Enzara Yeyeuko Inodzorwa Mune Zvekuti

Nhau pamusoro penguva hadziwanzobata yeuko sechinhu chakarongwa, (inopfuura chinyorwa chezvinoitika izvo mubati anofanira kuchinja. yakachenuruka (inozivikanwawo se [[FLT:]] BAkuke Agai Machi])) inoshatisa chinhu chinotarisirwa chose chose. Munhau ino, yeuko haisati iri chisaririra chapanguva yakarerekanwa; injini yenhau yacho yose, nzvimbo iyo vatambi vanorasika, uye pakupedzisira vanorasika. Kudemba nokudzikinura hazvisi zvinhu zvinoumbwa namavara. Zvinoumbwa nenzira yokuyeuka, kanganwa, uye kutsanangurazve. Chinongoshandiswa bedzi, chisati chaitika, kutsanangura kuti chitsarukirwa. [FFFF]

Kunzwisisa chikonzero nei basa reyeuko mu rakajekeswa zvikuru kwazvo, kunobetsera kutarira pagadziriro yendangariro yaichagamuchira chose chose. Yeuko muitiro unovakazve, kwete mutoo chaiwo. Kuyeuka kumwe nokumwe chiito chendangariro kugadziridza, kukanganisa, kukanganisa kwemirangariro, kukanganisa kwemirangariro, uye kunyange kudzvinyirira kwamaune. Kufunga kumwe cheteko kunobvumira mutevedzero weprobiton Satoru Fujica kudzokera shure mundangariro yake youhwana mukati me “Reving", bva inotakurazve uchenjeri hwemirangariro nezivo yechokwadi yezvake munhu mukuru. Uku kusava nomufungo womwana wakapoteredzwa nokurwadziwa kwomunhu mukuru.

Nzvero yesero yeyeuko dzinorwadza dzakabudiswa neAmerican Psychological Association inosimbisa chaizvoizvo uku kunyanduka: “Yeuko yekuvadziko inogona kuva yakakamukana zvikuru, yakabatanidzwa serondedzero dzinonzwika nedzemirangariro panzvimbo penhau inowirirana. Saru] Saru [ya] shooka yezvikamu izvi. Yeuko dzake dzapakuvamba dzekuponda kwokuba vanhu dzinobviswa mifananidzo yenzi “a red - red - dern, manheru anotonhozhozhowa. Nyaya yacho haisati iri pamusoro pokuisa pachena nguva yakapfuura; iri pamusoro pechinoitika chinobatanidza zvikamu zviya zvinoparadzana munhau zvinogona kutarisana nayo, zvinorwadza, uye pakupedzisira.

Ndangariro Yakavhiringidzwa Muuduku

Upenyu hwaSatu Fujinunuma hwavakuru irondedzero yokukura, uye mavambo edanho iroro rinoyeukwa mundangariro. Iye muvengi wemanga akakundikana, akasashanda, anoshanda basa rokubereka rapashure, uye atambudzwa nepfungwa isina kujeka asi inopfuurira yemhosva. Haasati aziva kuti rufu rwamai vake nechengete yorufu kubva pauduku hwake zvakabatanidzwa zvakananga nendangariro dzake dzisina kuchinjwa. Izvo anoziva kuti kusava nechinhu chisingaperi icho vaongorori vanoyeudzira kupfudza kubereka [[[FLT:]]. Zvakapfuura kare hazvisati zvichitongoitika; zvinopfuurira kukuvadza nokuti hazvisati zvatongozivikanwa.

“ Repal” inosvetuka isingadi kumanikidza Saru kuti adzivise ngwavaira nguva pfupi isati yaitika. Inofanana neicho nyanzvi dzinodzivirira dzinonongedzera kumativi endangariro dzinoti zviratidzo, asi nokumonyanisa kukuru: panzvimbo pechiratidzo chenhando chinodzivisa, kupindira kweSatoru kunova kupindira kwokushingaira. Haasati achingova zvake asina ruzivo rwakakomba; anopinzwa munzvimbo yomununuri. Ikoku kunochinja yeuko kubva kumanyuko okuoma kwesimba kuva nzvimbo yesangano, bva mutoro unosara mukuru. Kumutsiridza kwose kunomutsidzira anenge aneta, akavhiringidzwa, uye anotakura zivo inorema yaa asingagoni kuponesa munhu ari wose.

