Ukuya emhlanganweni we-amime okokuqala okokuqala kuxutshwa okunemibala emihle, i-colled, i-commong meding, nezinkulungwane zabalandeli abakanye nayo. Kodwa phakathi nombukwane, umcabango wokuqalisa ingxoxo ungasabeka ngendlela emangalisayo. Izindaba ezinhle? Imihlangano ye-Anime iklanyelwe ukuhlangana. Kusukela ngesikhathi ufaka ibhaji lakho, uzungezwe abantu abahlanganyela intshiseko yakho ngemibukiso efanayo, imidlalo, nophawu. Abangane abafuni italente ekhethekile. [[FLT:] Kulempi idinga nje ukulungiselela okuncane nokuzimisela ukuthatha indawo ngaphandle kwenduduzo yakho.[FLD:1] Kulesi siqondiso, siyonqamula izinhlelo ezingokoqobo zokuhlangana, ukuguqula ukuhlelwa kwemidlalo yangempela, ukuhlelwa kweposi kulandelelwane. [[FLD]

Beka Isisekelo Ngaphambi Kokuba Ufike

Ukwakha ubungane kuvame ukuqala kudala ngaphambi kokuba umhlangano uvuleke.

Khetha Umhlangano Ofanela Isikhumba Sakho

Akuyona yonke imibuthano ye-amime elinganayo. I-mega-event egcwele njenge-Anime Expo eLos Angeles inikeza izinkulungwane zababekhona nezimenywa, kodwa isikali esikhulu singenza izingxoxo zezinto eziphilayo zizizwe zingavamile. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izikhawu ezincane zendawo njenge-Nekocon noma i-Animariria zenza umoya oseduze kakhulu lapho uthanda ukugxambukela kubantu abafanayo ngokuphindaphindiwe. [[FLT: 0] Ucaba ngejubane lakho siqu lezenhlalo.[ Uma uchuma ezixhumeni eziphezulu, isigebengu esikhulu singaba ngcono. Uma ukhetha izingxoxo ezijulileyo ngaphandle kokuzizwa ulahlekile, ukuthatha indawo ephakathi noma indawo yomhlangano enikezelweyo. [FONT][FY][FON]

Ibalazwe Lomzila Wakho Wokuzijabulisa

Ungazivumeli ukuba ukuphila kwakho komphakathi kuvele ngengozi. Uma ulayisha uhlelo lomhlangano, zungeza okungenani izenzakalo ezimbili noma ezintathu eziklanyelwe ukuxhumana. Izindawo ezinezikhawu ze-Q&A ephilayo, i-cometup, amagumbi okudlala, namagumbi okuxuba asemthethweni ziyizimayini zegolide. Kodwa futhi shiya izizuku zesikhathi esikhululekile ngezikhathi ezizenzekelayo .A khofi i-ebose noma ukujeza nge-alley eklame ezingxoxo ezingalindelekile. Ukuvimbela isikhathi ukuba sibe khona nje ezindaweni ezivamile njenge-lobbse, lapho abantu behlangana khona ukuze baphumule futhi balinganise amaphuzu. [[FLT:]] yenza imikhawulo ekhululekileyo ehlelwayo ngezenzakalo zomphakathi ezihleliwe "ukuxoxisa amafasitela].[FLT]

Zihlobise Ngeziqalisi Zengxoxo

Okugqokayo nokuphatha kungaba yisimemo esithule. Ikholidi ngokusobala iyisidlali seqhwa esikhulu kunazo zonke, kodwa ngisho nokuthintana okuncane. Ama-pins, ama-kitchein, noma isikhwama esinezithombe ezibonisa uchungechunge lwakho oluthandekayo olubonisa izithakazelo zakho kwabanye abahlanganyela nazo. Uma ungenazo izimpahla ezibonisa izivatho, cabangela ukugqoka ucezu olucashile olubangela ilukuluku oluhlaba umxhwele oludala, "a t-shirt ukusuka emhlanganweni wesikhathi esidlule noma i-aim - lophawu olungavamile oluvame ukubangela “uthole kuphi?” Ngaphandle kwemicucu elula, ulungiselela imigqa embalwa evulekileyo ephansi. [[FLD:] imibuzo evusa amadlingozi njengenculo?” noma “Indiwe yakho uthanda iSail Moonnel [FF]?]

