Impi ishiya okungaphezu kokukhubazeka okungokomzimba; amanxeba ayo ajulile ngokuvamile angabonakali, agqitshwe izingqondo nezinhliziyo zalabo abasinda. Uchungechunge lwe-antime [[FLT: 0] uViolet Everver Foredie, esekelwe encwadini elula kaKana Akatsuki futhi enziwe isakhiwo esiphambili sikaKyoto ehloniphisayo, ethinta lezizibazi ezifihlekile ezithinta izimpawu ezingavamile. I-Violet Everververdien [[[FLL:1], ilandela i-Viole, eyayiyingane esayinwa i-impi eshiya imbobo engokomzwelo. Manje esebenza njengomuntu owesipopopola i-Doll , ohamba ngezincwadi ezibhalweyo ezibhalweyo ezinsukwini zempi, futhi ongaziqondisime ngendlela elimaza ngayo abantu abaningi, futhi osebenza kabuhlungu, futhi osebenza ngokusebenza kaningi ngokusebenza ngokudamba kweminye.

Kunokuba kugxile ekwakheni izikhali zempi, i-Violet Ever Forgean iphendula amehlo ayo ngaphakathi. Zonke izehlakalo zihlehla olunye ungqimba lwamanxeba angabonakali aphathwa yizinhlamvu zazo, abantu abangekho empini, nabantwana ngokufanayo, ukunikeza izibukeli ifasitela endaweni eyinkimbinkimbi engokwengqondo elandela ukuyeka umlilo. Ukunyakaza kwe-pagnthi, kuhlangene nesithombe esivuthayo nomculo onomsindo, kwakha okuhlangenwe nakho okungathandeki okusimema ukuba sihlale sinemizwelo engajabulisiyo isikhathi eside ngokwanele ukuba siqaphele ukuzwela kwethu. Enkathini yokusetshenziswa ngokushesha kwezokuxhumana, ukuma kwe-uzwela kwayo, ukuma kwezwisisa kwayo, kuzwakala ngendlela egcwele futhi edingayo.

Imiphumela Engokomzwelo Yengxabano: Akuwona Nje Ubuhlungu Bezigodlo

Ngokungafani nezindaba eziningi zempi ezihlela ukuvuseleleka kokunqoba ekubuyeleni emuva ekuphileni kwakhe okuvamile, uViolet Ever Fordual uyavuma ukuthi kwabaningi, “ngokuvamile” umqondo osuphelile. UViolet ngokwakhe ungumfanekiso ophilayo waleliqiniso. Uyinqaba nje ukuba asebenzise amagama afanayo awethu ngaphakathi. Uma uMajor Gilbert Bougainvillea, okuwukuphela komuntu owake wabonisa umusa wakhe, utshela ukuthi “ngiyakuthanda” onqenqenqeni lokufa kwakhe okubonakala kungukufa, inkulumo iba inqaba. Ukufuna kwakhe akuwona nje umzwelo; akuwona nje umzwelo; kuyinto efuna kakhulu ukuba azenzeke waze alwe yimpi.

Lolu chungechunge lubonisa lokho okuchazwa ukuthi ukusebenza kwengqondo kwanamuhla kuwukukhungatheka okuyinkimbinkimbi nokungahlangani. Ukungaqondi kukaViolet, ukuhluleka kwakhe kokuqala ukuchaza izimpawu zobuso noma ukudabuka okungokomzwelo, nokuthembela kwakhe ezimisweni ezicashiwe zezempi ngokuvamile kuboniswa abasinda ekuxhashazweni isikhathi eside kobuntwana noma ekuxhashazweni kwempi. Akamane abe nezinkumbulo afisa ukuzikhohlwa; akanawo amapulani angokomzwelo ahlelekile ukuze azenze. Njengoba ababuke, sibuka kancane kancane isakhiwo sakhe kusukela enhlangwini ye - [1] Uhlamvu olulodwa, izinyembezi eyodwa, ukuqhaqhamuka kanye ngesikhathi.

U-Claudia Hodgins, owayeyisikhulu sempi waguqula iposi umongameli wenkampani, ufaka icala lakhe labasindile ekubeni isosha elingapheli futhi isivikelo esinonya ku-Violet. Umfowabo kaGilbert uDiefried ubona izimbobo ngokucasuka, intukuthelo yakhe ifihla usizi olukhulu. Futhi amakhasime avakashela iCH Postal Company ngalinye lithwele ukulahlekelwa okuhlukile: umama owalahlekelwa indodana, umdwebi wemidlalo ofelwe yisifo sokuzibulala, intombazane encane ebhekene nesifo esibulalayo. Indaba inqaba ukunikeza ikhambiza elibukhali. Kunalokho, igcizelela ukuthi ukuphulukisa kuthatha izindlela eziningi zokulimala kwenhliziyo.