Nenzira iyi, yakazarurwa inoratidzira zvokwadi huru pamusoro pokuzvidemba. Hakusi kungosuruvara bedzi pamusoro pomuuyo wakashata; ichitendero chinopfuurira chokuti munhu aripo angagona kuva akaita chisarudzo chakasiana[. Saru yaro yose inotsamira pakubvisa chitendero kupfurikidza nokuratidza kuti mwana akamboshaiwa zvitemo, mashoko, uye tsigiro kuti aite nenzira yakasiana. Kupfurikidza bedzi nokubatanidza uchenjeri hwendangariro yomwana inogona kutanga kuzvikanganwira amene mirangariro yake amene sezvitsigiridzo yomugariro wakakomba.

Nostaligia Seruva Rinodzivirira

Kana kuzvidemba kuri mucheto wakapinza weyeuko, kushuva ichifukidziro chinonyengera. nguva dzinonyanyonakisa ngwariro pachimiro cheSatoru chenguva yakapfuura: chiedza chakawanda chetaundi rehokkaido rine sinou, kudziya kwekirasi muna February, muitiro unonyaradza wezvokudya zvemhuri. Nguva dzino dzinova dzakanaka zvisingarambiki, uye dzinobatira donzo rokurondedzera kupfuura mhepo yakapoteredza pasi. Nhevedzano dzinoratidzira kuti kupfachukanya kunogona kuva imba yakakotsekana ye [[[FLT:]], nzvimbo yokunzhambira mumugwagwa yakakotsekana.

Nzvero pamusoro pedariro yakaratidza nenzira yayo nenzira inopfuuridza. Mubato webasa wakapetwa na Psychology Today[ inocherekedza kuti nepo kuda kufadza kunogona kuvandudza kunzwa kwokubatana kwavanhu nerevo, kunogonawo kutungamirira kukunyanyisa nokusanzwisisa zvinhu zvakapfuura. Mumaoko eSatu, kudzokera ku 1988 kunopomerwa chaizvoizvo nokuchinja uku kwokunyanyisa pakutanga. Iye anoona vaanodzidza navo vaduku sevanhu vakaoma kunzwisisa nenhamo dzavo vamene, asi savanyajambwa vanofanira kuponesa murondedzero yake amene yokudzikinura. Kunongova bedzi apo anorega maoko maoko shamba dzouhro dzouhwana chaizvoizvo idzo anogona kuona Kayokina’s anotambura nokuda kwechino: kusagona kudzorwa zvisina kuvimbika.

Kayo pachake anobva ava munhu anowirirana nenyaya yacho, muviri wake une ufakazi chaihwoihwo hwechinhu chaichoicho chokuti kushuva kungava kwakavharwa nechepasi pemaoko marefu, kushaya zvokudya zvinovaka muviri kunoita kuti ave muduku kune vaenzani vake. Apo ndangariro dzaSaru pakupedzisira dzinova mhesano yedaviridzo ndokunyoresa udzame ihwohwo, basa rake rinochinja kubva pakudzivirira utsotsi hwemacroleal alth kukuva ruponeso rwomuduku rwomunhu mumwe, chaiye. Chinjo iyoyo inhambo yechinguvana yokudzikinura inorega kuva pfungwa isinganzwisisiki uye inova muitiro wezuva nezuva unoorora.

Vimbiso Yokuti Haitongovipo

Musoro wakazara nouremu hwokufananidzira, uye mufananidzo unooneka werabha unooneka wawarirwazve mungano dzokuvhura nezviono zvikuru. Papamusoro pawo, gorobha inokarakadza chisaririra chakachena, fungidziro yokubvisa chose chose chose kuti kunyange shava inosara. Idzodzodzo itsorororo, yenhema , fungidziro. Nhevedzo yaropidhi inosiya ichiita sedzinoro. Apo vanhu vanoedza kubvisa ndangariro dzinorwadza, havawani rugare; panzvimbo pezvo vanosika [[FLT:] maga] muzivo yavo zvokuti havasati vachitongosara vasina kukwanisika kudzokorora.