Imbewu Etshalwa Nga - layini Ngaphambi Kokuba Ufike

Ngaphambi kokuba upakishe izikhwama zakho, funa amaqembu ezenhlalo ezenhlalo asemthethweni. Izikhomfa zisebenzisa ama-Distorser, amaqembu e-Facebook, noma imicu e-Reddit (njenga r/i-Anecons[) lapho abakhona beshintshana khona namacebo, bahlela ukuhlangana, futhi bahlangane nenjabulo. Ziletha ngeposi elinobungane: phawula ukuthi yini obheke phambili futhi ubuze uma noma uthanda ukuhlangana neqembu elithile elithile noma ukudla kwasemini okuvamile. Le mishini yangaphambi kwe-temini iveza amagama futhi ivame ukuholela esimisweni sokuxhumana esishesha lapho ufika khona. Ungafuna futhi indawo ezindaweni eziseduze eziseduze kwenkondiwe yakho.

Ubuciko Bengxoxo Yokuqala

Uma usukhona emhlanganweni, inani elikhulu labangane ongaba liyobadumaza. Uzodlulisa amakhulu abantu, ngamunye ngendaba. Icebo liwukuyeka, ukhethe isikhashana, futhi uqale ukukhuluma. Nansi indlela yokwenza lowomzuzu wokuqala uzizwe ungokwemvelo futhi wamukelekile.

Sebenzisa I - cossing njenge - Magnet

Uma ugqoke ingubo, usukhethe ukubonakala. Bamba indiva ukuthi uyibona ngaluphi uhlobo. Uma othile encoma ikhodi lakho, sabela ngentshiseko yangempela :maybe uhlanganyela imininingwane esheshayo mayelana nendlela owenza ngayo iprop noma ukuthi kungani uthanda lolu phawu. Buza ukuthi ludlala futhi yini, noma yiluphi uhlobo lophawu oluthandwayo. Ngisho noma ungayithandi ingubo, ungahlanganyela ngezingubo ezikuzungezile. Ukukhangisa izingubo eziphambili cishe njalo kuholela engxoxweni enobunganeni. Gwema nje ukugxeka okungaqondile noma ukusho amazwi akho siqu; ujobe emcushweni nasemculweni. Izingubo ezifuze kakhulu, [FFFFOT] [2]

Ukulinda Kube Yinkulumo

Imigqa iyisinxuluma esifihlekile somphakathi wemihlangano yonke. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uqashela ihholo elikhulu, indawo ethandwayo, noma umbhalo oqoshwe ngezwi, unezilaleli ezithunjiwe zabalandeli abakanye nabo abanesithukuthezi noma abajabule njengawe. uqala ngokwenza ukuhlolwa okukhanyayo: [[FLT:] “Lomugqa uhamba ngokushesha kunangokulindelekile,” noma “Anginakukholelwa ukuthi amaDemon Slay Slay Cosbes alapha namuhla. Uma nje iqhwa licrick, likhona ngezinhlelo zabo ezithandwayo, uhlu lwebhakethi, noma noma iziphi izimpoqo ezingase zikhona. Ukulinda okungazelelwe ngokushesha futhi kwenza ngisho nokuthuka abantu ngabanye. Uma uthulula umthetho wokwenza uthule uzwane.

