Anyamata ena amamamatira ku mbiri yawo yamphamvu kwambiri. M’malo mwa kugwiritsira ntchito mbiri yawo monga phunziro, iwo amailola kuiwononga, kuiipitsa ndi kuipsa ubale uliwonse. Malingaliro ameneŵa kumbuyo sikunakhale chipangizo chongoyerekezera; imayerekezera mavuto enieni aumunthu ndi kulakalaka, chisoni, ndi kusokonezeka kwa zinthu. Kufotokoza chifukwa chake anthu ameneŵa amaswa pansi pa zikumbukiro zawo kungadziŵitse mavuto athu mwa kusintha ndi kutayikiridwa, ndipo imavumbula zimene zimachititsa kuti kakhalidwe kakhale kabwino.

Munthu kapena munthu wongopeka akakana kuthawa, sangokhala wouma khosi. Pansi pa denga pali upo wovuta wa mantha, kusungidwa, ndi kudzitetezera kwa malingaliro. Zaka zapitazo zimakhala malo opatulika, koma mofanana ndi doko lililonse lotetezeka limene limakhalapo ndi cholinga chake, ilo limakhala ndende. Mukhoza kuphunzira kuona zizindikirozo mwamsanga m’nkhani: zochita zobwerezabwereza, kulephera kuzoloŵera, kapena kudzimva kukhala ndi chisoni chachikulu chimene chimapanga kugwirizana kulikonse. Mikhalidwe imeneyi imapanga kulemera, kulongosola bwino chifukwa chakuti imasonyeza kupsinjika kwa munthu pakati pa chitonthozo chodziŵika ndi kuwopsa kwa osadziŵa.

Osamuka

  • Anthu ogwidwa m’mawa kaŵirikaŵiri amavutika ndi mikhalidwe yamaganizo yozama imene imasonyezadi kupsinjika maganizo kwenikweni kwa dziko.
  • Kukana kuchotsa zakale kumatsogolera ku malingaliro oziziritsa kukhosi, kuswa maunansi, ndi kuphonya mwaŵi wakukula.
  • Mabande amphamvu koposa a kamzere ka chombo pa mphindi yovomerezedwa, kusonyeza kuti kuchiritsa nkotheka pamene munthu ayang’anizana ndi nthaŵi ya pa nthaŵiyo.
  • Kuzindikira mtundu wa zinthu zakale kumathandiza olemba, oŵerenga, ndi openyerera kuyamikira kuvina kochititsa chidwi kochokera m’kumbukiro ndi m’chizindikiro.

Kupenda Maganizo ndi Kunong’oneza Bondo

Kuti mumvetse chifukwa chake munthu amavutika mmalo mopita patsogolo, muyenera kumvetsa mmene amamvera mumtima mwake ndi kudandaula. Nostalgia si nthaŵi zonse kufatsa, kutentha mtima; kungakhale mphamvu yowononga zinthu. Maganizo akayang'ana kumbuyo, nthaŵi zambiri amasintha kupweteka ndi kutonthoza, kuyambitsa njira yochititsa chidwi ya zochitika zimene sizinachitikepo. Kunong’oneza bondo, kumbuyo, kujambula mawu olakwika ndi kuwatchula mopanda malire, kutsekera munthu m’nkhoswe ya kudziimba yekha.

Kufufuza kwamakono kwa zamaganizo kumatsimikizira kuti kulakalaka kumakhala ngati njira yopitira ndiponso msampha. Malinga ndi deti lochokera ku American Psychological Association , kulakalaka kumawonjezera kutengeka maganizo ndipo kumapatsa malingaliro a kupitirizabe, koma kukanyanya, kumachititsa anthu kusachitapo kanthu. Kudandaula, pamene kuli kotereku, kungatsogolere kupsinjika ndi kulephera kwa zigamulo.

