengiselwano Esabekayo): Ubuntu abushintshi noma bumelane nokukhula, ngokuvamile buvumela ukulawulwa izifiso zabo ezimnyama. Le ngxenye ingalandela indlela yezimiso zokuvikela eziqine kakhulu ngokwezindlela ezihlala njalo, okuphumela ekuwohlokeni kokuziphatha noma ngokwengqondo. Isibonelo: uMichael Corleone ku [FLT:] unkulunkulu ubaba [ oguqula inguquko entweni engekho emthethweni enkosini enonya, ukwehla okubangelwa ukwethembeka okusontwa yi-grainsss.
  • Flat Arc (Ikhathesi lokushintsha): Ukuziphatha kuhlala kuqinile ezinkolelweni zabo eziyinhloko kodwa kusebenza njengamandla aguqula umhlaba obazungezile noma ezinye izixwele. Ngokwengqondo, amelela uphawu oluqinile oluvivinya ukukhula kwabanye, ngokuvamile ukuhlanganisa izindinganiso eziqinile. Isibonelo: Attitus Finch ku Ukubulala i-Mockbird [[FLT]], enomphakathi onamandla oqinile empasini nezingane zakhe ukuze zibhekane nemibono ephambene nayo.

Ukuqonda ukuthi isiphi isici esilandelwa umdlali kuyisinyathelo sokuqala, kodwa ukuceba kwangempela kuxhomeke ekuhlukaniseni izimiso ezingokwengqondo ezenza i - arcle izizwe ingenakugwenywa futhi ijulile.

Imibono Engokwengqondo Ewukuhlola Okuvamile

Njengoba nje umelaphi angasebenzisa izici ezihlukene ukuze aqonde ikhasimende, singasebenzisa izici eziningi ezingokwengqondo engxenyeni yophawu. Incazelo ngayinye ikhanyisa isici esihlukile sokucindezela kwangaphakathi nokungaphandle okunesimo samagama. Ngezansi kunamalens anamandla kakhulu, ahambisana nezibonelo zemifanekiso ezibonisa le nkolelo.

Imfundiso Yesayensi Yengqondo: Ukufihla Abangazi

Isungulwe uSigmund Freud, umbono wengqondo usikisela ukuthi ukuziphatha kuqhutshwa izifiso ezifihlekile, izinkumbulo ezicindezelwe, kanye nezingxabano zangaphakathi phakathi kwe-id (umqondo owenziwe ngekhono lokuzimela), ukuqhosha (umlamuleli onengqondo), kanye nowekhulu (unembeza olungile). Izikhomba-kembe ezihlelwe kulesibonelo ngokuvamile zihilela impi phakathi kwezifiso ezifihliwe kanye nokuzibamba okungaqondakali, kanye nezindlela zokuvikela ezifana nokuphika, ukuveza, nokuthatha isilinganiso sidlala indima engokoqobo. FREud usinikeza amazwi okubona leyodrama njengebala lemidlalo engaphandle nje kuphela, kanye nezindlela zokuvikela inqubo.

IHamespeare’s Hamlet [[FLT: 1] ihlala iyisibonelo sencwadi yezincwadi. Ukudumazeka kukaHamlet ekuhlulekeni kungafundwa njengekhekhesi elikhulu elikhungathekiswe yisiyalo se-imma iso sokuphindisela nokugogeka kobuso bengozi engalindelekile. "ukuze" u-soliloquy uyi-okday eqediwe yempi yengqondo, lapho isifiso sokubalekela imingcele yokuziphatha. Ngokufanayo, u-Tony Soprano uvalo lokuhlasela uSoprano [[FLT]] uphuma kulokhu engazi ukuthi uyakwazi yini ukumelana nomsindo wakhe wezenzo zakhe zobudlova njengomkhaya, umdlalizo wokwelapha.[indlela ewenza inqubo engokoqobo esetshenziswayo yobuchwepheshe esetshenziswa yi-injini yokuziphatha.[FLT] Phambi kokuba azitholele izihlube izing.