Hapana parinombojeka zvikuru kupfuura muruzivo rwendangariro rwomubati asi pasina kutsvaka muvaparadzi, simba rinosunda riri seri kwetyisidziro huru ukama hwakamonyana neyeuko nokuzivikanwa, hwakavakirwa mukuedza kwapakuvamba kubvisa pfungwa yokusava nechinhu chikuru. Mubatisi wenhau haasati ari masimba masimba akasarudzika asi chimiro chakashata chokuita yeuko, nhamburiko yokuzadza chakadzimwa. Muna ikoku, nhau yacho inoparira chibvumikiso chinotyisa: chiito chokuedza kubvisa nguva yakapfuura hachiiparadziri chinhu chinotyisa icho chinotsvaka kutaura pasinei zvapo nechinhu.

Nokuda kwavanamazvikokota, chidzidzo chacho chine simba rakaenzana. Nguva yaAratoru yecomatose pashure perwisano yake yokupedzisira inomirira chimiro chebumbiro rezvinhu rinomanikidzirwa, nzvimbo isina chinhu uko kusati kugona kuvakwa nokuziva. Kunyange zvakadaro, yeuko inoramba iri mumiviri nendangariro dzaavo vanomuda. Amai vake havana kutongozununguka; shamwari dzake dzakashanya; Kayo akagadzira upenyu hwakatakura pesvedzero yake. Kugadzirirwa kweyeuko muchiso chenguva chaiyoiyo yemhindu inhau yokupedzisira, chibvumikiso chorukundo: hapana chinhu chinonyangarika zvirokwazvo kana chakapupurirwa ndokubatwa nomumwe munhu [FLT:].

Kutarisana Senzira Yokununurwa

Nepo zvichidemba, kunetsana kunobatanidza. Kuchinja kwezvinoitika mu `Izvo zvinongova zvizaruro zvisati zvichitongova zvisatongova zviono zviri zvoga; zviitiko zveiyeuko imwe zvinotaura kuti ikodzere kunoitwa neimwe. Apo amai vaSaru, Sachiko, vanozivisa kuyeuka kwavo vamene kwakajeka kwezvinoitika zvakapoteredza kubatwa zvisina kufanira kwaKayo, vanoita zvinopfuura kugovera. Iye anopa Saru nyara yeyeuko huru yeyeuko inowirirana, zivo yokuti iye haasati ari bedzi muchengeti wezvokwadi.

Iyi iratidziro inoshanda iyo varapi vezvenhamo vanonongedzera kwairi se rondedzero yenhauro inowirirana. Yeuko yomunhu, zvikurukuru apo inoshatiswa nebhurumu, haivimbiki. Asi apo mumwe mubereki anovimbwa, shamwari, kunyange nyanzvi yakazvipira ye [[FLT:] inofutunuka, yeuko inorasikirwa nesimba rayo rinochinja. Nyaya “ Kugadzirwa kweNhambaramedzo yoUmunhu neImbavaradzo dzechipfuva. [[FLT]] Kubva mumagazini [FLT:] Medicianism [FF]

[[FLT: 0] Anoita kuti izvi zvive zvakaisvonaka muzviono zvekirasi. Satu nhamburiko dzinopfuurira dzokubatanidza Kayo mujira renzanga reboka ravo hadzisi mabasa emutsa; mabasa e [[[FLT:]] kuyeuka [[[FLT:]]. Nokusika zvinoitika zvakanaka, zviitiko zvakanaka zveimba yemiti, zvokudya, kupemberera zuva rokuberekwa kweboka, [1] iye anogovera Kayo namapfundo matsva enongedzero anopesana zvishoma nezvishoma nechinoitika chake choupenyu hwapamusha. Yeuko yake haidzimwi; inopfuudzwa. Rima rinosara, asi harina kupfuudzirazve nzvimbo yake yezati.

Basa Roupenyu Hwose Rokutanga Yeuko Itsva

Kusunungurwa hakuwanzova chinoitika chimwe, chinoshamisa. Makore okupedzisira e anojekesa ikoku kupfurikidza nokuratidza kunaya kwenguva refu kwaSatu pashure pokumuka mukoma wake. Kushaiwa kwomuviri muyeuko yake (5] makore oupenyu hwake mumugariro wokusaziva / kurwadziwa kwendangariro kwendangariro dzouhwana. Haafaniri kungowanazve mabasa ake emotokari asiwo kuvakazve mukomana anozvidzora iye amene, uyo akanga ari mukuru akafamba nguva refu, uye zvino murume wacho akananga kunguva yemberi isina chokwadi.