Mmene Kukumbukira Kumapangitsira Kudziŵika Kosadziŵika

Munthu amadzidalira kwambiri pa nkhani zimene amalankhula zokhudza mbiri yake. Ngati nkhanizo zakhala ndi kutayikiridwa kapena liwongo, ndiye kuti n’zovuta. Munthu amene amadzitcha ngati mkhole, wolephera, kapena ngwazi yoiwalika sangasinthe pamene mikhalidwe ifuna ntchito yatsopano. Mumaona zimenezi kwa akatswiri amene amadzidziŵikitsa okha pamavuto awo aakulu. Zikumbukiro zawo sizingokhala mfundo yongofotokoza chabe koma kulephera kwa anthu. Pamene mavuto amene alipowa, amagwa chifukwa chakuti chikumbukirocho chimatanthauza kugwedeza moyo wawo wonse.

Makhalidwe a Anthu Amene Amakana Kupita Patsogolo

Mungathe kuzindikira ziŵerengero zimenezi mwa mikhalidwe yosatsutsika. Siimangokhudza maganizo; ndizo zomangika mobadwa ndi ndandanda ya nthaŵi imene imakhala isanapezeke. Kukana kwawo kusintha kumaonekera monga kuopa kwachete kapena kukana koopsa nthaŵi iliyonse pamene dziko liwasonkhezera kusinthika. Kusintha kumeneku kumasintha zinthu kuchokera ku zizoloŵezi zawo za tsiku ndi tsiku ku zinthu zofunika kwambiri pa moyo wawo.

Imodzi ya mikhalidwe yotchuka kwambiri ndiyo ulendo wa nthaŵi. Ojambula otero nthaŵi zonse amatsogolera makambitsirano kumbuyo, kumasulira zochitika zamakono ku zidandaulo zakale, ndi kupima anthu atsopano ndi mizimu imene ali nayo. Mudzaona kuti kaŵirikaŵiri amakhala akatswiri a nkhani zosimba zinthu , koma nkhani imodzi yokha. Kulemba nkhani kumeneku ndi njira yopulumukira. Mwa kuyang'anira mbiri yakale, amayesa kulamulira phokoso la zinthu zimene zilipo.

Chizindikiro china chomvekera bwino ndicho mantha aakulu a kusatsimikizirika. Zakale, ngakhale zikhale zopweteka, sizikudziŵika. Mtsogolo mulibe zitsimikizo zoterozo. Mantha ameneŵa amayambitsa kukhulupirika kodabwitsa kwa kuvutika. Mkhalidwe ungasunge ku liwongo chifukwa kulola kupita kungatanthauze kuwona masinthidwe osadziŵika a iwo eni omwe angakhale achimwemwe, inde, komanso amene ayenera kulandira chowonadi chopweteka monga “Ndikanasamukira mwamsanga” kapena“ Kulakwa kwanga konse.

Kuvutika ndi Kutaikiridwa

Trauma imakhala ndi nthaŵi yapadera ya kuzizira kwa mtima. Pamene mukumana ndi kusweka mtima kwakukulu kwa wokondedwa, kuperekedwa, chiwawa [1] Nthaŵi zina ubongo umayang'anizana ndi mphamvu yaikulu kwakuti umakhalabe ndi moyo, chilonda chotseguka. M’zilembo, zimenezi kaŵirikaŵiri zimatembenuza kulephera kukumana ndi vutolo popanda kulithetsa. Iwo samakumbukira kupweteka kwake; amakusimba, kuvomereza zimene zimachitika lero ndi mphamvu ya dzulo zopulumukira.

Chochitika chimenechi chimachokera ku mmene ubongo umachitira zinthu zovutitsa maganizo. Kachipangizo kapamwamba ka mu Miehle bwino kalongosolera kuti kupsinjika maganizo kungasokoneze mphini wa mvuucampus, kupangitsa zikumbukiro zogaŵanika ndi zodzutsa maganizo mmalo mwa kusimba. Nkhaniyi imati, imeneyi ndi golide wozama kwambiri. Ngwazi imene siingakhululukire yokha chifukwa cha chosankha cha nkhondo, kholo lopunduka ndi ngozi ya mwana yakalekale .

