Izithuba zamanani ziguqule indlela ufeyi-moya odibanisa ngayo, ukunceda iincoko ezikhawulezileyo kuwo wonke amazwekazi. Kodwa, kuko konke ukunceda kwe-folum, amaqela onxibelelwano, kunye nokuqukuqela kwamatheko e-web sisixhobo esingundoqo esingekhoyo. Isikrini asinakufana nobushushu bomntu ohlekisayo kwi-pub ephithizelayo, amandla ombane okhuphisanayo owenziwe ngomdla, okanye ukuthuthuzela okuzolileyo kokudibana nomntu oqonda ngokwenene inkanuko yakho. I-afly arplup ne-person yembutho ye-ops zizalanisa elo cebo, ukuphoyitha kwengi yengi yoluntu kuphela okungenakuzixhasa. Ngexesha [[FLT:] ukukhala kobulolo olungaphezulu kwembuthozo oluqhelekileyo, isenzo esilula sokuzisa abantu esihamba emkhathini siyakwazi ukuqwalasela oku, kuvavanyaza oku kuvavanya oku kunyaka oku, kutheni, kuqwane, kuba kuqwane, kuba kuqwala icebo lokuhlala ixesha elithe ngaphaya kwembutho, kwaye kuqhubeke.

Ixabiso lonxulumano olukwi Peerson

Iingcali zengqondo zigxininise ixesha elide uqhagamshelwano phakathi kobuso nobuso kunye nentlalo-ntle. Unxibelelwano lwangoku lubangela ukhupho lwe-oxytocin, ihomoni enxulunyaniswa nokudityaniswa nokuthemba, ngeendlela zokuba unxulumano lwezibhalo nevidiyo lusoloko lungaphumeleli ukwenza. Uphando olusuka ku . Julianne Holt-Lunstad lubonisa ukuba ulwalamano olunamandla loluntu lunganyusa isantya sokusinda ukuya kutsho kuma-50%, ukwenza unxulumano lokwenene lwehlabathi lube luncedo olunzulu. Xa imifuno idibana nomntu, ibandakanya zonke izimvo zawo, iintetho ezivakalayo, izabelana ngokwabelana iintetho zomzimba kunye nokuqondana kolwano oluphakathi kweqela.

Kuluntu olunamalungu alungelelanisayo, olu bunzulu buguqulela kwiziphumo ezininzi ezibonakalayo. Ubuhlobo obuqala ngokuthanda uthotho lwe sci-fi okanye umsetyenzana womsebenzi wobugcisa busoloko buhamba ngaphaya komphezulu wencoko. Oonongendi bachaza ukuphuma kwemizwa yokudibana nokuziva unamandla, umahluko kusetyenziso olulula oluchaza uninzi lobomi bamanani. Ezi ziganeko zikwanyusa iziganeko zobugcume; ilungu elitsha lingadibanisa nomququzeleli onobuchule phezu komdlalo okanye ikofu, ukunyusa ingqiqo yokuba lize iplatfomu likwazi ukwakha iinyanga. Ezi ndibano zisebenza njengee-ankile, ziguqulela ukuqokelelwa okungadluliswayo kwabathandi kubomi boluntu, abantu abaphila, abaphefumlyo.

  • Umanyano olungaphakathi: ubuso nobuso bentshukumo kubangela ukuba iindlela zokuthembana zisebenze, ukunceda amalungu azive ekhuselekile ngokwaneleyo engqondweni ukuba abelane ngamabali obuqu neengcamango.
  • Indalo ekwinkumbulo: iquka amava ```impahla yempahla'''', ukhuphiswano lwempahla ekhoyo, ukwenziwa komsebenzi ophilayo, iqela lomfanekiso----iqela lezinto ezisetyenziswayo ngabathathi-nxaxheba ukubhekisa kwiminyaka.
  • Ukungabikho kwemibhobho yexesha lokwenene: intlahlaza ye-Ideas ngokuzenzekelayo ngexesha lokuncokola okungacwangciswanga, nto leyo ekhokelela kwintsebenziswano njengesixhobo sokuxhasa, imisebenzi yesisa, okanye uthotho lwezingqubano.
  • ukunikezelwa kwemali nenkxaso: Iqela lasekuhlaleni lisoloko lisiba yinkxaso engacwangciswanga, iziganeko eziphambili zobomi bamalungu kwaye linika uncedo ngexesha lobunzima.