Uku kuvakazve hakusi basa raanongoita. Zvisungo zvaakaita munguva yakapfuura zvinooneka nechokunze, zvinochinja zvikurukuru musiyano kwete kupfurikidza namazano echisiko chose asi kupfurikidza nokuzviwanira nguva itsva, yakabatana. Kupukunyuka kwaKayo kunomutungamirira kuvaka mhuri yake amene. Shamwari dzake dzinokura dzakatakura mipimo yokuvimbika neushingi izvo njodzi yacho inosimbisa. Kunyange Airi, unhu hwaakatanga nahwo, hunova chinhu chakafanira kurarama munguva yemberi. Umwe nomumwe wouhu ukama hunova bhangi reyeuko [[FLT:], rinoparadzirwa wirira bhengi reyeuko , , nzanga inopfuudzadza chitarisiko chake apo pfungwa yake imene isingagoni kuzivikanwa.

Nokuda kwavateereri, ichi ndicho chiito chinoshanda zvikurusa. Simba re rakakoshwa [ harisi muunyengeri hwaro hunopfuura hwesimba asi mukuomerera kwaro kuti nguva yakapfuura inogona kuchinjwazve neizvo tinoita munguva ino. Chiito chiri chose chine revo, nhambo iri yose yebatano yechokwadi, mbeu yeyeuko inogona kuchekererwa apo tariro inova duku. Chivimbo chenhevedzano chakavakirwa muuchokwadi hwezuva riri rose hweyeuko inoshanda sei: hatigoni kubvisa maganhuro anorwadza, asi tinogona kunyora akawanda zvikuru zvokuti nhau yacho yose zvayo inorondedzerwa nechimwe chinhu chisiri ngwavaira.

Yeuko Sechinowirirana Chokupedzisira Netsitsi

Zvichida gakava rakanyarara zvikuru asi gurusa rinoitwa nenhevedzano nderokuti zivo yakazara yeyeuko yomumwe inobvisa bviro yohumwe hwechigarire . Nguva yaSaru inosvetuka inomupa kusununguka kwete bedzi kunguva yake yomunguva yakapfuura asi, kupfurikidza necherechedzo uye ruzivo rwokuzviwanira rwakagoverano, kusvikira kunzvimbo dzomukati dzavakapoteredza. Anodzidza rutyo rwaKayo zvakananga. Anoona ushoma huri seri kweboka bhurodhi. Iye anopupurira kupererwa mwoyo kwakanyarara kwomudzidzisi uyo anonzwa revo youpenyu hwake huchiderera.

Kuona uku kweyeuko kunomuchinja nokuti kunobvisa mazita akanaka anoita kuti kusakendenga kubvire. Haungagoni kudzinga munhu apo nhau yavo yose yakanyorwa mumwoyo mako. Nhevedzano yacho inokarakadza kuti kana tose tichigona kuyeuka zvirokwazvo kwete chete zvinoitika asi maitiro emirangariro yavamwe, utsinye hwaizova husingabviri.

Panguva apo kurukurirano dzetsika dzinova dzinova nechokubatanidza ndangariro nenhamba yenhau, inobatira sechinhu chinowanika, chinodzokororwa mundangariro. Shoko rayo harisiririri repfupi kana kuti rescapist. Inobvuma kuti yeuko inogona kuva torongo. Inobvumira kuti kudzokera shure kuve nzira inoenda kusingasviki. Asi inoomerera, nesimba rakazara rerondedzero yayo, kuti mano anotiisawo musungo. Kuzvidemba isuo inorema, asi yeukoro apo inosangana, uye pakupedzisira inoibatanidza.

Pakupedzisira, [[FT:0] yakadzorwa haitikumbiri kukanganwa. Inotikumbira kuyeuka zvakawanda, kwete zvishoma: kuyeuka zviso zvavana takatadza, nguva dzatakatarira kure, mikana miduku yatakarasikirwa nayo. Kungopfuudza bedzi nokuva nemifungo iyoyo yakazara mundangariro dzedu tinogona kufamba munzira umo kuzvidemba kunochinja kuva rudzi rworudo rwangwarira, rwamaune runovaka ukoshipirirwa mugari wemo.