Chiyambi: Chikondi M’malo Okhala Bata

Zilengezo zachikondi zambiri sizimafika kaŵirikaŵiri monga zazikulu, za mafilimu. Mmalomwake, zimanong’ona mwapang'onopang'ono, mwapang'onopang'ono, motsatizana zimene zimapanga nsalu ya moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, masana odzaza mosamala, dzanja pamphumi, kuchotsa phee thiranki ya ndudu. M’nkhani yosimba, pamene fomu iliyonse imapatsa mpata wa kusonyeza, choonadi chimenechi chimamveka. [mamea a moyo wa moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, Usgi Wataya (BP]) (Kugwa) ndi [FLT)] Kukongola ndi Kuunika ndi chikondi champhamvu, mwa mobwerezabwereza, ndipo zimavumbula chikondi chachiwonjezeze chakuya cha pa zinenero zonse.

Kugwa kwa Chisamaliro kwa Mwazi [[FLT: 0] Usagi [

Chiyambi Chosadziŵika

[[NTL:0] Akufa, Akumana ndi Rin Kat, wolembedwa ndi Yumi Unita, akuyamba ndi maliro akuti aikatsa banja losamvana. Pamene Homichi Kawachi wa zaka makumi atatu apita ku kugona kwake, iye amakumana ndi Rin Kaga, mwana wamkazi wa zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi wapathengo. Amapenyedwa ndi achibale ake ouma [1] Kulankhula miseche ponena za kutumiza mtsikana ku ana amasiye . Chigamucho, chobadwa kuchokera pa kanthaŵi kochepa chabe ka makhalidwe abwino, kumponya m’dziko kumene chikondi chiyenera kusonyezedwa ndi kusonyezedwa, kaŵirikaŵiri, kutsendekera kwa makolo ake. Nthaŵi zina, kukana kuwona kuperekedwa kwa kuntchito yankhanza kwa kuntchito ya kuntchito ya kuwona. Chidziŵitso cha Zamoyo chimodzi. Chidziŵitsochi, chimamveka chosamveka. [ Fon, chiganicho]

Kuwongolera Maganizo Mwamwambo

Chikondi cha Daikichi ndi mtundu wa kukonza zinthu zamaganizo, wopangidwa tsiku ndi tsiku mwa ntchito zokhalitsa. Amasiya kusuta fodya mwa mawu ochititsa chidwi, koma mwa kutaya mwakachetechete fodya wake pamene asuta fodya angavulale Rin. Iye amatsitsa makwerero a gulu, kuchotsa ntchito yotchuka ya zotumiza katundu zabuluu ndi maola okhazikika, kuti akhale panyumba pokonzekera chakudya. Ntchito imeneyi siiperekedwa monga nsembe yamphamvu koma monga masamu a zinthu zatsopano. Nthaŵi zambiri zosavuta ndizo za kuyendetsa ndege: kudzaza mafomu osatha a sukulu, kusoka mabatani a mayunifomu a sing’amba usiku, ndi kudzuka kudzuka asanachedwe kuti apange mabokowonekedwe.

Chitsanzo china champhamvu chimachitika poyambirira pa mpambo wa Rin pamene asochera pobwerera kunyumba. Daikichi akuopa kubwerera kunyumba. Daikichi, akukwera njinga kudutsa malo apafupi. Pomalizira pake atampeza atakhala pansi pa mtsinje, iye samudzudzula; mmalo mwake, amagwada, kumuyang'ana ngati wavulala, ndi kunena modekha, "Ndinada nkhaŵa. Kuvomereza kosavuta, kochitidwa mwaukali konse. Iye amagula chiwiya chake, osati monga chiphuphu, koma monga kachitidwe kang'ono ka kulumikizidwa. Ameneŵa ndi maatomu a kulumikizidwa: kuonetsa, kukhala chete, ndi kupereka kukoma mtima kwaing'ono m’manthayo.