Iindidi Zonxulumano Ezimanyanisa Abantu

Iziganeko ezinomtsalane zahluka-hlukene njengezinto ezinomdla kuzo. Ukuqonda uludwe lweefomati kunceda abaququzeleli bakhethe indlela efanelekileyo yokufikelela abaphulaphuli babo kunye nezinto zabo. Ngoxa iindibano ezinkulu zibamba imixholo yezihloko, ukubetha kwentliziyo yoluntu kudla ngokuhlala kwiimbutho ezincinane neziphindaphindwayo.

  • Indibano yeskanunu esikhulu: Le mithendeleko yemihla emininzi, njengeengozi zohlazo, ukubhenca, okanye imidlalo yokudlala, zitsala amawaka abeze kwintlanganiso. Zibonisa iindawo zolawulo, iindwendwe ezichwethezayo, iigcisa, kunye nentengiso. Isikali sidala umoya we carnival, kodwa unxibelelwano olusondeleyo lungadibanisa ukudibana nonxulumano lwe-greet loungs, iintlanganiso zesantya se-apply, okanye iintlanganiso ze-com-com-compons ezidis kwindibano yokukhuthaza iintambo ezinzulu.
  • Ingqungquthela eqhelekileyo: Iveki ngeveki okanye iimbutho zenyanga kwivenkile yekofu, kwipub, kwithala leencwadi, okanye kwipaki zisisiseko sesixhobo se-fandom esiqinileyo. Ezi zisenokuba yiqela lencwadi ye-sci-fi yeplanga, inqambhi yomdlalo, iqela le-K-pop lokudaya, okanye “incoko ephezulu” ngeziselo. Uxinzelelo oluphantsi nokufumaneka kakhulu kuzenza zibe amanqaku aphezulu okungena kwabatsha.
  • [[UMTL:0] Izixhobo ezikhoyo: ukusuka kwizixhobo zokudlala ukuya kwintlanganiso zesixhobo sokudlala, iziganeko zokwakha ubuchule zitsala amalungu afuna ukufunda kwabanye. Ezi ndawo zokusebenzela indawo yoluntu njengendawo yokukhula, hayi nje indawo yokuncokola, kwaye zidla ngokuzoba kwinxaxheba ezinokuba neentloni malunga neziganeko ezinyulu zebutho labantu.
  • Amatheko adityanisiweyo nemibhiyozo: ukhupho amatheko okuphulaphula, ungcelele lohlolo oluphelayo, okanye ibhola edlala idlala idlala umoya wombhiyozo. Basoloko bekhuthaza ukunxiba nokuyila, benika abalandeli ithuba lokubonisa iitalente zabo baze bomeleze ukuba bakhona kwiqela.
  • Izidibanisi-embindini: Ezinye ingingqi zoluntu ngokwenza okulungileyo kunye. Ukutyelela izibhedlele zabantwana, ipaki yokucoca, okanye ukuxhasa ingxowa-mali kudibanisa amalungu athengiselwano ngokudibanisa injongo eyahluleleneyo ngaphandle kwe-fendom ngokwayo, ukomeleza uphawu lwangaphandle lweqela.

Ukuceba Iziganeko Eziphumelelayo ukusuka Kwingcaciso Ukuya Ekucoceni

Ukujika icebo elilungileyo libe yimeko ecwangcisiweyo, engenakulibaleka kufuna ucwangciso olucacisiweyo. Ngexa uluntu ngalunye luneemfuno zalodwa, inkqubo yocwangciso ecwangcisiweyo igcina uxinzelelo lusebenza kwaye iziphumo zinomtsalane. Sebenzisa amaqonga anjenge Imeetpup kunye [FLT]] ne [FLT] I-Mettbrite[[FLT:]]] ukuqukuqela ii-lineltistics, kodwa ukuchukumisa komntu kuhlala kusisibaso sisazi somahluko omkhulu.