Dweba Iqhwa Ezindaweni Ezithulile

Akukhona konke ukuxhumana okwenzeka phakathi kwegumbi lomthengisi. Ukuthula kungathiwa i-nooks. njengengcweti ye-alley, indawo yomdlalo webhodi, noma i-allches enezintambo zemidlalo, nikeza ijubane elithatha isikhathi eside lapho izingxoxo zingachuma khona. Uma ubona othile ofisa ikhono elifanayo lokunyathelisa, ungakhuluma ngesitayela somdwebi noma ubuze ukuthi yiziphi ezinye izitatimende eziqoqiwe. Ebhodini izifunda zemidlalo, kuyinto ejwayelekile ukucela ukujoyina umdlalo entuthubeni. Imihlangano eminingi iye yakhetha ngisho “izindawo ze-chill” ezidinga abavakashiwe abadinga ukunqamuka kwemi; lezizindawo zimangalisayo ngabantu abajabulela ukuhlangana okukhululekile. [FLD:] [FLD] [0]

Ukuhileleka Ekugcineni Okujulile Komphakathi

Uma ukulungele ukuhlangana okuhlelwe kahle noma okungathandeki, imihlangano emikhulu inikeza izenzakalo eziklanyelwe ukuhlanganisa izihambi futhi zibangele izinkumbulo ezihlanganyelwayo.

Indawo Yohlu Nezindawo Zomsebenzi Ezithuthukisa Ubudlelwane

Khetha ama-pane agcizelela ukungenela kwezilaleli. Amabhukwana okudweba i-manga, i-wig sking, noma i-cossefing isithombe ngokuzenzakalelayo akubeke eceleni nabanye, usebenze emsebenzini ovamile. Ngisho nama-code-smeding control angasizana uma ufika ekuseni futhi uxoxa nomngane wakho wemigqa, noma ahlale ngemva kokubuza abahleli umbuzo ohluzekile noxhumanisa nothile olinde ukwenza okufanayo. ukuletha incwadi encane yokubhala [ ukugcwalisa iziphathi zemidaba yezokuxhumana noma amanothi ngalokho okwaziyo.]

Imishini Yokuxuba Engokomthetho Nezenzakalo Ezisheshayo

Izimo eziningi manje ezingenisa abantu abahlangana ngokukhethekile nabantu abakanye nabo. Umngane osheshayo usebenza njengejubane: uzungeza ngochungechunge lwezingxoxo ezimfushane. Kungase kungabi lula, kodwa khumbula bonke abanye basayina ngenxa yesizathu esifanayo. Ukuhlangana ngelukuluku futhi abambalwa bathathe imibuzo efana nethi, “Yini ekwenza ungene emotweni?” noma“ Yikuphi ukutusa okufihliwe?” Uma uchofoza othile, unganqikazi ukusikisela ukushintshisa i-Diord ziphawulo noma ukuhlangana kamuva enkantolo yokudla. [[FLT:] Beegp kodwa ungasunduzi;[FLD:] uma ukuxhumana kunomuzwa wokuxhumana? [WPNT]

Amagumbi omdlalo kanye nama-tabletop Handout

Kunomdlalo odlalwayo owenziwe ngezikhathi ezithile, owenzelwa ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo uphakathi kwezindawo zokucwaninga ezivamile ezivamile ezibekwe phansi kakhulu ezinhlanganweni. Noma yindingilizi yamakhadi amelene noLuntu, i-Super Smash Brots.meth, noma umdlalo weqembu elibambisanayo, udala umdlalo wecollet kamsinyane. Facus uqala ukudlala ngokuphazima kweso. Uyahamba uye etafuleni elinesihlalo esivulekile futhi ubuze, “Ngingahlangana na?” Amaqembu amaningi amukela umdlali omusha, futhi awudingi ukuba ube yisazi (*) futhi ufunda ndawonye uyikhokhakhakhakha. [[FLT:] Focus udlala ngokuzijabulisa kunokuba uwine, futhi uyoshiya itafula usanda ukuphumelela.[FLD [FK:1]