Ukuziphatha: Amandla Endawo Ezungezile Nokuqina

Ukuziphatha, okuxhaswe yizibalo ezifana no-B.F. Skinner, kuguqula ukugxila engqondweni engaphakathi kusuka ekuziphatheni okubonakalayo okubunjwe yizisusa zendawo ezungezile kanye nokuqiniswa. I-ace ebhekwa ngale lelens ibonisa ushintsho ngenxa yokulungisa: ukuqiniswa okuqinile kwemikhuba emisha, isijeziso sicisha endala, futhi indawo ezungezile iba umklami oyinhloko woshintsho. Lokhu kususa isisusa sangaphakathi futhi kuveza inhloso nomphumela wokusinda kanye nomphumela.

Kuyimpumelelo encane yokujabula, ukuphikelela okungapheli kukaChris Gardner akuvezwa njengesimiso sokuziphatha esingabonakali; kuwuchungechunge lokuziphatha okuqiniswa ukuswela okukhulu ukungabi nakhaya kanye nomvuzo onamandla wesikhathi esizayo sendodana yakhe. Impumelelo ngayinye elula, impumelelo esendaweni evikelekile, ukumomotheka kwengane yakhe, "ukumomotheka kwakhe" ukuphoqelela kakhulu. Ekupheleni okumnyama kwemigqa, uJesse Plunkman uveza indlela umjikelezo wenhlekelele, ukuhlikihla, nokuphothamisa, ukuhlehlela ukuziphatha kwakhe eqophelweni lokusondela. Ingxenye yakhe ibonisa lokho okubizwa ngokuthi "ult."

I - cockicology: Umklamo Wokuzicabangela Nokukholelwa

Isimiso sokusebenza kwengqondo sokuzicabangela singena ezindleleni ezilawula indlela esichaza ngayo izwe. Izinga lophawu olwakhelwe ngokushintshana kokuqonda luhlanganisa ukudilika kwezinkolelo eziyisisekelo ezinephutha, ukusontwa, nokuzwa okungaqondakali kahle. Uma isazi se-progagonon sifunda ukubekela inselele ukucabanga okuyinhlekelele noma ukuhlanganisa inkumbulo ebuhlungu, yonke indlela yokuzibheka ngayo ingashintsha. Le nkolelo ibuyisela ingqondo, iphikisa ukuthi ushintsho lulandela ukuhlelwa kabusha komqondo.

Ingqondo Emnandi ilingisa lenqubo ngokuqondisisa. Uhambo lukaJohn Nash alukho ngokuqeda isifo sokuphazamiseka kwengqondo kodwa ngokufunda ukuqaphela nokususa emibonweni yakhe, [1] yiziphi izazi zokwelapha ezibiza "ukuqaphela okungaqondi kahle". Iqopheli lakhe lokushaya iqophelo lokucabanga okubuhlungu, ukunqoba okubuhlungu kokucabanga ngephutha. Impi efanayo eyenzekayo e i-Motion[ [indlela] lapho i-Newoply pieroging isho ukuthi inkolelo ejulileyo yeqiniso lakhe liwukuphela iqiniso; ukugxuma kwakhe evela ophahleni kuphela kungenzeka ngokunengqondo ukuthi ukwamukela i-" imiyalo" imane ifana neyo engqondweni. Lendlela iveza inqubo engokoqobo ngenxa yokungalawuleli.