Chaza Injongo Yakho Nomntu Oza Kumphulaphula

Phambi kokubhala indawo, kucaciswe isizathu sokuba udibana. Ingaba injongo ikukubhiyozela ixesha lokuqala, ukubhiyozela incopho enkulu ye-fandom, okanye ukwakha ubuchule bokuyila? Ukubhala uchazo olulula lothumo-"" Oku kudibana kunxulumene nabalandeli be-amime yasekuhlaleni kumboniso nengxoxo yenyanga" "izigqibo malunga nobume, isandi, kunye nonyuselo. Ukwazi inani labaphulaphuli bakho (uluhlu, iimfuno zohambo, uqingqo-mali) kukunceda ukhethe isithuba esifikelelekayo, esinentabalala.

Khetha i Venue efanelekileyo kunye nobuchule Besikhombisi

Qwalasela umbilini, indawo yokuhlala, imigangatho yengxolo, ukumisa, nokufikelela koluntu. Amathala eencwadi, iindawo zoluntu, kunye nezithuba zokusebenza kunye zisoloko zinika amagumbi okuhlala akhululekileyo okanye asezantsi, ngelixa indawo egciniweyo kwivesi ingasebenza kumaqela angaphantsi kwe-20. Ngamaxesha onke ukuqinisekisa iimfuno ze-inshorensi; ezinye iindawo zingafuna ubungqina betyala, ezinokufunyanwa ngokungabinaxabiso lininzi ngemiqathango ye-inshorensi. Imaphu igamephu yokuhamba: itafile yokukhangela, izihlalo, iindawo zokuhlala, iindawo zokusebenza, iindawo zokuphuma. Ukuba kulungiselelwa ukutya, imibandela yokutya kunye nezinto eziphazamisa imo-yo. Okokugqibela, yenza isicwangciso esilula semeko yemozulu (ukuba ngaphandle) okanye ubugcisa.

Qeqesha Isiganeko Sakho Ngokunyaniseka

Ixhomekeke ngaphezulu nje kwiposi yencoko yababini. Iqela le Facebook elikhoyo, ii-fendom forums, iiseva zeDisdorter, kunye neqela lengingqi. Imiyalezo yobuchule ethetha kwi-Facebook itsalwa ngokweemvakalelo: “Yiphile ixesha olithandayo ukusuka kwixesha lokugqibela kunye nabaxhasi abayifumanayo.” Indlu kunye neevenkile zamahlaya zasekuhlaleni, iincwadi zencwadi, okanye izitore zomsebenzi wokuzonwabisa ukubonisa ababhadli okanye abanqamlezileyo. Ividiyo emfutshane okanye umfanekiso wefoto evela kwi-mesup ingadibanisa iinkcukacha ezicacileyo: umhla, ixesha, indawo, iindleko (ukuba kukho ikhonkco), irekhodi (ukuba kukho) kunye nephetshana lokufikelela.

Imisebenzi Yeplani Ebandakanyekileyo

IBrame ilwa ngokuthula okungaqhelekanga. Abahluli-ayisi bomlondi njenge “inyaniso ezimbini kunye nobuxoki” kunye nojikelezo lwesixhobo sokujika-jika zingafudumeza igumbi. Ukudibanisa ixesha elicwangcisiweyo nelikhululekileyo. Kwibhodi yomdlalo, ichaza iitafile ezimbalwa ezifundisa imidlalo yabatsha. Kwiqela lencwadi, ilungiselela imibuzo embalwa ephelisiweyo. Ngamaxesha onke inomlungisi okwazi ukulungisa izinto ngokucokisekileyo ukugcina izinto zidibene. Qwalasela umsebenzi woluntu ovelisa into ethile --at sythmeothm, ucelomngeni lweqela lemifanekiso efundisa abatsha, okanye ukufotahlulwa kwencwadi.

Ukuqokelela nokuqokelela ukutya

Kwiyure ezingama-24 emva kwesiganeko, thumela uphando olufutshane (Google Mafomu asebenza kakuhle). Buza oko kusebenzayo, oko kwakuvakala kungaqhelekanga, noko bakuthandayo ngokulandelayo. Nokuba usebenza ngobuninzi obuphindaphindiweyo, ubuthathaka obuncinane (ukutyikitya okungcono, igumbi elizolileyo, igumbi lokubonisa ixesha elizayo, ukwenza amalungu azive. Ngokuphandle abelane “uthetha, saphulaphula” umqulu wokwakha ubuni kwaye ubonisa ukuba uzinikele kwindaleko yoluntu.