Amagundane, amadinari, Nokuzijabulisa Kwamuva

Izenzakalo eziphakeme njengedansi elinama-aimare, amagumbi okudansa, noma izikhawu ze-along ziyizinto ezimangalisayo ezilinganayo. Izigqi ezihlanganyelwayo, ukunyakaza okuwubuwula, nokucula ndawonye kukhulula ukukhululeka. Akudingeki ukuba ube umdansi omkhulu. Uma unamahloni, khetha indawo eseduze nonqenqenqema futhi ukhame unyawo lwakho; amathuba aseduze kakhulu kothile obekelwe ukuhlangana. Ukunyakaza kokuzinwana noma ukubuza ukuthi bazitholelephi izinti zemibala yabo. [[FLT:] [[FLT:]] Iphakamela: [[FLT:]], hlala uhamba uhamba umkhondo wempahla yakho, futhi ube nomhlangano nanoma yisiphi isimo esisha. Khumbula, uma uthola ukuthatha isigaba esingcono kakhulu.

Ukusuka Ekwazini Kuya Emnganeni

Ukuhlangana nothile kuyingxenye yohambo. Ukuqinisa ubungane − uhlobo oluthatha impelasonto yamabhodi — kulandelela ngenhloso.

Izibopho Ezijulile Phakathi Nekhonsathi

Uma usuqambene amagama, hamba ngalé kwenkulumo encane. Mema osanda kuhlangana naye ukuba athathe ukudla kwasemini, ahlangane nesithombe sekhossifidi, noma ahlole ikamelo lomthengisi ndawonye. Syugggeta, amapulani akhethekile, amasu aso agcwele isikhathi:[ “Iqembu lethu liya ku 3 p.m. ISikhungo, ungathanda ukuhlangana na?” Lokhu kunciphisa ukucindezela futhi kukwenze kube lula ngabo ukusho ukuthi yebo noma ukunikeza enye into. Buza imibuzo engcono kakhulu ngokuphila kwabo ngaphandle kwe-FLT: abafunda kuyo, ukuthi bahambaphi, noma bayahamba kuleyo ndawo ukuze bahlangane nobudlelwane obuqotho.

Iqembu Elihambayo Liyashintsha

Ungahlangana nothile oseyingxenye yeqembu lomngane eliqinile kakade. Kunokuba uzame ukuzihlukanisa phakathi, funa iphuzu lokungena elingokwemvelo. Bheka uma umuntu ephunyuka ukuze athole ukudla(-join) futhi athathe ingxoxo eyodwa. Emibuthanweni emikhulu, faka iqhaza ekuhlanganeni izingxoxo ngokuxoxa ngento ejabulisayo noma ngokubuza umbuzo, kodwa ungabusi. Umgomo uwukuba ube owenezelwe, hhayi ukuthatha isangqa. Uma uzwa ukuthi ucliquebes, nyakaza ngokuthokoza; hhayi wonke amaqembu ahambelanayo, futhi awenza kahle.

Phishekela Njengeprotheni

Umhlangano ungaphela, kodwa ubuhlobo obuqalile abudingeki. Phakathi nosuku olulodwa noma ezimbili, thumela umyalezo omfushane kunoma yisiphi isikhulumi owasishiya ```Discord'','i-Istagram, noma i-Twitter. Ukukhomba isikhathi esithile owasihlanganyela: “Kwakuwukuphuma ngenoyikhowe kuJujutsu Kaisen. Ingabe wagcina uzama leyo ndawo ye-anten?” Ugcine umsindo futhi ugweme ukuwufaka phambili ngemiyalezo eminingi. Uma uphendula ngokufudumele, ungasikisela umsebenzi oqhubekayo cishe nge Dhostornord, noma ujobe isikhulu seze isikhulu sezesiteshi esiphethe. Imihlangano eminingi inezisebenzi zomshini ezihlala zisebenza unyaka wonke; ungazithola [FLDRD:] [FDY][1]

Ukushintsha Ebuhlotsheni Bezwe Langempela

Uma nihlala eduze, kuhlolwa ukuhlangana okuphansi ekhefini, esitolo sezincwadi, noma ekuhlolweni kwezincwadi. Uma uqhelelene, hlela amaphathi okulinda anyanga zonke noma ubusuku bemidlalo ngengxoxo yevidiyo. Ukungaguquguquki kuyisihluthulelo; ngisho nokuhlola okufushane kwamasonto onke ngezinhlelo ezintsha kugcina ukuxhumana kufudumele. [ukubekezela] [ukubekezela] [izinyanga ezithile] ukuqinisa.[[ Umgomo ukuhamba ngalé kwegebeva futhi uhlanganisa inkanuko yakho ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ungahlela ngisho nokuya emhlanganweni olandelayo ndawonye.