Kulamulira Mwa Kubwerezabwereza

Anthu ena amamwerekera ndi kuchita sewero. Amabwereranso pamalo amene amamva kupweteka kwawo, kufunafuna zikumbutso, kapena ngakhale kukonzanso zochitika za kupsinjika kwawo. Zimenezi sizikudziphera okha chifukwa cha kutha kwake; ndi kuyesayesa kolakwika kwa kudziŵa chimene chinawachitikira. Mukuona kuti mwa munthu amene amafunafuna makope a kaboni a mnzake wotayika, kapena munthu wankhondo amene satha kulekeratu kupikisana nkhondoyo. Mfundo yake njakuti: Ngati ndingathe kupulumukanso, ndipo ndi [1] Ndingathenso kutsimikizira kuti sindinandisiye. Kunena zoona, amasweka, chifukwa chakuti amachokera m’nthaŵi yoyamba yokhayo imene anachira.

Mmene Sabo Yakale Iyambukirira Mtundu wa Chirombo Chamakono

Kanyama kake ndi ulendo wosintha zinthu, koma kumamatira ku ulendo wakale umene umakhala wozizira kwambiri poyambira. Kukana kuchititsa kulephera kwakukulu: chilembocho chimabwereza zolakwa zofananazo, chimatha kuchotsa anzake, ndi kuphonya mpata uliwonse wa kukula kwatanthauzo. Mumaona tsokalo chifukwa mungathe kuona zimene sangathe kumasuka, ngati atha kuyang'anizana ndi zimene zilipo.

Kusintha kumeneku kaŵirikaŵiri kumaoneka ngati kukula kwa andende. Mkhalidwewo ungapitirizebe kukhala wopsinjika maganizo pa msinkhu wa kupsinjika kwawo. Wasayansi wanzeru koma wokwiya adakali kulimbana ndi kufooka kwa paubwana, kapena mtsogoleri amene adakali kuvomereza ku kuperekedwa kwa zaka makumi ambiri, amapanga zosankha zimene zingakhale zoyenerera panthaŵiyo koma zowononga tsopano. Nkhani yawo imakhala nthano yochenjeza za mmene [[FLD:0] angawone ngati kukhulupirika koma amamva ngati moto wochedwa.

Chisoni, Kusungulumwa, ndi Kusunga Mkwiyo

Chisoni chimene sichimasintha kukhala cholemera, khalidwelo silimachoka. Amachivala m’kukambitsirana kulikonse, ngakhale kulemera ndi nthaŵi yachisoni. Kusungulumwa kumatsatira mwachibadwa, chifukwa chakuti ena amangopirira kusakhalapo kwawo kwa mtima. Posapita nthaŵi kumakhala kukwiyira kwa anthu amene asamukirako, ku moyo chifukwa cha kupanda chilungamo, ndipo kaŵirikaŵiri kwa iwo eni chifukwa cha kusakhoza kuchira.

Mukhoza kuona kholo limene linataya mwana zaka makumi angapo zapitazo ndipo tsopano likutsekereza mwana wotsala, kapena munthu wankhondo amene amamwa kuti athetse kulirako kokha. Kujambula kumeneku kumachititsa kuti amve choonadi chaumunthu: kupweteka kwa munthu sikutha;

Kuvutika Maganizo Ndiponso Kusokonezeka Maganizo

Chilembo chilichonse chomamatira ku mbiri yakale chili ndi mawu odzutsa(mamvekedwe, fungo, masiku, kapena mawu amene amawabwezera ku ululu woyamba. Pamene nkhani igwiritsira ntchito bwino zinthu zimenezi, muwona crack. Mwinamwake nyimbo ya munthu amene wataya chikondi imaseŵera mosayembekezereka, kapena ndemanga yaulesi ya wogonana naye wakale. Nthaŵi zimenezi sizingalamuliridwe, ndipo zimaswa khoma losamala lomwe linapangidwa.