Chinenero Chosalankhulidwa cha Kukhulupirira

Kulankhulana kwachikondi sikuli kwa kamodzi. Rin, poyamba phee la chisoni, kawonedwe ka Diikichi ka mawu a magetsi ang'onoang'ono. Chikondi chake chimaonekera m'kufunitsitsa kwake komakulakula kukhala wolephera. Mwana amene anakana momasuka thandizo lachiŵiri tsopano akupempha thandizo la kuthandizira ku luntha. Ayamba kunena zimene amakonda, kupeka "Baydy" pa tsiku lofufuza, chinthu chimene sichimafuna kufotokoza bwino koma chimatulutsa mphamvu ya mtima. Posinthapo amabwera pamene Rin adwala ndi kutentha kwa thupi. M’bairo, akulankhula mokweza chifukwa cha agogo ake akufa, kuvumbula chisoni chake. Koma atadzuka, amafikira pa kulira kwa Daichichi.

Chifaniziro cha [[FL:0] Kukoma ndi Kuwala

Chitonthozo Chachikulu Monga Chinenero Chachikondi

Ngati Usagi Watha amajambula malo osamalira mwa njira ya ndandanda, Kukoma ndi Kuyanika kumayamwitsa m'chipinda cha m'khitchini. Mphunzitsi wapamwamba wa masamu Kōhei Intuka, mkazi wamasiye ndi wotayika, wakhala akudyetsa mwana wake wamng'ono Tsugi chakudya chothandiza ndi chakudya. Nkhaniyo imayamba m’malo a chisoni chachikulu ndi njala ya maganizo, zonse ziŵirizo. Mwambo wakuti ayenera kuphunzira kuphikira mwana wake wamkaziyo chakudya choyenera, wowonongeka, ndi kukonzanso moyo. Zomwe ziŵirizo zimayamba ndi zina za m'banja la Khini, zomwe zimapangana.

Kukonzekera Mogwirizana Kumasonyeza Chizindikiro

Majesicha aang'ono ndi onyanyuka: mawu amphesa odula ndiwo zamasamba, crack yokhutiritsa ya dzira, onse akubuula pa mphika wotentha. Chochitika chonsecho chadzipereka ku mchitidwe wopatulika, wauchimo wa kukonza jiza. Monga Tsungigi monyadira, kugwedeza, kutaya fulalu, kutaya thupe, Kōhei sikumthandiza. Amaika pa kachipangizo kofanana ndi kake, kamodzi, kachitidwe kamene kamakulitsa chidaliro chake ndi kugawana kwake. Dipatimenti imakhala malo a kulingana kotheratu, kumene ali ndi dzina ndi kusungunuka m’manja kwa ufa ndi mafuta. Pamene amagwirizana ndi mphatso yapafupi. Mawu ena achikondiwo amakhudza kudyetsana kwa chakudya chapansi kwa amayi. Kapei, amene anaphika ndi kuphika ndi kuphika, tsopano ndi chiyembekezo chamwaŵirala cha m’thu. [impha wapafupi]

Kuchiritsa mwa Kupatsa kwa Ofooka

Nkhanizo nzaluso posonyeza mmene chikondi chimapatsirana kunja m'malo ozungulira. Kachitidwe kakang'ono ka kulonga zotsala kwa Kotori sakhalako, mayi wogwira ntchito mopambanitsa ndi kakhalidwe kabata kokhalamo. Kukweza bwenzi lopulupudza, Shinobu ku chakudya chopangidwa ndi msungwana wochokera ku banja losweka. Zimenezi sizili njira zazikulu zothetsera mavuto a banja ovuta, koma ndizodi zachifundo. Chidutswa chobisika chimawoneka mwa amayi ake, amene, ngakhale kuti katswiri wachipambano, akusonyeza chikondi kwa mwana wake wamkazi pafupifupi kupyola pa kamwana, wosabadwa, nthaŵi zonse zimene nthaŵi zonse zimakhala za kuwona kwa Kori wophika wosakhazikika. Mmodzi, Kori adawoneka, sanakopeke, amayi ake, amene akungozindikira kuyang’anira kwake, ngakhale pa Intaneti, zimene akuyang’aniridwa ndi kuwona kwachi.

