“ March Comes Sow Shue Comment inhau inopfuura zvikuru nhau pamusoro pomutambi wenyanzvi wendangariro wepwere; inhau yendangariro yakajeka iyo inokurudzira vaoni kurangarira mumwe wemibvunzo inotsungirira zvikurusa yendangariro: kuti izhinji sei yezvatakanyorerwa mumavara edu okugara nhaka, uye kuti izhinji sei inoumbwa nenyika yakatipoteredza. Kupfurikidza nerwendo rwakanyarara, runowanzova runorwadza rweRei Kiriyama, nhevedzano inoratidzira nzvero yakajeka yokukura nokusimba izvo zvinoramba kugadzikisa mhinduro dzakapfava. Kunoratidza kuti kutamba pakati pechimiro chendangariro nepesvedzero yemhoteredzo nemhoteredzo hakusi hondo nemuwindi, asi kutamba kunopfuurira kunorondedzera kukura kwomunhu.

Kupesana Kwezvakaita. Kusimudzira Nharo Musayenzi Yendangariro

Kwamakumi amakore, nyanzvi dzendangariro dzakakakavadzana mipiro ine mwero yemavara okugara nhaka nemhoteredzo kuhunhu, ungwaru, uye utano hwendangariro. Kunyorwa kwokutanga kazhinji kazhinji kwakatanga semasimba anopesana, asi nzvero yazvino uno yakatanga kuva nomurangariro unopfuudza. American Psychological Association inotaura kuti mavara endangariro haawanzova chibereko chezvinhu zvendangariro zvebiology kana kuti ruzivo rwokuzviwanira rwoga. Panzvimbo pezvo, majini emavara emavara okugara nhaka anoparira chitarisiko anoparira mamiriro ezvinhu maviri asingabviri. Iyi nhau inosaidzika apo tinotendeukira kutsika dzakafanana nerevomheswo: tareyi yake hurusa yomuzvarirwo, bva inodokuoneka kuva yomuzvarirwo yemirangariro yake yendangariro uye inoporesa.

Chimwe chirongwa chine simba chinovhara mukaha wacho iepigenetics , kuongorora kuti zvinhu zvakatipoteredza zvinogona kuchinja sei majini pasina kuchinja marongerwo eDNA pachawo. Nzvero kubva ku Human Genome Research Institute yeNational [ inosimbisa kuti zvinoitika zvoupenyu, zvikurukuru ukama hwapakuvamba nedzvinyiriro, zvinogona kuchinja majiniri, kupesvedzera utano hwendangariro nomuviri gare gare gare muupenyu. Munyika ye “March Comes muFat a Lion,” iyi inoreva Rei haisi chigariro chakaro chakatemerwa; zvinochinjwa nguva dzose nokuregeredzwa nechinhu.

Rei Kiriyama: Kubata Nehare Nepfungwa

Chipo cheNature muunhu hwaRei chinooneka muzviitiko zvekare zvikuru. Ane mavara echinonyandura: simba rinoshamisa rokuziva, kufungisisa kukuru, uye pfungwa dzinoshanda kupfuura makore ake. izvi zvipo zvokufunga zvinoratidzika kuva zvinobuda muhwaro hwezvinhu zvipenyu, zvichikarakadza kuva nechimiro chendangariro kurudzi rwouchenjeri runotuswa nomutambo. Kukurumidza kwake nomumaoresa enyanzvi, pasinei zvapo noupwere hwake, anotaura kumatare asina kugadzirwa ayo asingagoni kudzidziswa mubhuku.

Bva chisiko chinoratidzikawo kuva chakapeta mavara emirangariro yake. Chimiro chendangariro chaRei kukunyarara, funganyo yenzanga, uye kunyange zvinoitika zvokuora mwoyo zvinoratidzira chimiro chinova chakafanana nechakakodzera zvikuru. Nzvero mumavara okugara nhaka dzakaratidza kare kuti mavara akadai setsinga nemushonga ane mativi makuru emavara okugara nhaka. Kunyarara kwaRei, chimiro chake chokuzvinyima, uye mirangariro yake inooma kuwirirana nechakavanzika choupenyu hunomuita kuti anzwe kuva anotapurwa zvikuru nedzvinyiriro yemhoteredzo yapasi. Nhevedzero hadzimuderedzi kunzvera mamiriro ezvinhu endangariro, asi kunoratidza kuti kumwe kwokutambura kwake kuvamba asati agara achienda mumusha usina ushamwari. Kufarira kunoreva kuti zviitiko zvakafanana zvingaitika kwaari kumunhu anenge achitambura nesimba rinoparadza.