Ukwakha Uluntu Oluzinzileyo Ngaphandle Kwemibutho Enye

Isiganeko esinye singabangela uvuyo, kodwa uluntu olusempilweni luzihambela kakuhle ngokungaguquguqukiyo kwaye lwabelana ngokwazi. Ukuguqula abantu abakhoyo babe yinxalenye yesizwe esinyanisekileyo, izakhiwo ezigcina abantu bedityaniswe phakathi kwezixhobo zokungquzulana kunye nokunika izibonda kwikamva leqela.

Yakha Isiganeko Esiqhelekileyo

Uqikelelo luthoba umqobo wokuya. Ikofu edityaniselwayo nyanga nganye ngoMgqibelo wesithathu okanye ngobusuku obuphuma iveki ngeveki ivumela amalungu acwangcise kusengaphambili ngoLwesine. Xa ubomi buxakekile, isingqi esiphindaphindiweyo sithetha ukuba iqela lihlala liphezulu ngaphandle kokunyuselwa ngogonyamelo. Tsalela ikhalenda kawonke-wonke kwiwebhsayithi yakho okanye kwimijelo yoluntu ukuze liqinise isibopho.

I-evercage Online Platforms njenge “Digital Foyer”

Dala i-intanethi enikezelweyo ``I-Disord' server'.', iqela le-Facebook elizimeleyo okanye indawo ehlala abantu abangaphiliyo(a apho iincoko ziqhubeka zingenazinto.) Yabelana iifoto kwiziganeko ezidlulileyo, jonga imisebenzi ezandulelayo, ze uvumele amalungu athumele imizobo yawo. Lo maleko wemivo ugcina uluntu lufudumele phakathi kweentlanganiso kwaye yenza kube lula kubantu abatsha ukuzichaza phambi kokuba beze kumntu.

Ukhokelo lwamatsha - ntliziyo olunobugocigoci

Umntu omnye akanakuthwala bonke ubunzima ngokungapheliyo. I-Recruit co-organitors okanye iseka iqela elincinane labakhokeli. Chaza iindima ezicacileyo: unxibelelwano lonxulumano, isikhokelo sonxibelelwano lwentlalo, umyili wezomsebenzi, i-greeter. Imisebenzi yokudityaniswa ithintela ukudinwa nokukhutshwa kweengcamango ezintsha. Xa amalungu ebona ukuba anokuphembelela indlela yeqela, ukuzinikela kwawo kuyakhula. “ikomiti yeshumi elinesibini” elula isebenza imimangaliso yokunxibelelana.

Ukusebenza noshishino lwasekuhlaleni

Iinqanawa zonxibelelwano zidala ixabiso lomntu wonke. Ikhefi yebhodi yobulali inganika intengo yetafile yeqela lakho etshintshiweyo ngenxa yendlela eqinisekisiweyo yeveki ngeveki. Ivenkile ehlekisayo inganika intsayino okanye ibonise i-meya yakho. Olu nxulumano lulawula uluntu kwizoqoqosho zasekuhlaleni kwaye lusoloko lukhokelela ekuxhaseni iinqanawa ukwenzela amabhaso okanye ulungiso. Ngamaxesha onke kuqinisekisa ukuba naliphi na ilungiselelo lihambisana nomoya odibene neqela.

Yiphawule Iminikelo Nezinto Ezinkulu

Izibaso ezinika amandla ziyaqhubeka zithengiselwana. Dumisa amalungu akhutheleyo kumaphephandaba okanye kwizithuba zoluntu. Yenza umhla wokuzalwa kweqela ngendibano ekhethekileyo. Imiqondiso encinane(ii-scrom partings, iibheji, okanye “i-MVP exhobisayo" isatifiketi se-Mcommony MV” esibonisa ukuba loo migudu ibalulekile. Ngaphezu kokuba ugqalwa, ukhuthazo luqinisa isithethe soluntu esinento exatyisiweyo nelindelekileyo.

