Kudziŵa Kukumbukira Zinthu Mosasintha

Nkhani za nthaŵi kaŵirikaŵiri sizimawona chikumbukiro kukhala choposa chiwiya chamachenjera . Nthanozo zimasintha. ['FLT] (imene imadziŵikanso monga [[FLT:]] Bakuke inga Aga Machi [[FLT]]]]) imawononga zimene zikuyembekezeredwa kotheratu. M'nkhaniyi, chikumbukiro si chongosunga; ndi injini ya nkhani yonse, malo amene zilembo zimasochera, ndipo zimasoweka, ndipo potsirizira pake. Kudandaula ndi kuwomboletsera sizikupangidwa ndi zigaweruzo. Zimapangidwa ndi zilembozo, kuiŵala, ndi kufotokozanso zochitika zawo. Chomwe chingochitika, koma sizikuchitika posafotokoza zimene zinachitikira: [FFF: FF:]

Kumvetsa chifukwa chimene ntchito ya kukumbukira imamvekera bwino, kumathandiza kuyang'ana kulinganiza kwa maganizo komwe kuliko. Kukumbukira kuli njira yoyambiranso, osati kumangokumbukira. Kukumbukira kuli kachitidwe ka zinthu zokongola, kokhala kosavuta kupotoza, kujambula, ndi ngakhale kupondereza kwadala. Kukhozetsa kumodzimodziko kumachititsa kuti mwana ayambe kuganiza za Satoru Fucca.

Kufufuza kwa chigawo chachisanu ndi chimodzi pa zinthu zopweteka za m'maganizo kofalitsidwa ndi American Psychological Association kumagogomezera bwino lomwe kupsinjika maganizo: “Kukumbukira za kupsinjika maganizo kungakhale kogaŵanika kwambiri, kolumikizidwa monga kujambula kwapakamwa ndi malingaliro mmalo mwa kufotokoza zinthu zogwirizana. Nkhaniyo siikulongosola zinthu zakale mosavutikira; ikuphatikizapo zodulidwazo m'nkhani zimene zingachitike, zomvetsa chisoni, ndi zopoletsera.

Maganizo Osokonezeka Paubwana

Moyo wa Satu Fujinula ndi chithunzi cha kukula kwa kumangidwa, ndipo chiyambi cha kuphana kumeneko nchosaiwalika. Iye ndi wojambula waluso wa silika, wosagwirizana ndi malingaliro, wogwira ntchito yopereka kwa munthu, ndipo wovutitsidwa ndi lingaliro losadziŵika bwino koma losasintha la kusudzulidwa. Sadziŵabe kuti imfa ya amayi ake ndi mzera wakupha wa ubwana wake zili zogwirizana mwachindunji ndi zikumbukiro zake zosagwirizana. Zimene amadziŵa kuti ndi kusoŵa kwachikhalire kumene ofufuza za kukumbukira amatchula [[FLT:]] kugwirizanitsa kwa zinthu za moyo wa munthu. Zoyambazo sizikuchitikapo; zikupitirizabe kuvulaza chifukwa chakuti sizinadziŵidwepo.

“ Chochitika cha Repal” . N’kamodzi kakang'ono kamene kamakakamiza Saru kuti ateteze ngozi isanachitike. Amafanana ndi zimene akatswiri odziŵa za kupweteka amatcha zizindikiro za kusokonezeka kwa thupi, koma mowongoka: mmalo mwa kulira kwa mphezi kumene kumalepheretsa, Satoru amakhala kuloŵerera kwamphamvu. Satoru . Samango kusoŵa chochita; amakakamizika kukhala wopulumutsa. Zimenezi zimasintha chikumbukiro kuchokera ku magwero a kufooka, komabe katunduyo amatuluka ndi kutuluka mtolo waukulu. Kubwereranso kwake kumakhala kothetsedwa, kosokonezeka, ndi kunyamula chidziŵitso chachikulu chimene sakanatha kupulumutsa munthu aliyense.

