Injini yenkumbulo esetyenziswayo

Amabali amalunga nexesha alifane liphathe inkumbulo njengesixhobo sokuceba ````FLT'''' ireyishi yeziganeko ekumele iguquke. Iqhelekile (yaziwa ngokuba ]] i-Bukoko dake Agai Machi [[FLT]]]])) iguqula into elindelwe yimeko. Kule ngxelo, inkumbulo ayiyo uvimba ongasebenziyo; yinjini yebali lonke, indawo abasebenzi abalahleka kuyo, balahleka, kwaye ekugqibeleni balahleka. Ukuzisola nokukhulula akunanto ibhalwe phezu kwecebo. Zizinto ezibunjwe ngendlela yokukhumbula, zilibala, ziphinde zichaze iinkumbulo zabo. Okungasetyenziswangalulanga, kodwa okutheththsa yi-'''''''''[FFFFFFFFF''.[5]

Ukuqonda isizathu sokuba indima yenkumbulo idityaniswe kakhulu ivakala ngokunzulu, kuyanceda ukukhangela kwisakhelo sengqondo esandul' ukusamkela ngokupheleleyo. Inkumbulo yinkqubo ephinda iphinde ibuye ibuye ibuyele ebuntwaneni bayo ngexesha “lexesha lokuvuka kwe-Revuval", kodwa inkumbulo nganye lisenzo sokuzihlaziya kwakhona, esinokuba buthathaka ekujijekeni, ukujijwa, ukungqubana kwemvakalelo, kunye nokucinezela ngemposiso. Le nkqubo inye ivumela iprotagonstin Sator Fujica ukuba ibuyele engqondweni yakhe yomntwana ngexesha“ lokudlobongela, kodwa igcina ubuchule obungokweemvakalelo kunye nolwazi olunentsingiselo lobuntu bakhe obukhulu. Oku kukuzicingela komntwana okungekho ngqiqweqwenileyo.

Uhlolisiso lwento ebuhlungu kwinkumbulo yentliziyo ebuhlungu olupapashwe yiAmerican Psychological Association lubalaselisa ngokuchanekileyo olu xinezeleko: “Inkumbulo yokuphazanyiswa kwentliziyo inokuba yimiqaba, idibene njengezinto ezicaciswe ngokuphandle kunye neemvakalelo kunokuba ibe yingxelo edityanisiweyo. ISatoru ibona esi sikroba. Inkumbulo yakhe yangaphambili yokuqweqwenga iyakwazi ukususwa imifanekiso eqingqiweyo `a red lithlee ngokuhlwa, umoya obandayo wekhephu lekhephu, imvakalelo yokungabinancedo. Ibali alikhange lilungise ixesha elidlulileyo ngokungakhangeli; imalunga nokuqulungela ezo ziganeko eziqhekekileyo kwibali elinokujamelana nobuhlungu, kwaye ekugqibeleni liphiliswe.

Ingqondo Ebuhlungu Ebuntwaneni

Ubomi be-Satu Fujinuma badala buyimfono yokukhula, kwaye imvelaphi yaloo stasis ikwinkumbulo epheleleyo. Igcisa elingeyiyo, elidibeneyo ngokweemvakalelo, elisebenza umsebenzi ongasekhoyo wokuhambisa, kwaye likhathazwa yimvakalelo engacacanga kodwa engapheliyo yokuzisola. Akazi ukuba ukufa kukanina kunye netyathanga lokubulala ebuntwaneni bakhe zibotshwe ngqo kwiinkumbulo zakhe ezingashukumiyo. Esaziyo ukuba lubuyatha olungapheliyo abaphandi benkumbulo abazibiza ngokuthi uvanyo olupheleleyo lokutshintsha kobomi bezinto zobuntu . Okudlulileyo akukabikho; kuyaqhubeka ukulimala kuba oko kusenzekade kuxelwe ngenxa yokuba kungaze kuqondwe.

“Ingxaki yeRepal” ngokuzihambela kwexesha inyanzelisa iSatoru ukuba ithintele intlekele ngexesha elifutshane ngaphambi kokuba ivele. Ifana noko iingcali zengxwelerha zikubiza njengeempawu zokuphazamisa, kodwa ngokujijwa okunzima: endaweni yeflash evala amandla, iSatoru iba lungenelelo olusebenzayo. Akangeni nje ngokungabi nalwazi oluninzi; unyanzelwa ukuba abe yindawo yokusindisa. Oku kuguqula inkumbulo ukusuka kumthombo wokungasebenzi komzimba ibe yindawo yesebe, kodwa umthwalo uhlala umkhulu. Zonke iintsizi zishiya ephilile, zididekile, ziphethe ulwazi olunzima angenakukwazi ukusindisa wonke umntu.