Iingxaki Zokulungelelanisa Iziganeko Zasekuhlaleni Nendlela Yokuzilungisa

Kwanabona baququzeleli banehlombe badibana nemiqobo. Ukucinga ukuba imiqobo iqhelekile nokulungiselela iindlela zokulungisa imilinganiselo yokuziphatha kugcina umgangatho ophezulu kwaye uluntu lungachukumi.

Inkcitho yemali nohlahlo-lwabiwo-mali olufanelekileyo

Imali isoloko iphambili kuluhlu lwengxaki. Irente yerente, izibonelelo, kunye nezinto zonyuselo zidityaniswa. Isiqalo sixhomekeke: izithuba zoluntu ezikhululekileyo, ukuhlawula ukutya okukhoyo, kunye nemisebenzi yamatsha - ntliziyo. Ukuba ufuna imali, cela iminikelo yokuzithandela “ngokudlula kwingqayi okanye ingqayi ye-intanethi. Amaqonga ancedisa kwiziganeko ezinkulu zaminyaka le, kodwa ngamaxesha onke achaza kakuhle indlela eya kusetyenziswa ngayo imali. Enye indlela kukufuna i-microscoooooood shards kumashishini asekuhlaleni axabisa ukuchatshazelwa kweqonga lakho.

Ubuchule bokusebenza kunye nokhuseleko lokusebenza

Ukudibanisa imihla, imvume, kunye nezixhobo kungagquma iqela elincinane. Sebenzisa izahlulo ezabelweyo okanye izixhobo zolawulo lweprojekti ezifana ne Trello kwimisebenzi. Kwizithuba zikawonke-wonke, khangela ukuba ufuna imvume yesandi esinyusiweyo okanye ukuthengisa. Amaxhala okuzimela yinto yokwenene; kwanento yokudibana nje ingabonisa abaquququzeleli ukuba basengozini. Imibutho emininzi yeambrela ineeambrela zikhona. Ngokungathi kunjalo icandelo le-frentshi okanye ilungiselelo lokuxhasa i-inshorensi ekhoyo.

Ukuthatha inxaxheba nokuququzelela

Ulwaleko olusezantsi olusezantsi, kodwa lunqabile. Inxalenye yesisombululo ayiguquguquki, intsebenziswano eninzi yezorhwebo kwiiveki, hayi iintsuku. Yenza ungxamiseko ngezikhumbuzo zentshontsho zakudala zezezehlo “zizisa umhlobo” kwaye zikhuthaze iingshukumisa. Iposi iziphumo ezibonisa ulonwabo lwabanye. Okufanayo kubalulekile amava ngokwawo: ukuba abantu baziva bemkelekile, babuyela baze bazise abanye. Yabele i-greeters ezamkelekileyo, zibazise kwiindlela eziqhelekileyo, zenze zibonise imbonakalo ekhawulezileyo. Umyalezo olula olandelayo emva kwesiganeko sabo sokuqala (“uvuye, .----------heeyena u-fay'foto yeqela!")) inokuguqula umhambi wentente ukuba abekho.

Ukhuseleko, ukuxinana, nemigaqo yehambo

Zonke iinqobo kufuneka zicwangcise ukhuseleko. Kuwonke wonke, kubekwa ikhowudi ecacileyo yehambo echaza izinto ezilindelweyo ngokuphathelele ukukhathazwa, intetho yentiyo, kunye nesimilo esinentlonelo. Ukunyulwa kwesikhokelo sokhuseleko abakhoyo abanokufikelela kuso ngexhala. Ukuba kunikwa ukutya, isalatha-schemes. Iziganeko zangokuhlwa, ziqinisekisa iindlela ezilula zokumisa okanye ukulungiselela iqela ukuba lihambele ukuya kudlula. Ekuvuselweni kwemikhwa yezifo ezimandundundu, amaqela amaninzi ngoku aquka imithetho yempilo efana nokufihla isigqubuthelo okunganyanzelekayo nokucela amalungu agulayo ukuba ahlale ekhaya. I- Inclusylussion ikwathetha ukufumaneka ngokwamandla omzimba . /ikhangela ukuba indawo eneentambo ezifikelelekayo, izihlalo, kunye nendawo yokuhlalisa imizimba yonke.