Mmene Zinthu Zinakhalira ndi Maziko Osawonongeka

Onse aŵiri animichi amatumikira monga mabuku ophunzirira zamaganizo otetezereka. Amatsutsa kuti chisungiko sichimapangidwa mwa kuwonongeka kwa mavoko, koma mwa kukonza kosalekeza. Pamene Daikichi ataya mkwiyo wake pambuyo pa usiku wosagona, kupepesa kwake pa chakudya cha m’maŵa kuli kachitidwe kakang’ono kamene kangayambitsenso ubalewo mwamphamvu kwambiri kuposa ngati nkhondoyo inachitikapo. Mofananamo, pamene Kōhei atentha mpunga, kuseketsa kwa banja pa kulephera kwake kumakhala chikumbukiro cha kulimba kwanthaŵi imodzi cha kulimba kwa kutsimikizira zolakwa zosaswa chikondi; akhoza kulimbitsa. Zochita zimenezi zimayendera pamodzi ndi ntchito ya John Gotman, amene [FLT: 0] Akufuna ku Gottman Institute [1] [FFFFFFFF] kwa tsiku ndi tsiku ndi tsiku ndi tsiku ndi tsiku, kugwirizanitsa kwawo kwa kugwirizana ndi maato aunzi aubwenzi.

Malo ameneŵa amawonekanso m’njira zonse ziŵirizo kusamalira kukambitsirana kovuta kwa malingaliro. Daikichi ndi Kōhei saali olankhula bwino. Amakhumudwa, amatuluka. Koma nthaŵi zonse amabwerera. [[FLT: 0] Usagi] Las , pambuyo pa tsiku pamene Daikichi alephera kuchotsa Rini pa nthaŵi yake, iye samapereka chifukwa. Amakhala pansi ndi iye, pompoise, ndi kuŵerenga nkhani yowonjezereka asanayambe kugona. [[FLT:] Ulungia ndi Kuunika [FLTF:], pamene iye aphunzira njira zodzikhululukira. Iye amaphunzira ndi Tgi, amafunsa, kuyang'ana, ndi kuyankha, kuyang'ana. Ndi kunyamuthandiza. [FLTLD] AIFLD , IFFF:]

Kuchokera ku Mchitidwe wa Kudzisunga Kufikira ku Miyambo Yadziko Yeniweni

Nkhani zimenezi siziri zosangalatsa; zili mawu achete oitanira kwa aliyense wofuna kukulitsa maunansi m'dziko locheutsidwa. Maphunziro ngosamveka. Kholo limene silingapange chikho chonse likhoza kusiyabe chikho [[FLT: 0] chopanda chiŵiya chachikondi [, monga ngati kakalata kotsekemera pa bokosi la chakudya. Mnzawo amene amadzimva kukhala wosatetezeka satha kuchita zinthu zazikulu zachikondi, koma mwa mwambo waung'ono wa khofi, angasiye chikho chokondedwa chawo. Aphunzitsi angabwereke Kōi , kupeza njira zosonyezera ophunzira kuti zoyesayesa zawo zikuwoneka ngati amayi awo akuonerera vidiyo imodzi.

Malo operekedwa ndi Usagi Amataya . Si chakudya changwiro, ndi Kukongola ndi Kuwala kwa magetsi n’kopepuka. Amachotsa kupanikizika kowopsa kwa kukwaniritsa ndi kuchotsapo ndi kukonza chakudya. Sikuli ngati chakudya chokwanira, sikuli chifukwa cha kukhala ndi yankho lililonse; ndiko kusonyeza masamu a nsembe mwa kusankha ntchito yolemekezeka, yowonjezereka. Kufufuza zasayansi kumalimbitsa zimenezi: [FL:4] Kuloŵa m'malo pa Chiyambi cha Mwana pa Yunivesite ya Harvard [1] [FT]. [F] Kusinthana ndi kubwerera kwa "kathandizana, ndi kuyang'anira ntchito yapadera. [makei]