Amandla Ezincwadi Aphawulekayo

Phakathi kwenjini yendaba engokomzwelo yisenzo sokubhala izincwadi. Enkathini engaphambi kokuthumela imiyalezo ngokuphazima kweso, ukubhalelana ngesandla kwakuyintambo yokuxhumanisa, futhi iViolet Ever Forgage ivusa lomkhuba ukuba ube umphumela ophawulekayo. Kumakhasimende amaningi, akhuluma iqiniso ngokuzwakalayo; ukuhlala eduze kombhali onozwela olalelayo kuba yinyathelo lokuqala lokuxhumana. Inqubo iphinda izindlela zokwelapha zangempela njengendlela yokudayisa izibalo nokubhala, ukucwaninga okuye kwabonisa ukuthi izimpawu ze-PTSPTYSD [[FL:2] zibuhlungu kakhulu; ukuhlala eduze kombhali onozwela olalela nje abezwayo, abaxhasi beze baphinde babhale izindaba ezibangenisile.

UViolet ngokwakhe uzuza kakhulu kulokhu kushintshana njengalabo abakhonzayo. Ukukhuthaza imizwelo eqinile ukuba imfunekele ukubhekana nemizwa engakaze ayifunde. Kwesinye isenzakalo, ubhalela umama ofayo izincwadi efuna ukushiya imilayezo yezinsuku zokuzalwa indodakazi yakhe inwebe amashumi eminyaka esikhathini esizayo. Isabelo sifuna ukuba uViolet ahlale kumama omthandayo, futhi lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kuvula okuthile okuvulekile ngaphakathi kuye. Akakhaleli ngenxa yosizi lomkhaya kodwa ngenxa yokuthi useqala ukuzizwa kahle. Iwebhusayithi ye-Auto ` ichaza i-Auto Memory Doll njengalabo abakha imicabango yabantu, kodwa uchungechunge lwenza kucace ukuthi uDoll, unjalo, nayo inqubo.

Uhambo Lomuntu: Usizi, Umuzwa Wecala Nokufuna Ukuthi Ungubani

Nakuba Violet i-smake show, ububanzi obungokomzwelo u-Violet Ever Forgeew buphuma phakathi kwendawo yayo ehlangeneyo. Uphawu lwesazinge ngalunye lukhanyisa isici esihlukile sefa lezentengo zempi.

UGilbert Bougainvillea: Umthwalo Womvikeli

UGilbert omkhulu ukhona kakhulu ngenkumbulo, kodwa ukholelwa ukuthi ukuba khona kwakhe kuphazamisa yonke indlela. Isosha elisebenzayo elalibheka u-Violet njengelingaphezu kwethuluzi, lalwa necala lokuba libe naye empini ngisho nalapho limfundisa ukufunda nokukhuluma. Isinqumo sakhe sokuhlala efihlekile ngemva kwempi, likholelwa ukuthi ithonya lakhe lingamlimaza kakhulu, likhiphe uhlobo olusontekile lothando oluthi jwayekile, oluzifihlayo oluyisivikelo. Izihloko ezithi azimelani noma zigubhe lolukhetho, kunalokho zingaluvumela ukuba lungabuyisele njengombuzo: uthando lokungahlukani? uGilbert angaphinde aphinde aphume ezithombeni ezibuhlungu ezithi shwindizayo ezibonisa indlela yokuziphilisa okungavamile; nakuba kuyinto ejabulisayo, indlela ejabulisayo ehambisana nokwenza ucingo.

ULuculia I - Marlborough: Uthando Ngaphandle Kwegazi

Esenzeka sokuqala, uViolet usiza uLuculia, umfundisi we-Auto Memory Doll omfowabo uSpencer uyisilwi esinempi esiminyene ekuminzeni ekuphuzeni utshwala nasekuzizondeni. Icala likaSpencer lokuhluleka ukuvikela abazali babo okuhlangenwe nakho okuvamile, ukulimala kokuziphatha, umuzwa wokuphula izindinganiso zomuntu. Incwadi kaLuculia ayithethi noma ifune impoqo; imane nje iveza ukubonga ngokuba khona kwakhe. Isikhashana siphula igobolondo lokuvikela kukaSpencer, sibonisa ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi ikhambiso elinamandla kakhulu lokuthi nomuntu useyisekela ngokuthula ukuthi ukuphila kwakhe ngemva kokuqhuma kwezibhamu.