Ngale ndlela, [[FLT: 0] edityanisiweyo ibonisa inyaniso enzulu ngokuzisola. Ayiyontlungu nje ngenxa yesiphumo esibi; yinkolelo eqhubekayo yokuba umntu okhoyo ngewayenze ukhetho olwahlukileyo[. Isangqa sonke sesazinge sesazi sesazi sesaziso somntwana sixhomekeke ekulahleni inkolelo ngokubonisa ukuba umntwana wakhe wayengenazo zinto, ulwazi, nenkxaso yokwenza ngokwahlukileyo. Kuphela ngokukhupha ubulumko bomntwana ngokweemvakalelo zomntwana angaqala ukuzixolela ngokwakhe ukhuthumelo lwengqondo yakhe njengendlela yokuzixhasa ngokwemo yengozi.

INostaligia Njengonkungu Okhuselayo

Ukuba ukuzisola yincam ecacileyo yenkumbulo, ukulangazelela yisigqubuthelo esihenxayo. ithe thaa ngqwalasela kwizinto ezibumbo ze-Satoru: ukukhanya okuqaqambileyo kwedolophu enekhephu, ubushushu begumbi lokufundela ngoFebruwari, ucwangciso oluthuthuzelayo lokutya kwentsapho. La maxesha amnandi, kwaye asebenza injongo yokubala ngaphandle komoya ojikelezayo. Olu ngcelele lubonisa ukuba i-flast inokuba yindlu ekhuselekileyo [[[FLT:]], indawo yokurhoxa xa ikhona inokuba yi-engathwalekiyo.

Uphando oluphathelele ukufuduka lubonise ubunjani balo obubini. Umsebenzi oshwankathelwe yi- Psychology Today[ uphawula ukuba ngoxa inkanuko inokuthi ikhulise iimvakalelo zokunxibelelana kunye nentsingiselo, isenokukhokelela ekuzifakeni kakhulu nasekuzimiseleni okungekho ngqiqweni. Esandleni seSatu, ukubuyela ku-1 kubekwe kanye ngokuchanekileyo ngokugqithisileyo ngaphaya kobunkomzelo. Ubona abantwana afunda nabo bengakhange babonakale njengabantsonkothile ngemilo yabo yangabo yabucala, kodwa njengoko amaxhoba emele asindise kwingxelo yakhe yokukhulula. Kuphela xa evumela ukuba abuyele kwi-ehalo lobuntwana engobuncinane anokubona ngokwenene uKaywokina''''''''''ok'''''ekungakunganyangenzeka kunto imo yento engenakuba inzima.

UKayo ngokwakhe uba yindawo ephikisana nenkumbulo evakalayo. Umzimba wakhe uqulethe ubungqina obuphathekayo bokuba ukukhumbula izinto kunokuzifihla ngokufihlakeleyo /izinto ezifihlakeleyo ngaphantsi kwemikhono emide, ukungondleki okumenza abe mncinane kunoontanga bakhe. Xa iinkumbulo zikaSator ekugqibeleni ziphela zisuka kwimiqathango yolwaphulo-mthetho olukwiqondo eliphantsi kwemacroal ukhuseleko lomntu omnye.

Isiqinisekiso Sokuba Asinakuze Sifike

Isihloko esisusiweyo sityebe ngobunzima bomfuziselo, kwaye isigengxezo selabha esibonakalayo sivela ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwizinto ezivulayo kunye nemifanekiso engundoqo. Ngaphandle kwayo, i-alab icebisa isikwere esicocekileyo, iphupho yokususa ibala ngokupheleleyo kangangokuba ingashiyeki. Loo phupha, yeyanyani, inkohliso , uthothotho oluthile oludwe ngokwendlela. Xa abasebenzi bezama ukucima iinkumbulo ezibuhlungu, abalufumani uxolo; endaweni yoko benza [[FLT:] iipas kwingqondo zabo [[FLT] ] eziba zishiyeka okokuba zikwazi ukuphinda iipawulo ezifanayo.