Ukudinwa Nokuceba Ngokuzithandela

Abaququzeleli abagqithisileyo badla ngokuzidiliza kakhulu kwiziganeko. Beka imida kwangoko: chaza iyure esengqiqweni yeveki nganye, kwaye ungaze wenze impumelelo yoluntu oluxhomekeke kumntu omnye. Iinkqubo zoxwebhu ukwenzela ukuba amatsha amatsha amatsha amatsha amatsha angene ngokucocekileyo. Thobela namagama afakiweyo; xa umququzeleli wexesha elide eqhubeka, inika imbeko yawo kwaye yenza isithuba sokhokelo olutsha. Uluntu olunenkxaso lungaxhasa ukufuduka kwawo nawuphi na umntu.

Impembelelo Ebanzi Yokudibana Kwabantu Ngezithethe Zasekuhlaleni

Ngapha kwesangqa esikhawulezileyo sabathathi-nxaxheba, ezi ndibano zinyusa ulwakhiwo lwengingqi ezihlala kulo. Ubusuku obuziphindaphindayo kwiverhe yomdlalo kwiventi yevenkile zinika ingeniso engaguqukiyo kuLwesibini oluzolileyo. Umfanekiso wefilimu ehamba kwipaki yasekuhlaleni uchaza abahlali besuka kwintetho edala kwaye intlantsi yomdlalo-mdla. I-Fanbosparts iba ziindawo zokungena abantu abatsha kwisixeko, ibanceda bafumane ulwazi nonxulumano olukhawulezileyo. Kwixesha apho 36% yabemi base-Melika inikela ingxelo yobulo olunzulu ngobulolo, ngokweKhafulksi yemfundo yezemfundo [[FTLT:]] [FLD]], la maquansdy [FLT], la maqumrhu angabantu abangezondyezondyezo zoluntu.[12]

Amaqela amaninzi anamava asoloko ebuyisela emva: ukulungiselela imisinga yoncedo, ukunikela ngokuzithandela kwiindawo zokufihla intloko, okanye ukusebenzisa ubuchule bawo bokwenza izinto ukuze kukhanyise uluntu. Oku kuguqula inginginya yesixhobo izenze amandla afanelekileyo aziwayo, atsale inkxaso ebanzi evela kurhulumente wasekuhlaleni nakumajelo eendaba. Impembelelo yokubheja inokuba yenzulu, iguqulela umdla kwinxalenye edumileyo yeempawu zasekuhlaleni.

Ukukhangela Kwikamva: Imfuneko Ehlala Ihleli Yonxibelelwano Lokwenene

Izixhobo zamanani ziza kuqhubeka zijikeleza, kunye nemifanekiso eshukumayo exubileyo .Xa i-applican ifunyaniswe ngumsinga we-inthanethi ofana ne-"iya kuba yinto eqhelekileyo. Kodwa inkanuko engundoqo yomntu yokuhlala ngaphaya komntu, ukuhleka emoyeni omnye, nokuhlala entweni enye, nokuze ibe yeyomntu obonakalayo ayisayi kuphela. Abalandeli abazirhuqayo bephuma ngaphandle komnyango ngeveki enemvula basoloko befumanisa ukuba loo yure zimbalwa zivuselela umoya wabo iintsuku. Abaquququzeleli abaceba ngenyameko, abazimisele ukuzenzela izinto, kunye nenkathalo yokwenyaniso bakha iintsapho ezikhethekayo.

Ukuba ukhe wacinga ngokuqalisa umxube wasekuhlaleni wefendom yakho, umsetyenzana wokuzonwabisa, okanye umnqweno wokuyila, oku makube luphawu lwakho. Qala ngokuqokelela abantu ababini okanye abathathu ozazana nabo kwivenkile yekofu. Memezelisa omnye ngeplanga elilula. Phulaphula oko abantu bakufunayo. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, uzakubona ukuba eyona nto ixabisekileyo oyinika abantu asiyomisebenzi ngokwayo."Isipho sokubonwa ngokwenene kwaye yamkelwe njengabo.