Mwanjira imeneyi, [[FLT: 0] adadziwitsa mfundo yaikulu ponena za kudandaula. Si chisoni chabe chifukwa cha zotsatira zoipa; ndi chikhulupiriro chopitirizabe chakuti tsopano likhoza kupanga chosankha chosiyana ndi chimodzi [. Saru sux directs pa kuchotsa chikhulupirirocho mwa kusonyeza kuti mwanayo anali wopanda zinthu, chidziŵitso, ndi chichirikizo kuti achite zinthu mosiyana. Kungophatikiza nzeru za munthu wamkulu ndi mwana wamaganizo kungayambitse kudzikhululukira yekha.

Nostaligia Monga Nthaka Yotetezera

Ngati chisoni ndicho mphepe woŵala, kulakalaka kuli chophimba chokopa. N’zokongola, ndipo zimatumikira chifuno chofotokoza zinthu zakuthambo za m'mbuyo: kuwala kochuluka kwa tauni ya Hokkaido yachipale, kutentha kwa m'kalasi mu February, malo otonthoza a chakudya cha banja. Nthaŵi zino zimakhala zokongola, ndipo zimagwira ntchito yofotokoza za zinthu. Nkhanizi zikusonyeza kuti kutengeka mtima kukhoza kukhala nyumba yotetezeka maganizo [[[FLT:]], malo otetezeka maganizo, othawa pamene chakudya chilipo chitakhala chosapiririka.

Kufufuza za kulakalaka kumakhala kosonyeza mbali ziŵiri. Ntchito yolembedwa mwachidule ndi Salchology Today [1] imadziŵitsa kuti pamene kuli kwakuti kulakalaka kungakulitse malingaliro a kuyanjana ndi ena ndi cholinga, kungatsogolerenso ku kuchititsa kulakwa kopambanitsa ndi kulinganiza kwake kosatsimikizirika kwa zinthu zakale. Kumanja a Saru, kubwerera ku 1988 kumapatsidwa mlandu ndi kuwonadi kusinthika kwa moyo kwanthaŵi yoyamba. Iye amaona anzake achicheperewo kukhala osalimba ndi mavuto awo aumwini, koma monga mikhole iyenera kupulumutsa m'nkhani yake yowomboletsera. Ndi pamene akulola kuti apite ku Halo ali mwana amene angaonedi Hayo zivute kuti avutike:

Kayo mwiniyo akukhala wotsutsa kuiwala kwa mawu. Thupi lake lili ndi umboni weniweni wakuti kulakalaka zinthu sikunganyalanyaze ndi manja aatali, matenda osoŵa zakudya zimene zimachititsa kuti akhale wamng'ono kwa anzake. Pamene zikumbukiro za Saru zisiya kulira ndi kulembetsa tsatanetsatane, ntchito yake imasintha kuchoka pa kuletsa upandu wapamwamba kufika pa kupulumuka munthu mmodzi weniweni. Kusintha kumeneko ndi kuchepetsa kukhala kwake kopanda nzeru ndipo kumakhala chizoloŵezi cha tsiku ndi tsiku.

Chotsimikizira Choti Sichidzabwera Kudza

Dzinalo Nlotsutsidwa kwambiri ndi kulemera kophiphiritsira, ndipo fanizo lalabba looneka likuwoneka mobwerezabwereza m'zochitika zotsegulira ndi zochitika zazikulu. Pamwamba pake, labbiloga imapereka lingaliro la malo oyera, maloto opetsa ochotseratu zinthu zimene zilipo kwakuti ngakhale tchizi sizitsala. Zopeka n’zopeka, zongopekazo. Pamene anthu ayesa kuchotsa zinthu zopweteka zimene akukumbukira, sapeza mtendere; mmalo mwake amapanga [[FLT:]ps m’maganizo awo. Zikusiya kuti zikhale zosachedwa kubwerezanso.

Palibe paliponse pamene zimenezi zaonekera kwambiri kuposa m'nthanthi ya maganizo a munthu. Popanda kufufuza kwa owononga, mphamvu yosonkhezera kumbuyo kwa chiwopsezo chachikulu ndi unansi wopotozedwa ndi chikumbukiro ndi chizindikiritso, wozikidwa poyesa kuchotsa kusoŵa kwakukulu. Woyesa wakuphayo saali chiwawa wamba koma mtundu wa kukonza chikumbukiro, kuyesayesa kukwaniritsa chimene chazimiririka. M’nkhaniyi, nkhaniyo imapanga chigomeko chochititsa mantha: kachitidwe ka kuyesa kuchotsapo zinthu zakale sikumachiwononga icho kukhala chinthu chodabwitsa chimene chimafuna mawu mosasamala kanthu.