Pamene Chakudya ndi Kusamba Zikhala Zopatsa Maganizo

M'dziko lonseli, chakudya chakuthupi ndi kusamala kwa malingaliro zimafanana. Kachitidwe ka Daikichi kamagwirizanitsa ntchito yake yaikulu ndi maola a sukulu ya Rin, kapena Kōhei kuphunzira digiri yeniyeni ya dashi [1] chifukwa chakuti ndi kapu wa Tsupu chifukwa chakuti ndi wogwirizana ndi chitonthozo, zilembozo ndizo chinenero cha chikondi. Chinenerochi ndicho kutseguka kwa [[FLT:] pamene assetic ali chiwiri chachijapani, zipinda zofunikira [FLT2] [FFFF:], machipang'ole [FT], [Flactati], [Flactoct:], [Foctati] . [Foctatiko:] . Fotma "A. "Ana chilankhulochi ndi: "asease ) Ogwirizana ndi oyenera kukonza magetsi kwa anthu ambiri ku madzulo kwa madzulo kwa madzulo kwa Zambia, ku chigawo cha ku madzulo kwa chigawo cha ku madzulo kwa chigawo chakus

Mwa kupereka nthaŵi zimenezi mosamalitsa, kaŵirikaŵiri molongosoka, mpambo umenewu umakweza chophimba pa chimene chikondi chapachimake chimawonekadi m’malo ake achilengedwe / osati m’chithunzi cha banja chojambulidwa, koma m’chithunzi chosaoneka bwino cha atate wogona adakali ndi crayon, atagona mkati mwa nthaŵi ya kuyera. Chithunzi chimenecho, chosavuta ndi chofala kwambiri, chimanyamula kulemera kwa kachitidwe kalikonse kachiyambi kake kamene kake: chakudya chokonzedwa, misoziyo inafafanizidwa, nkhanizo zinaŵerengedwa. Chikondi sicho chochitika chachikulu; chiri zikwi zambiri za kanthaŵi kosaiwalika, pafupifupi nthaŵi zimene pamodzi chimachita chingwe chosasweka.

Kukhazikika kwa Kudzipereka Kofala

Pomalizira pake, onse aŵiri Usagi Wogwetsa mphamvu ndi [FLT ] . Kukongola ndi Kuwala kwa magetsi kumapambana chifukwa chakuti amakana lingaliro lakuti chikondi ndicho chinthu chapadera choyenera kulengezedwa panthaŵi imodzi. M’malo mwake, amachipereka monga gwero lokonzanso mphamvu, lopangidwa tsiku ndi tsiku, mwadala, ndi zisonyezero. Daikichi kupweteka kwa dzanja lake chifukwa cha kugwira njinga ya digiri ndi jini yogona pa belu lake, ndi Khei'sss akakhala wophunzira kugwiritsa ntchito mpeni waluso, ndi zizindikiro za kupembedza kopitirizabe. Zimenezi sizili nkhani zokhudza chikondi, ngakhale zachikondi, ngakhale za mpangidwe lapamwamba, zaulimi, amawonana, ndipo amateronso, ndi kudyetsa kwa anthu.

M'nkhani zoulutsidwa zodzala ndi zinthu zowonedwa ndi chisangalalo chapanthaŵi yomweyo, mphamvu ya nkhani zachete zimenezi ili m’lingaliro lawo lakuti kusonkhanitsa kanthaŵi kochepa ka chisamaliro ndiko chozizwitsa chokha chimene chili chofunika. Kachitidwe kang’onoko sikali chabe kachizindikiro; ndiko chinthu chonse cholimba cha moyo wokondeka. Kaya tisamalira mwana, mnzathu, bwenzi, kapena kholo, phunziro nlofanana: kuonetsa, kusamala, ndi kuchita zinthu zazing’ono.