Akukho ndawo ecacileyo oku kuneyokusebenza kwengqondo yomntu ophangayo. Ngaphandle kokuphengulula kwimiqobo etshabalalisayo, amandla aqhubela phambili kwisongelo esisembindini kukungavisisani okugqwethekileyo nenkumbulo kunye nokuzichaza, okusekelwe kwilinge langaphambili lokuzama ukuphelisa imvakalelo yokungabi nanto. Lo mqhawe usenza sisenzo esingaqhelekanga kodwa asilulo uhlobo lokwenza inkumbulo olungaqhelekanga, umgudu wokuzalisa oko kucinywe. Kule nto, eli bali lisenza impikiswano ehlasimlis ’ umxhino wokuzama ukuphelisa izinto zangaphambili alisitshabalalisi. [it] Isenzo sokuyenza into engaqhelekanga efuna intetho efuna injalo.

Kubantu abanobu protagonons, isifundo sinamandla ngokufanayo. Ixesha likaSaru lokudibana kwe comar limele uhlobo oluthile lwezikhuseli ezinyanzelekileyo, isithuba esingenanto apho kungenakuba nakwenzeka ngaphambili okanye kwixesha elizayo. Sekunjalo, inkumbulo iyaqhubeka kwimizimba neengqondo zabo bamthandayo. Unina akazange antengantenge; abahlobo bakhe batyelela; uKayo wakha ubomi obathwele impembelelo yakhe. Ukuzinziswa kwenkumbulo ebusweni bexesha eliqhelekileyo kukwingxelo yokugqibela, eyoyimpumelelo: akukho nto ilahleka ngokwenene ukuba iboniwe kwaye iphethwe ngomnye [FLT:].

Utshaba Olufana nesango lokuhlangula

Ngelixesha uzisolayo, ungquzulwano ludibanisa. Iindawo zokujika kwi ezidityanisiweyo phantse azinazityhilo ezizedwa; ziziganeko ezidityanisiweyo apho inkumbulo yomntu othile iqinisekiswe ngomnye. Xa unina kaSaru, uSachiko, utyhila inkumbulo yakhe ecacileyo yeziganeko ezijikeleze ukuxhatshazwa kukaKayo, wenza okungaphezulu kunokunikezelwa. Unika uSatoru isiqabuliso esinzulu senkumbulo esahlukeneyo, ulwazi lokuba akangokuphela kwenyaniso.

Esi sipili sinamandla esibizwa ngokuba ulwahlulo-mthetho lwengxelo edityanisiweyo. Inkumbulo yomntu, ingakumbi xa ingcoliswe yi-blame, ayinyani. Kodwa xa omnye umzali othembekileyo, umhlobo, kwanogqirha ozinikeleyo , `ulwandiso lwento eyenzekayo ngaphambili kwaye ayilinganise, inkumbulo ilahlekelwa ngamandla ayo okuguqula izinto. Inqaku lithetha ngokudibana kwemeko yobomi bethu, incoko yezobuntu, ithelelana noluvo lwethu oluthi lwamathethoba. [[[FLTLT:3]]

[[FLT: 0] Iyenza kakuhle le midlalo kwimifanekiso yeklasi. Imigudu eqhubekayo kaSatu yokudibanisa Kayo kwilaphu lodidi lwabo loluntu asiyozenzo zobubele; zizenzo zobuvila [ [[FLT:]] iyenza imemo yobeko . Ngokudala amava alungileyo, amava alungileyo, uhambo lwendlu yemithi, izidlo, umbhiyozo omncinane womhla wokuzalwa kweklasi, `unika uKayo' iingqimba ezintsha ezithe khawulezileyo ngokulinganayo nobugqwalasela ubomi bakhe. Unkumbulo yakhe ayicinywanga; iyaphela, kodwa ayinwe. Ubumnyama buhlala bukho, kodwa abuyangasahluzi.

Iphulo Lokudala Inkumbulo Entsha

Uhlangulo lunqabile ukuba sisiganeko esinye, esiphawulekayo. Isiphelo sesazinge se sicacisa oku ngokubonisa ukuchacha kwe-Satu emva kokubuya kwakhe. Isithuba somzimba kubude benkumbulo yakhe, sisenzeka ngeminyaka enzima. Iminyaka yobomi bakhe ekuzingxengxezeleni kwento ebuhlungu ebangelwa kukucinywa komntwana. Akamele aphinde afumane umsebenzi wakhe kodwa aphinde aphinde avule imoto yakhe ekwakhe ibhulo inkunzi awayeyiyo, umntu omdala ohamba ixesha elide, kwaye ngoku ujongene nekamva elingenakuqiniseka.