I - Social Psychology Ne - Unitide: Ukuzenza Usebenze Nenjongo Yakho

Ingqondo yabantu, eholwa nguCarl Rogers noAbraham Maskey, igcizelela intshiseko engokwemvelo yokuzenza umuntu abe ngumuntu oziphethe. .Ukwanelisa ikhono lakhe lokusebenza kwengqondo, ngezibalo ezinjengoViktor Frankl, yenezela ukufuna incazelo, ikakhulukazi lapho ebhekene nokuhlupheka. Izimpawu kulendlela yenqaba ukuchazwa ngesimo sangaphambili noma ngesivinini esingaziwa; bazama ngentshiseko ukuba abaklami bekhono labo siqu nenjongo. AmaMasbe aphansi alawula izidingo [[[] ngokuvamile asekela amabhandeksi anjalo, ashukumisa abalingi basuka ekuphileni okuzedlula ezinjongo eziyisisekelo.

Uhambo lukaSantiago ku-Paulo Coelho’s u-Alchemist uyisibonakaliso esimsulwa sokuzenza ozenzele. Umfana ulandela ucingo olujulile olubonisa ukuthi unengqondo esebenzayo, ngokuphindaphindiwe ekhetha inganekwane yomuntu siqu enikeza induduzo. I-akethe yakhe ayikuqondisi ukushiyeka kodwa iphile ngokuqiniseka. Ngoba i-arctial ikhona, cabangela i-Shawshank Reantifiction[[[FLL:3]. Futhi u-Dufsne ukwenqaba kwakhe ukuva ejele ukuba abe izimpawu zakhe zethemba, uthando lwakhe lwethemba, ukubukeka kwesimiso esiklanywe ngesimiso sokuzincubulisa. Uthola i-smown escence, futhi uyakwazi ukuveza ukuhlukanisa komzimba, lapho kuveza ukukhomba okubuhlungu, ngemva kwamashumi eminyaka, lapho umuntu engekho ngqinini.

Inkolelo - mbono Yokunamathela: I - blueprint of systruct of syndrome

Iqaliswe nguJohn Bowlby noMary Ainsworth, inkolelo-mbono enamathelayo isikisela ukuthi ubuhlobo bakuqala nabanakekeli bubumba ingaphakathi lethu "izibonelo ezisebenzayo" kubo bonke ubuhlobo besikhathi esizayo. Izimpawu ezinezindlela zokujoyina ezingalondekile − ukukhathazeka, noma ukungahleleki , zenza izindlela zokuziphatha ezizihambelayo emabangeni abo, ngokuvamile ziphindaphinda izijikelezo ze-screen ze-internationals kuze kube yilapho bethola ukulondeka. Le-lens ibaluleke kakhulu ekuhloleni ukuthi kungani ubuntu buphazamisa ukusondelana, bunamathela kakhulu, noma bumisa izindonga ezingokomzwelo kakhulu.

UHunting Well Wingling [[FLT: 1] uyikhoshandlela eliphambili ekuhlobiseni. Ukungaxhumeni okuqinile, okusekelwe ekuxhashazweni kwezingane nasekunakekeni kokungakhathalelwa, kubonakala njengokuhlakanipha nokungazethembi okuqinile. Ukhipha i-Skylar kanye nanoma yimuphi umuntu onegunya omkhathalelayo, esebenzisa ubudlova nokuhleka njengesivikelo. Isikhohlakalo sokuzigquma lapho exazulula inkinga yezibalo, kodwa lapho Sean McGuire etshela yena ngokuphindaphindiwe, "Awukho iphutha lakho," ukuphula igobolondolo lokuvikela nokuvumela uWill ukuba akhe ukunamathela okulondekile ngesikhathi sokuqala. Ngokunjalo, uhambo luka-Elsah [FLT:] Fro[3] [FT] [FLET] lungafundwa ngokuzesaba ukukhomba kwakho okusabekayo" njengoba kuveza ukukhomba kweswonga, intebe, izimpawu ezibonisa ukuthi ukuzimisela, ngokuvamile, ufunda ukuthi uyakwazi ukukhothatho oluqinile.