Kwa akatswiri a ma protagononi, phunzirolo nlofunikanso. Nthaŵi ya Caratorus yomwe inakhala ndi comartose pambuyo pa kulimbana kwake komaliza imatanthauza mtundu wa chipale chokwanira, malo opanda kanthu amene sangakhale ndi chithunzi chakumbuyo kapena mtsogolo. Komabe ngakhale pamenepo, chikumbukiro chimapitirizabe m’matupi ndi maganizo a awo amene amamkonda. Amake sanagwedezekepo; mabwenzi ake anachezera; Kayo anamanga moyo umene unanyamula chisonkhezero chake. Kupirira kwa chikumbukiro kutsogolo kwa nyengo yeniyeni ndi kupambana kwa chigomeko, chigomeko chomaliza: [FLT: 0] Palibe kanthu kena kamene kamasoŵa ngati kachitiridwa umboni ndi kuchitidwa ndi wina.

Kukumana Monga Njira Yopulumutsira

Pamene kuli kwakuti amadandaula, makambitsirano amagwirizanitsa. Malo osinthira ku amavumbula zinthu zochitidwa ndi Kayto, amachita zambiri kuposa kufotokoza. Saru akupatsa Saru chipusiro chachikulu cha chikumbukiro chimodzi ndi munthu wina. Pamene amake Saru, Sachiko, avumbula kuti iye amakumbukira bwino zochitika za Kayo, amachita zambiri kuposa kufotokoza. Saru akupatsa Saru chipu chopereka chopereka chipukutira chakumbukiro chakumbukiridwa ndi munthu mmodzi, chidziŵitso chakuti iye sali kokha wosunga choonadi.

Magalasi amphamvu ameneŵa amene madokotala othandiza anthu ovutika maganizo amawatcha kukonzanso nkhani zogwirizana. Munthu amakumbukira, makamaka akaipitsidwa ndi iye mwini, n’ngosakhulupirika. Koma ngati kholo lina lodalirika, bwenzi, ngakhale katswiri wodzipereka , , ndi kuwonjezera mfundo za m'mbuyo ndi kuisintha, chikumbukiro chimataya mphamvu yake yosintha. Nkhaniyi imati: “Kumanga Zamoyo ndi za Munthu mwini ndi Implutions za Andust [1] kuchokera ku magazini [FLT] PP] Bulletin Bulletinment [FFF:5]

[[FLT: 0] Amachita machitidwe okongolawa m'maseŵera a m'kalasi. Zoyesayesa zopitirizabe za kugwirizanitsa Kayo m'kachipangizo ka mayanjano a kalasi awo siziri chabe ntchito zachifundo; ndizo ntchito za [[[FLT:] zokumbukira [[FLT:] [1]. Mwakupanga zokumana nazo zabwino, zopindulitsa, maulendo apanyumba, chakudya chapachigulu, phwando la tsiku lakubadwa, [1] Iye akupereka Kayo ndi mfundo zatsopano zimene zimasiyanitsa pang'onopang'ono ndi moyo wake wa panyumba. Chikumbukiro chake sichimachotsedwa; chimakuzidwa. Mdimakhalabe, koma sichimakulanso.

Ntchito Yokumbukira Zinthu Zatsopano kwa Moyo Wonse

Kuwombola sikumakhala chochitika chimodzi, chodabwitsa. Chaka chomaliza cha chimamveketsa zimenezi mwa kusonyeza kuti Setu achira kwa nthaŵi yaitali atakomoka. Zaka za moyo wake wa kukumbukira ndipo ali ndi vuto la kusazindikira. Sayenera kungopezanso mphamvu yake komanso kukonzanso mwana amene anali kugona, wamkulu amene anayenda kwa nthaŵi yaitali, ndipo mwamunayo tsopano akuyang'anizana ndi tsogolo losatsimikizirika.