U - Oscar Webster: Ukuphelelwa Yithemba Kwengcweti

Umlobi wemidlalo odakiwe u-Oscar Webster, owaqanjwa kamuva, uphethe ubunzima bokulahlekelwa okuhlukile: ukufa kwendodakazi yakhe encane, azisola ngayo. Ukukhubazeka kwakhe kokwakha kubonakalisa ukuthuntutha okungokomzwelo okuvame ukuhambisana nosizi olunzima. Ngosizo luka-Violet lwesineke, wenza umdlalo wezingane oguqula ubuhlungu bakhe bube isipho kwabanye, usikisela ukuthi izimpawu zobuciko zingaba yisitsha sokudabuka ( [umqondo ohambisana nombono owenziwe ngabagxeki abagxekayo] njengomunye wemizuzu enyakazela kakhulu. Lapha, u-Violet ufunda ukuthi uthando aluzikhulumi kwabanye abantu, lungahleba ngezindaba ezinhle; lungahleba ngezindaba ezimnandi.

Ulimi Olubonakalayo Nomculo

Indaba yokulandisa komfanekiso weKyoto iphakamisa ukushaya kwemizwelo. Ukusayinwa kwale ndawo kusetshenziswa izibuko nombala hhayi ukuze kubonwe kodwa ukuze kube nozwela. Izenzakalo ezibonisa inkumbulo zivame ukucwebezela ngemibala ethambile, yegolide ezwakala ilula futhi ibuthakathaka, kuyilapho ukulandelana kwanamuhla kuxhomeke ekubukeni okuluhlaza okucwebezelayo okuvelayo, ukuveza ithemba elikhulayo eliphuma kumlotha. Izikhali zika-Violet ezisebenza ngomshini, ezinemininingwane egcwele, ziyisikhumbuzo sasikhathi sonke salokho akulahlekelwa yikho kanye nokulahlekelwa yimilenze kanye nobuntwana.

Izinkulumo zobuso zinobunzima obukhulu. U-Violet uqala uchungechunge ngobuso obufana nobufihla ubuso; ukuvela kancane kancane kwezimpawu ezincane kakhulu , ukutsheka okungaqondakali kwezindebe − kuba okushaqisa kakhulu kunanoma ikuphi ukuqhuma. Ukuzithiba komzimba kwenza izibukeli zinciphe, zifune izimpawu zoshintsho lwangaphakathi. Kuyiklasi eliphambili ekuthi “bukisa, ungasho.”

Inamandla afanayo i-Evan Call’s rood. Ingoma efana nethi “Ungalokothi Ubuye Uze Uphinde Ube Ngumqemane” ilungisa izintambo zeokhestra ngemidwebo ethambileyo ukuze yakhe i-allable eveza i-arcs. Umculo awulokothi unqobe; kunalokho, uphefumula ngezimpawu, uvuvuka phakathi nezikhathi ze-catharbarss futhi uphumele ekuthuleni okuzolile lapho amazwi ehluleka. [FLL: 0] ukuhlaziya okuculile okubonisa indlela ucingo olusetshenziswa ngayo ukuhlanganisa izihloko, ugcizelela umqondo wokuthi ngisho nezinkumbulo ezibuhlungu zingahlelwa yisiciko esinengqondo. Umphumela uyoba ukuzwa nokuzwa umsindo okubonakalayo kanye nokucutha kwenhliziyo yethu.

Izincwadi Njengebhuloho Phakathi Kwamazwe Akude

Kusukela ezingeni lezesayensi yezenhlalo, uViolet Ever Foredual uphikisa ngokuthi ukuxhumana kuyingcina eyisisekelo yomphakathi wangemva kwempi. I-nethiwekhi yeposi ngokwayo iba uphawu lokuphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde ihambe. u-Claudia Hodgin uqobo lwayo luba uphawu olusuka enhliziyweni oluphathelene nokubaluleka kokuhambisa izinhlamvu zezinhlamvu zezinhlamvu zencwadi. Uchungechunge lulingisa lolu hlelo oluseduze: incwadi ngayinye enikezwayo iwukunqoba okuncane okungahlangani kwempi.

I-Autooc Memory Dolls isebenza, empeleni, njengabalamuleli bobulula. Bakhonza abantu abangezwani ngokomzwelo, abanyanzelwa ngokwesiko, noma abakhathele kakhulu ukuba bafumane amazwi abo siqu. Lokhu kubonisa indima yochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo, abadala bomphakathi, noma ngisho abangane abathenjwayo ezikhathini zosizi oluhlanganyeneyo. Ngokuveza indlela engokomzwelo, zenza ukuba ifinyelele kungakhathaliseki ikilasi, imfundo, noma ubulili.