Gwema Lezi Zithiyo Zobungane Obuvamile

Ngisho nezinhloso ezinhle zingaba nemiphumela ephambene uma ungazinaki izinyathelo zezenhlalo. Nazi izinyathelo ezivame kakhulu kanye nendlela yokuzigwema.

  • Ukuhlangana nothile ochofoza naye kungaba okujabulisayo, kodwa ukuzama ukulawula sonke isimiso sabo somhlangano kungadambisa ukudangala. Banike indawo yokuhlola bebodwa noma nabanye abangane. Uma bebonakala bephazamisekile, zithethelele ngesizotha futhi usikisele ukuphinda uphinde uphinde ubuye ubuye uvuselele.
  • [[NTL:0] Akubona ukuthi ukuqapha izingxoxo zomphakathi. Akubona yonke ingxoxo eholela ebunganeni, futhi kulungile. Uma umuntu enikeza izimpendulo ezimfushane, ugwema ukubhekana emehlweni, noma ujika ngokomzimba, uhloniphe umngcele wawo. Ngiyabonga ngokuxoxa futhi uqhubeke ngaphandle kokukuthatha ngokomuntu siqu.
  • Ingxoxo. Uthanda kakhulu i-ayime(*], ngakho yiyo! Qiniseka ukuba ulalele okungenani njengalapho ukhuluma. Buza imibuzo elandelayo futhi ubonise ilukuluku leqiniso ngemibono yabo. I-aloplydio ayivamile ukwakha ibhuloho.
  • Ukuqapha kakhulu. Nakuba ukwethembeka kuqabula, ukucwila ezimpini ezijulile zomuntu siqu noma izihloko eziphikisanayo phakathi nemizuzu eyishumi yokuqala kunganqoba umuntu ongamazi. Gcina izingxoxo zilula nezokugxilisa ingqondo; izihloko ezijulile ziyovela ngokwemvelo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uma ubuhlobo bukhula.
  • Zihlukanisela ukudlala izithombe. Ihholo lomhlangano ligcwele izingubo zobuchwepheshe ezikhangayo, eziphambili. Kulula ukuzizwa ungafaneleki. Khumbula, abasebenzi abaningi basebenza njengawe, futhi abaningi baqala ngezingubo zokugqoka ezilula. Intshiseko eqotho ishaya ukuphelela kobuchwepheshe njalo.
  • Ukuzihlupha. Ukuphelelwa amandla, indlala, nokuzifaka ngokweqile kungakuguqula ube yisidlakadlaka esiqinile. Ungathatha ikhefu njalo, udle ukudla okufanele, futhi uhlale ungenamanzi. Ukuphumula kahle kungeneka ngokungenamkhawulo.

Yakha Umphakathi Ohlala Njalo

Ukwenza abangane emihlanganweni emikhulu kungubungcweti obuthuthukisa ukuprakthiza. Ngisho nomzamo ngamunye ongakhuli ube yisibopho sokuphila konke. "ubuhlungu obuthile ngokuhlangana nabalandeli abakanye nawe.] uqala ngezenzo ezincane, eziqotho, ugubhe izinkanuko, futhi uzithobe lapho ungaziphathi ngendlela ehleliwe. [[FLD:1] ngokunokwenzeka uyothola ukuthi umhlangano uba indawo engaphezulu kokuthenga nokumemeza ngemigqa ehamba phambili; uba ukufika ekhaya, okuzungezwe abantu abakutholayo ngempela. Ngakho faka leyobheji, ungene esixukwini, futhi ukhumbule: Endaweni yalowo lwandle lwezingubo ezimibalabalalayo uhlangana kuyo.