Ndiko uko ungwaru hwendangariro hweshoo yacho hunopenya: hahurangariri chisiko sechituko kana kuti chikomborero, asi sechinhu chisina kugadzirwa.

Simba Rokurera: Mugariro Noukama

Kana chisiko chichiita kuti ivhu rive, rinokuchidzira. Mhoteredzo yaRei yapakuvamba inorondedzerwa nokurasikirwa uye nzara yemirangariro. Pashure pokunge vabereki vake nehanzvadzi vafa mutsaona, iye anopinzwa muboka reKouda, uko anova murwi wehogi mumhuri yamakwikwi azere nepfundepfunde. Baba vaRei, nyanzvi yemaschogi amene, anoisa tariro dzake dzose mumwanakomana, asi pakurasikirwa kwoukama hwechokwadi. Kunyumwiswa kwababa nomutambo naRei kunoita chipfuro chegodo nokubatwa zvisina kufanira kwemirangariro, zvikurukuru kubva mukurera hanzvadzi yake Kucko. Chinopameso ichi muenzaniso wekushaikwa kwokuchengeta mwana, asi achinetseka.

Chisarudzo chaRei pakupedzisira chokusiya mhuri yeKouda ndokugara ari oga sechiito chokupererwa nezano chiri chose chokuzviremedza, asi chinobvisawo vakasarira vokupedzisira veboka remhuri. Kugara muimba isina chinhu, kurarama muzvokudya zvisingavaki, uye kuchengeta bedzi batano dzenzanga dzapamusoro zvikurusa, mhoteredzo yake inosimbisa chitendero chipi nechipi chakashata chakamuita kuti anzwe: kuti mutoro, kuti haafaniri kuva noushamwari, kuti anofanira kuwana maruramiro ake okurarama kupfurikidza neshogi.

Hanzvadzi dzeKawamoto Sezvikamu Zvikuru Zvokuchinja

Chinhu chiri chose chinochinja apo Rei anowira muimba yeKawamoto. Akari, Hinata, uye Momo vanopa chimiro chakasiana zvikuru chemurairidzo chakasiana - siana chedariro / chimwe chakavakirwa kwete pakuita kana kuti musengwa asi pamutsa usina kuganhurirwa asi zvokudya zvinogoveranwa, uye kuda kuziva kwechokwadi pamusoro paRei somunhu. Musha wavo unova chinoitika chemirangariro chinoruramisa, shoko rinoshandiswa kurondedzera kuti ukama hutsva, hune utano hwakanaka hunogona sei kudzorerazve ndangariro dzokushanda kwapakuvamba kwekuvadziko.

Hanzvadzi hadzimupi zano rekuti adye, chirango chaHinata chinotyisa chokurwisa vanodheerera, uye chidakadaka chaMomo chisina mhaka chinopera zvishoma nezvishoma pamasvingo aakanga avaka. Chiratidzo chiduku chimwe nechimwe (chinomupa chigaro patafura yezvokudya, achiyeuka zvaanoda, achifamba naye pashure pechikoro sechiito chinopesana nechitendero chake chakadzika chokuti haana kufanira kutarisirwa. Kupfurikidza nouku kurera kunyoro, Rei anotanga kuzvidzorerazve amene aripo kupfuura shogi uye nzira yokurarama nayo.

Rutivi Rwakaipa Rwokurera: Mhuri YaRei Inopambadzwa

Kuti unzwisise zvizere kukura kwaRei, munhu anofanira kunzvera rutivi rwomushonga urwo nhevedzano inoramba kufuratira. Koko Kouda haisi utsotsi hunosetsa; ichibereko cheregeredzo yake amene nekariro dzakamonyaniswa dzakaiswa paari nababa vanopa zviitwa zveshogi kupfuura zvimwe zvose. Tsika dzake kuna Rei, kubatanidza kuedza kumukuvadza mumuviri nomundangariro, kunoratidzira kuti mhoteredzo ine chepfu inogona sei kukuvadza zvose zviri zviviri nyajambwa nomubetseri. Kouda imba inoratidza kuti kurera hakusati kuri kwakanaka chose chose chose. Nenzira iri nyore nyore. Apo tarisiro inoganhurirwa uye rudo runogoverwa pachinhu chimwe chinhu chose.