Lo kwakhiwa kwakhona asiyoprojekthi i-sol. Umanyano awalwenzayo kwixesha elidluleyo luguqula ixesha elingeyilo ngeqhinga elithile elikhoyo kodwa ngokuzingisa okuthe rhoqo, ngokuzingisileyo kwemizuzu emitsha, enxulumeneyo. Ukusinda kukaKayo kumenza ukuba akhe intsapho yakhe. Abahlobo bakhe bakhula bethwele amaxabiso okunyaniseka kunye nesibindi esiqinisekisiweyo. UAiri, uphawu lwakudala, uba ngumsebenzi othe ngqo kubomi bexesha elizayo. Ulwalamano ngalunye olukhoyo luba yibhanki yenkumbulo ehlalayo [[FLT:], eyasasazwa ngothungelwano olugcina ulwazi lwakhe kunye xa ingqondo yakhe ingakwazi.

Kubantu ababukeli, oku kuluncedo kakhulu. Amandla athenjiwe angekho kwisatya esingekho mthethweni kodwa ngokunyanzela ukuba izinto zexesha elidlulileyo zingenziwa kwakhona ngoko sikwenzayo ngoku. Sisenzo ngasinye esinentsingiselo, mzuzu ngamnye wonxibelelwano lokwenene, iimbewu ezinokufunyanwa kamva xa ithemba lincipha. Ithemba lothotho lwezi ngxelo lisekelwe kwinyaniso yemihla ngemihla yendlela inkumbulo esebenza ngayo: asinako ukucima izahluko ezibuhlungu, kodwa sinokubhala ezininzi ezitsha ukuba ibali lichazwa yinto ethile ngaphandle kwentlekele.

Inkumbulo njengoNxulumaniso oluQhelekileyo ku-Empathy

Mhlawumbi impikiswano ethe cwaka kodwa engqongqo kakhulu ungcelele oluyenzayo yeyokuba ulwazi olupheleleyo lwenkumbulo yomnye umntu lususa ubuyelo olusisigxina olukhoyo . Ixesha likaSaru likhawuleza linike unikezelo kungekuphela nje kwizinto zakhe zexesha elidlulileyo kodwa, ngokuqwalasela nangokuba namava, kubomi bangaphakathi babo basondelene naye. Ufunda uvalo lukaKayo. Ubona ubulolo beklasi ibhuli. Ubona uvalo olusemva kobugcwagqwirha bomntu ongcuthekileyo.

Olu jongo lubonakalayo lumtshintsha kuba lususa iilebhile ezilungelayo ezenza ukuba kunokwenzeka ukungakhathali. Awunakumgxotha umntu xa yonke imbali yabo ibhalwe entliziyweni yakho. Olu ngcelele lucebisa ukuba ukuba sonke singakwazi ukukhumbula iziganeko kodwa indlela ezingokweemvakalelo zobomi babanye, inkohlakalo inokuba phantse ingangenzeki. U-Empathy, kule siseko, ibaluleke kakhulu ekukhumbuleni ngaphakathi kwethu: amandla okuphatha iqhekeza elithile lento emele ibe ngumntu omnye.

Ngexesha xa incoko yesithethe ithe yaya ixhomekeka kwinkumbulo edityanisiweyo kunye nobalo lwembali, isebenza njengendlela efikelelekayo, edibeneyo yovavanyo lwento eyenzekayo. Umyalezo wayo awululanga okanye uyilo oluncinci. Iyavuma ukuba inkumbulo inokuba yintolongo. Ivumela ukuba ukukhumbula kusenokuba yindlela yokuphepha ehambayo engekho ndawo. Kodwa inyanzelisa, ngamandla apheleleyo oyileyo, ukuba kwanamandla aso asifaka kwisitshixo. Uzisola lumnyango onzima, kodwa xa idibelwane, kodwa xa ihlolwa, kwaye ekugqibeleni idibe idibene.

Ekugqibeleni, Engadityaniswanga asibuzi ukuba silibale. Icela ukuba sikhumbule ngakumbi, hayi kancinane: ukukhumbula ubuso babantwana esasilelayo, amaxesha esawakhangela kude, amathuba amancinane esawaphosayo. Kuphela ngokubamba loo mfanekiso opheleleyo ezingqondweni zethu siyakwazi ukuhamba kwindlela apho siguquka siguqukele kuhlobo lothando olunenkathalo, lwamabhongo olwakha umgangatho wexesha elizayo kubemi.