Izinhlobo Zezakhiwo ZaseJungian Nendawo Yokuhlanganisa

Umqondo kaCarl Jung wohlobo oluyikhothamo unikeza ububanzi benganekwane ezindaweni zophawu. Izimpawu ezinjengeHero, ishadow, Anima/Animus, neNdoda Ehlakaniphile zisemfashinini womhlaba wonke obekwe eqenjini elingekho lutho. Itshe lophawu elibukwayo phakathi kwesibonelo sikaJung ngokuvamile lihlanganisa ukuhlanganisa isithunzi − izici ezicindezelwe, ezimnyama zomuntu ngokwakhe (hto ufinyelele ukuphelela, inqubo ebizwa ngokuthi idividuation. Loluhlelo lufana ngokwemvelo nohambo lukaJoseph Campbell’s Hero, oluye lwathonya kakhulu ukulandisa kwezindaba zanamuhla.

Ezimpini , uLuke Skytwaker uhambo lwe-individuation. Kumelwe abhekene nesithunzi sakhe (Darth Vader, ngokoqobo omelela uhlangothi olumnyama lohlu lwakhe lozalo nekhono) hhayi ngokulibhubhisa, kodwa ngokuvuma ukuhlangana kwazo nokungavumeli ukuzonda. Lokhu kuhlangana kumenza abe yi-Jedi yeqiniso. iNkosi ye-Rings, ngokungenzeki no-Frodo, ngokuveza ubuhlobo obunonyayo obudabukisayo. U-Gollum u-Fdo ungaba yilokho okungaba yi-Fro, futhi kubuye kube isihawulo."" ekufuneni kwakhe u-RFro" akazenzi ukuqaphela ubumnyama. Inkosi yodwa evumayo, ingumehluko wokwehluleka ukuzama ukulwa kwenkosi.

Abakhi Abahlukahlukene Abathutha Izakhiwo: Umbono WobuHolic NgoWalter White

Amaqoqo afuzukile kakhulu athanda ukulingana kahle ebhokisini elilodwa lengqondo. Kunalokho, ayazishintsha ngokunyenyiswa, ngezinye izikhathi ngokuphikisana, izisusa. Ukubona lokhu kusebenza, cabangela uWalter White we- we-Dacting Bad[, ubuntu obuguqulwayo kusukela kuthisha opholile ohamba ngemijovo kuya kumfundisi opholile wezidakamizwa uHeisenberg ususwe ngokungapheli. Inkolelo eyimfihlo iphupha ithathe isithombe esigcwele; ukuhlaziya okusongwe ngemicu kwembula ulwazi lwayo.

Nge- ilens enzima kakhulu [[FFT:1], iWalt iqhutshwa amashumi eminyaka yentukuthelo ecindezelayo nokulawula. Unxanela lwakhe lokulawula, kudala luchotshoziwe yi-emode enkulu eyamgcina emsebenzini wemedicocre, ikhipha isikhala esinqunyiwe kanye kanye kanye, iphawula indima yokuzisekela kwe-fFFFF:3, imfuyo ephumelelayo, inikeza imali ephumelelayo, ihloniphekile futhi ihlonipheke kakhulu. Ukwethuka kuka-Tucoced uvalo lwencwadi lokuvikela imfuno yakhe yeqiniso. [[FFFFONF:]] [effe] ihlala ikhona, njengoba ikhona: "imvuthu] iyazimela imfuyo engabonakali, imfuyodwa, futhi iyazihlonipha kakhulu. [indlela engabonakali kakhulu:]

Umsebenzi Owusizo Wokuhlaziya Ama - arc Angokwengqondo

Ukusebenzisa le mibono ekuzifundeleni noma ekuhlaziyeni kwakho ukubhala kudinga indlela ehlelekile. Umgomo awukona ukunciphisa umuntu abe umdlali ekuhlolweni kwendaba kodwa ukuveza umbono wangaphakathi onikeza isilinganiso esingokomzwelo. Sebenzisa izinyathelo ezilandelayo njengesiqondiso.