Kuiswa mukati kwemashoko aKweko mumukati, “wabira rudo rwababa vangu,”“ hauna chinhu pasina shogi” (jee rinova inzwi rokuzvinetsa iro rinomutambudza nguva refu pashure pokunge aenda. Iri inzwi romukati ironda rendangariro rakaisvonaka; vana vanokura mumigariro inotambudza mundangariro kazhinji kazhinji vanova vatsoropodzi vane utsinye vomukati avo vanopfuudzira kuregeredzwa kunyange mukushayikwa kwomubati zvisina kufanira wokutanga. Kunzwisisa ikoku kunobetsera kutsanangura chikonzero nei kuporesa kwaRei kuchiitika zvishoma zvikuru uye chikonzero nei tsigiro yehanzvadzi dzaKawamoto isati ichingofadza chete asi ichidikanwa.

Kurwadziwa, Kubata, uye Nzira Yokudzorera

Kurasikirwa kwapamberi pekurasikirwa nemhuri yake idimburwa kukuru, uye rondedzero yokubatanidza yakaitwa naJohn Bowlby uye yakakudzwa na vanzveri veNhevedzo yenguva ino [[FLT]]]_____________inobatsira kuita basa rendangariro raanofanira kuita. Kuchengeteka muuhwana kunopa munhu hwaro hwaanogona kunzvera nyika nokudzora mirangariro. Pasina iyo, vana kazhinji kazhinji kazhinji vanova nemitoo yokufunganya kana kuti kudzivisa inogona kupfuurira kuva vakuru. Rei’s kuzvimirira kwakaparadza nokutya kuva mutwaro unowirirana zvikuru nebata: anotambura kubvunza nokuda kwebetsero, madaro vamwe vasati vagona kumuramba, uye kusekesada kwake nokuda kwebata.

Nhevedzano yacho haishandisi mapepa ezvokurapa, asi inoparira muitiro wendangariro wokukudziridza “kuchengeteka kwomutoo.” Sezvo Rei agara achiwana kugamuchirwa nokusachinjana nemhuri yeKawamoto, madiro ake anovamba kuchinja. Anotanga kugamuchira zvokudya, kubvuma betsero, uye kunyange kutsvaka bhizimisi, kubudirira kuduku kunoratidzira kukura kwendangariro chaiko. Kuratidzira kunorumbidza chokwadi chokuti chinjo yakadaro inononoka uye haisati iri yomuzvarirwo; pashure penhambo dzefambiro mberi, Rei anowanzodzokerazve mumugariro wokuzviparadzanisa, achiratidzira chinetso chokunyorazve rondedzero huru dzendangariro.

Kushomeka Sechiono Choupenyu Hwomumwoyo

Mutambo weshogi unoshanda sechinhu chakarongwa; chionioni chendangariro icho chinoratidzira simba rechisiko panhambo iri yose. Chipo chaRei chomuzvarirwo chinomupa mukana unotyisa munyika inoziva, asi budiriro yake haisati iri nhau yemhanza inongova bedzi. Shogi udzori hunoraira zviuru zvamaawa efundo, kufunda, kufunda, uye dzikamo yemirangariro kuti atsungirire kurasikirwa kunoparadza. Rei mano okugara mumutambo, zvikurukuru mukati menhambo dzemhute, inotsamira zvikuru pakusimba kwoukama hwake hutsva.

Shogi anoshandawo serens apo Rei anoshandisa kukuvara kwake. Dare rinova nzvimbo yaanogona kudzora kudenha, kudzivirira tyisidziro, uye kuvakazve pfungwa yesangano iro rakabviswa kwaari somwana. Kungwarira, rudzi rwemhuka inodzorwa inopesana nenyongano youpenyu hwake hwapakuvamba, ichipa nyika yakarongeka umo ndangariro yake inogona kushanda zvakanaka zvikurusa. Mupfungwa iyi, mutambo umene unova mhoteredzo inochengeta zvinhu zvokuchengeta nerongedzero (anopa chipo chake chomuzvarirwo apo unomupa pfungwa yenhevedzano uye unokwanisa kudzora izvo nyika yake yemirangariro kazhinji kazhinji kazhinji inoshaiwa.

Kudzokera Shure: Hakusi Kungodzokera Shure, Asi Kukura Munzira

Tsika dzakakurumbira kazhinji kazhinji dzinoratidzira kugadziridza sorudzi rwekusatsarukana, asi “March Apinda muKufanana neshumba” inowirirana nenzwisiso yakarurama zvikuru yendangariro. Resilience haisati iri kushayikwa kwenhamo; isimba rokuchinja nokushanda pasinei zvapo nenhamo. Makore mazhinji okunzvera, kubatanidza basa rechiratidzo rekubudirira renyanzvi yendangariro Ann Masten, rakaratidza kuti kusimba harisi chinhu chikuru zvikuru asi “mashiripiti anokosha zvikuru anooneka apo zvinhu zvinokosha zvikurusa zvinodzivirira zvinowanika sezvisakiso, zvakaenzana nezvinotarisirwa munzanga, uye pfungwa yezvo ([[FLT]]] Mas, 2001 [FLT]]]).