Kumanganso kumeneku sikuli ntchito ya munthu mmodzi. Zomangira zimene anapanga kale zikuonekera kunja, zikumasintha kwambiri nthaŵi osati kupyolera mwa machenjera achilengedwe koma mwa kuchuluka kwa nthaŵi zatsopano, zogwirizana. Kupulumuka kwa Kayo kumamtsogolera kumanga banja lake. Mabwenzi ake amakula ndi makhalidwe a kukhulupirika ndi kulimba mtima zimene vutolo limalimbitsa. Ngakhale Airi, khalidwe la pa nthaŵi yake yoyamba, limakhala moyo wa mtsogolo. Umodzi uliwonse wa maunansi ameneŵa umakhala banki ya kukumbukira zinthu [[FLT:], wogaŵana ndi mathero amene amasunga chizindikiritso chake pamene maganizo ake satha.

Kwa omvetsera, imeneyi ndi njira yothandiza kwambiri. Mphamvu ya yotayidwa , siikhala m'chisa chake cha mphamvu yachilendo koma m'kuumirira kwake kuti mbiri yakale ingasinthidwe ndi zimene timachita tsopano. Ntchito iliyonse yatanthauzo, mphindi iliyonse ya kugwirizana kwenikweni, mbewu zimene pambuyo pake zingatulutsidwe pamene chiyembekezo chichepa. Mndandanda wa zinthu za moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku za mmene chikumbukiro chimagwirira ntchito: Sitingachotse machaputala opweteka, koma tingalembe zinthu zatsopano zambiri kuti nkhani yonseyo imafotokozedwa ndi chinthu china chosakhala tsoka.

Kukumbukira Zinthu Monga Chogwirizanitsa Chachikulu ndi Chifundo

Mwinamwake mkangano wachete kwambiri komanso woopsa kwambiri umene mumatsatira ndi wakuti chidziŵitso chonse cha chikumbukiro cha wina chimathetsa kuthekera kwa kuthekera kwa kusakhalanso kwachikhalire . Nthaŵi ya Saru imampatsa iye kuthekera osati kokha kwa kalelo lake komanso, mwa kuwona ndi zokumana nazo zomwe, kufikira ku madera amkati a anthu amene ali naye. Amaphunzira kuwopa kwa Kayo. Iye akuwona kusungulumwa kwa kalasi ya gulu la ovutitsawo. Iye akuwona kuthedwa nzeru kwa mtima kwa mphunzitsi amene amamva cholinga cha moyo wake .

Kuyang'ana kwa kukumbukira kumeneku kumamsintha chifukwa kumachotsa zizindikiro zoyenerera zimene zimachititsa mphwayi kukhala yothekera. Simungachotse munthu pamene mbiri yawo yonse ilembedwa mumtima mwanu. Nkhanizo zimapereka lingaliro lakuti ngati tonsefe tingakumbukiredi zochitika osati kokha komanso mawonekedwe a malingaliro a ena, nkhanza zikanakhala zosatheka. Chifundo, m'nkhanizi, chimakhala ntchito ya kukumbukira: kukhoza kunyamula mkati mwathu mbali ina ya zimene zili kutanthauza kukhala munthu wina.

Panthaŵi imene kukambitsirana kwa chikhalidwe kukukhudzana ndi kuŵerengera mbiri, imatumikira monga njira yosavuta kuifikira, yochititsa chidwi. Uthenga wake suli wopepuka kapena wochititsa kaso. Imavomereza kuti chikumbukiro chingakhale ndende. Imalola kuti kulakalaka kuthawa kukhale njira imene ikupita kulikonse. Koma imalimbikira, ndi mphamvu yonse ya kujambula kwake, kuti maluso omwe amatitsekera kuti tichitenso mfundo. Kudandaula ndi chitseko cholemera, koma kukumbukira zinthu , pamene kukugawana, ndipo pomaliza pake kuphatikizapo.

Kumapeto, Expand sitikupempha ife kuiwala. Ilo limatipempha kukumbukira zambiri, osati zochepa: kukumbukira nkhope za ana amene tinalephera, nthaŵi zimene tinaiwala, mwaŵi waung’ono umene tinaphonya. Kokha mwa kusunga chithunzi chonsecho m’maganizo mwathu tingayende m’njira imene timasintha kukhala mtundu wa chikondi chachisawawa, chadala chimene chimakulitsa kufunika kwa mtsogolo kwa nzika.