  • Imelela i-Arc’s Trathry: Uphawu luhamba lubheke ekukhuleni, ekubhujisweni, noma ethonyeni elisendaweni eseduze? Ibalazwe isiqalo nesiphelo sezifundazwe ukuze ubone isimo soshintsho.
  • Chaza iCore Roumoude noma Amanga: Yiyiphi inkolelo engamanga, okuhlangenwe nakho okubuhlungu, noma ukungadingeki okudingayo okubangela ukuziphatha kokuqala komdlali? Lokhu ngokuvamile kuyinjini yengqondo yesazi sesazi se-arc.
  • Ukulondoloza iMedensence Mechanisms nezindlela zokusebenza: Umdlali uzivikela kanjani ebuhlungwini? Ingabe usebenzisa ukwenqaba, ukufinyeza, ukuqapha, noma ukugwema? Hlola ukuthi lezi zinqubo zivumelana kanjani noma ziqiniswe kanjani ngendaba.
  • Isihluthulelo se-Analyze Amaphuzu ashintshayo: Ukubheka izikhathi zokungaqondi kahle, ukuphikisana nesithunzi, noma ukuqothulwa. Lezi yizigcawu lapho ukushintsha kwengqondo kubonakala khona.
  • Qhathanisa i-Arc to Izibalo: Khetha uhlaka olulodwa noma ezimbili ezikhanyisela uhambo lophawu. Ingabe i-arc ixhomeke empikiswaneni yangaphakathi (i-psycholiatic), ukuziphatha okunezimo eziqinile (beviaorism), noma ukufuna incazelo (esekelwe ku-status), kaningi, uhlanganisa incazelo ejulile yemfundiso nenkolelo-ngokokuziphatha ephezulu.
  • Balute iResolution’s Psychological Perfective: Ingabe isiphetho sizizwa sivunyelelwe amandla angokwengqondo owawabonayo? I-arc eqondile kufanele ibonise ukulungiswa kolwazi lweqiniso, hhayi nje i-epipheny esheshayo. I-header ephambene kufanele ilandele imiphumela eyinhlekelele kodwa enengqondo yezindlela zengqondo ezinganqanyulwanga.

Ngokuhlola umuntu ngalezi zinyathelo, uyodlulela ngalé kokubukeza okuwuchungechunge ungene ekuhlaziyweni okujulile okungachazeli nje kuphela ukuthi kwenzekani, kodwa isizathu sokuba kwakhe ithonya elihlala njalo.

Isiphetho: Ukuguquka Okuqhubekayo Kwabantu Abacebile Ngokwengqondo

Abalingiswa abaguquguquka kakhulu ngokomzwelo yilabo abasimangaza kakhulu ngabantu babo kuyilapho belandela iqiniso eliphawulekayo lengqondo. Amasu abo azizwa engenakugwenywa ngenxa yokuthi bayazinqumela, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi balandelela izindlela ezingokoqobo zengqondo yomuntu (ikhono lokuzilawula, ukulamba kwabo, ukumelana kwabo nenkani nokushintsha, kanye nokuphumelela kwabo okumangalisayo kokukhula. Ngokusebenzisa izakhi zengqondo, inkolelo, inkolelo yobuntu, ukunamathela, nokusebenza kobuhlakani obuyinhloko, siphakamisa ukuhlaziya kobuntu ekusebenziseni ikhono lokuhlakanipha ukuze sibhekane nalokho okushiwo yikho.

Kubabhali, ukuqonda lezi zakhiwo kuyithuluzi lokwakha abahogelayo. Kubafundi nakubebukele, kuguqula ukusetshenziswa kwemishini kube ukuthungatha izinto, kusenze sikwazi ukubona izimpi zethu siqu nokunqoba okufana nokuphila kwabantu bezindaba eziqanjiwe. Ingqondo evezwe esigaxeni somdwebo ihlala njalo, ngandlela-thile, ngokwethu.