Nguva inochinja mirangariro yaRei haisati iri wirirano yorukundo asi nguva yakanyarara yokuzvigamuchira: apo pakupedzisira iye anozvirega amene achichema pamberi pavamwe, kana kuti apo anobvuma kuti anoda kurarama nesonganiro navanhu panzvimbo pokungorarama. Nguva idzi dzokutendeseka kwemirangariro ndidzo idzo nyanzvi dzendangariro dzingadana kuti kukura kwepashure pekutambura kwendangariro, mavambo akaitika somuuyo werwisano nenhamo. Rei haasati achidzima nguva yake yakapfuura; anoibatanidza. Anotanga kuona kuti kunzwira tsitsi kwake, muitiro mumwe chetewo wakamuita kuti ashatiswe, dzinogonawo kumuita kuti awirirane zvikuru nokutambura kwavamwe, sezvinoratidzirwa nokudzivirira kwake kuna Hintat apo anotarisana nomugariro wake wokudheerera.

Zvidzidzo Zvevadzidzisi Nenyanzvi Dzoutano Hwepfungwa

Nepo nhevedzano iri yengano, nzwisiso yayo yendangariro ine revo chaidzoidzo dzendangariro nokuda kwomunhu upi noupi anoshanda navana, vachiri kuyaruka, kana kuti vanhu vamwe navamwe vari kunaya mukuvadziko. Chokutanga, chinoratidzira kuti tare rinogona kuwirirana nokutambura kwakakomba kwemirangariro. Kazhinji kazhinji, zvifukidziro zvakakwirira zvenhamo yomukati, uye nyanzvi yaRei ingave yakavhara nyore nyore kuda kwake betsero. Vakuru muupenyu hwake vanoita musiano wakadai sohogi mudzidzisi wake Shimadah__adhah

Chechipiri, shoo yacho inosimbisa kukosha kusingachinji kwenhambo dzenguva dzezuva nezuva. Hanzvadzi dzeKawamoto hadzina madhigirii adzinopedza kudzidza muruzivo rwendangariro; dzinopa mutsa, kuvapo, uye kuva pamwe chete kusingadzvinyiriri. Aya mabhuku pamusoro poukama hwevarapi, anoratidza kuti tsigiro isingatongi uye kuramba dzichidavidza zvinogona kuva zvinoporesa zvikuru kupfuura kupindira kwechirongwa. Vadzidzisi, shoko racho rakajeka: kirasi kana kuti kamuri rinopa kuchengeteka kwendangariro chingava chinhu chimwe chinokosha zvikurusa mumano omudzidzi okuita nokudzidza.

Pakupedzisira, nhevedzano yacho inosimbisa kuti kukura kunobvira kunyange pashure pokurasikirwa kukuru; haivimbisi kuti nhamo ichanyangarika; panzvimbo pezvo, inoratidza kuti nemhoteredzo yokurera mwana yakarurama, vanhu vanogona kuvaka upenyu hune revo, batano, uye kunyange mufaro.

Kupedzisa: Tsinga Dzinosanganiswa Dzatiri

“ March Apinda Somutsigiri weShumba” haapi chisarudzo chiri nyore kumubvunzo wechisiko nemhaka yokuti chisarudzo chakadaro hachipo. Rei Kiriyama panguva imwe munhu anoberekwa ane zvipo zvakasiana nezvinovhiringa, uye munhu anovhiringidzwa nokurasikirwa kunoparadza, mhuri dzine chepfu, uye ukama hunodzivisira. Kuzvishingisa kwake hakusati kuri rukundo rwomusikirwo pamusoro pokurera kana kuti kupesana; chinhu chinobuda mukurukurirano dzavo dzinopfuurira.

Kupfurikidza nokuramba kurerutsa ndangariro yomunhu, nhevedzano yacho inokumbira vateereri vayo kugara nokuoma kunzwisisa uye kuziva kuti kukura kwedu hakutongovi musimba redu timene chose chose, kana kuti kubuda mariri chose. mwaka inoratidzirwa mumusoro wacho ($ww’shumba inosvika nesimba raMarch) kuti hasha dzoupenyu dzichauya, asi saizvozvowo ushamwari hunotevera. Rei anotiyeuchidza kuti nepo tisingagoni kusarudza nguva dzose ruoko rwatinobatwa narwo, vanhu vanoungana pamwe chete nesu patafura yedu uye mhoteredzo zvatinovaka vanogona kutiita kuti tidzokere kukuporeswa, zvokudya chimwe uye chimwe panguva imwe chete.

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