Izihloko ezifihlwayo Zezwe Langempela Nesidingo Se-Empathy

Nakuba iViolet Ever Fordual isenzeka endaweni yamaphupho, amaqiniso ayo angokomzwelo avumelana namaqiniso agciniwe. Ukucwaninga kwanamuhla kuqinisekisa ukuthi ukungathathi nhlangothi zombilini kungabhebhethekisa ukusebenza kokuzivikela komzimba; ukuthi ukubhala okushukumayo kungathuthukisa ukusebenza komzimba wokuzivikela; futhi ukubuyisana ngemva kwempi kuxhomeke kakhulu ekulandiseni − isenzo esilula sokulandisa nokuzwa. Loluchungechunge lumema izibukeli ukuba zidlulise izifundo zalo ngaphandle. Zingaki izifundi ezithi ze-Violet Everdies ezihamba phakathi kwethu, ezingabonakali ezihlupheni zazo? Impendulo ikhuthaza isiko sokulalelana, lapho siba ofakazi bezindaba zomunye kunoma iziphi izikhalo ezibonisa ukuphelelwa isineke.

Ukusingatha kwayo ngesineke izimpawu ezifana ne-PTSD nakho kunengxenye ekuqedeni izibazi zengqondo kodwa ngokufunda ukuphila ngokuhlonipheka. Uma u-Violet eduma ngenxa yokuthi izwakala njengombayimbayi, noma lapho uSpencer ebhoboza ngentukuthelo ukuze afihle amahloni akhe, ukulandisa akuyinciphisi ukuba iphule izinto ezidinga ukulungiswa. Kunalokho, kubonisa ukuthi ukuphulukiswa akubangelwa ukudambisa izibazi kodwa ukufunda ukuphila ngokuhlonipheka. Umbiko wodwa wenza [[FLT: 0] [FLT]] I-Everbedity i-olet] inzuzo yezingxoxo eziphathelene nokunakekela nomphakathi.

Isizathu Sokuba “Ngikuthanda” Ngisenendaba

Ngemva kwakho konke ukuhamba kwakhe, isambulo sokugcina sikaViolet silula ngokukhohlisayo: “Ngifuna ukwazi ukuthi uyini umkhiqizo.” Ezweni elivame ukuphatha uthando njengomhlobiso wesakrasi, loluchungechunge lubuyisela amandla aso adonsela phansi. Uthando, njengoba uViolet ethola, akuwona umuzwa owodwa kodwa iqoqo lezinkanyezi (ukuvikela, ukudabuka, isiguli, ngezinye izikhathi ulaka, ngezinye izikhathi kuthule. Liyithonya eliphoqa umama ukuba abhale izincwadi zezinsuku ezingamashumi amahlanu, umzalwane ukuba abhodle ehlolweni likadadewabo, isosha ukuba ahambe ukuze ahambele lowo amthandayo angazithola izinyawo zakhe.

Impi iphazamisa uthando ngazo zonke izindlela ezicatshangelwayo. Ihlukanisa izithandwa, ihlupha imikhaya, futhi ifundisa abantwana ukuthi uthando luwubuthakathaka. Ngokunikezela lonke ukulandisa kwalo ekuphishekeleni isisho esisodwa, esinzima, Violet EverGriede [ igcizelela ukuthi ukuvuna uthando kuyisenzo esikhulu kakhulu esingenziwa ngomuntu osindayo.

Isiphetho: Umsebenzi Wokuphulukisa Ongachithwa

IViolet Ever Fordual ayipheli ngezwe elihlengiwe. Izimpawu zisaxhuzula, zisavuke emaphusheni amabi. Kodwa azisaqali zodwa. Isipho esihlala njalo saloluchungechunge siwukubonakaliswa kokuphulukiswa kwazo njengenqubo eqhubekayo, eqhubekayo, inqubo eqhubekayo ("one""eadern formation, message, nenkolelo elukhuni yokuthi inhliziyo edambile ingafunda ukushaya futhi. Kubantu, sisebenza kokubili njengesibuko nebhaka. Sibona amanxeba ethu siqu afihlekile eboniswa kuleziziquluko ezibonisa imibala emibala, futhi sikhunjuzwa ukuthi amathuluzi akhona kuzo, inkulumo, ukuxhumana, ukuxhumana, ukuhlangana nathi.

Enkathini yomsindo ongapheli kodwa ewukuxhumana okuncane okuqotho, iViolet Ever Foredue inikeza inguquko ethulile. Ifa layo alitholakali kuyifilosofi enkulu kodwa esimweni esilula, sesibindi sokutshela omunye ukuthi, “Awuwedwa.” Lo myalezo, odluliswe ngekhono elihle nangendaba enzulu, wenza ukuba kube umsebenzi obalulekile kunoma ubani ofuna ukuqonda intengo engokomzwelo yempi nobuhle obunamandla bomoya womuntu.