Malo oswa nthaŵi zonse samakhala mabomba ochititsa kakasi; nthaŵi zina amakhala kugwa kwaphee. Munthu angangoleka kuyesa tsiku lina, kugonja ku ululu, kapena kupanga chosankha chatsoka chimene sichingathetsedwe. M’kusweka kwachete ndi kokulira, malo osimba nkhaniwo amawonjezereka. Ndi pa pulogalamu imeneyi kuti munthu ayenera kuyamba ntchito yopweteka ya kulola kapena kuloŵerera m’chiwonongeko chotheratu.

Zitsanzo za Mafano Kunja kwa Nkhani Zoulutsidwa

Nkhani za m’buku lililonse zafotokoza mmene moyo wa m’mbuyo umawonongekera, zimene zimapangitsa kuti munthu asaiwale mavuto amene amakumana nawo, kumangokhalira kumangoganizira za mavuto ake, ndiponso kuombolera ena, zikukuphunzitsani zimene zimachitika ngati zikukumbukiridwa m’malo mokhala kapolo.

Filimu: Mafilimu Ochititsa Chidwi a Gatsby ndi Oposapo

Ziŵalo zoŵerengeka zowononga kwambiri kulakalaka kwake monga momwe Jay Gatsby mu F. Scott Fitzgerald’s Great Gatsby [1] ndi mafilimu ake osintha. Gatsby imakonzanso mosamalitsa moyo wake wonse wa chiyembekezo cha kukonzanso chikondi kuyambira zaka zisanu zapitazo. Kukana kwake kuona Daisy monga thupi ndi mwazi wa moyo wosinthidwa kumatsogolera ku chiwonongeko chake. [[FLT:] Sparects kusanthula [[FLT:] Suptions] kutsimikizira mmene Gatby [katswiridwe kake] chifukwa cha kugaŵikana kwake kwa tsiku latsoka, kumasonyeza kutaya nthaŵi yaupandu. Mofananamo, Cellern [FFFF:] ndi Seat] kukhoza kuwona dala kulephera kuwona kulakwa kwake kwa tsikulo, chifukwa cha kuwona chiwopsezo cha kulakwa kwake, kapena kuvomereza chikhozo chake chakupsa cha tsiku.

Wailesi Yakanema: Nthaŵi za Kuipidwa

Kumwerekera kwa Rue Bennett kuli kogwirizana ndi kulephera kwake kukonza imfa ya atate wake ndi mavuto ake a maganizo. Kubwerera m'mbuyo kuli kubwerera m'chitonthozo cha zopinga za m'mbuyo. [FLT:] M'magazi a Rue Bennett [2], kumwerekera kwa Rue Bennett kumagwirizanitsidwa ndi kusatha kukonza imfa ya atate wake ndi mavuto ake a maganizo. Kubwerera kulikonse kumakhala kubwerera m'chisangalalo cha anthu othawa m'njira. M’manja a Men , Donaper ndi chizindikiro chonse chagonana kuti athawe umphaŵi ndi kuchitiridwa nkhanza kwa unyama wake, komabe kumangoloŵa mu unansi wawo wamakono, womapalira m'maseŵera osiyanasiyana. Maseŵera ameneŵa amakono akukulolani kuyang'kano odziŵika pamene mukhoza kusankha nthaŵi yodziŵika.

Maseŵero a Anime ndi Mavidiyo: Kulimbana Movutikira

Anime kaŵirikaŵiri amapanga nkhondo ya mkati ndi yapanthaŵiyo. [FLT: 0] Dragon Ball [1] Vegeta imavutitsidwa nthaŵi zonse ndi kuwonongedwa kwa pulaneti lake ndi kunyada kumene sangasiye; kukula kwake kumabwera m'kusintha kochepa kwambiri, ndipo kupita patsogolo kulikonse kumakhala kowopsa ku kunyada kwakale. Maseŵero a vidiyo onga [[FLT:] Nthano ya Zeld: Kupuma kwa nkhalango Kugwirizana kwa kudutsa dziko lowonongeka ndi kulephera kwa zaka zana lakale, ndi zikumbukiro zomwaza zonse ziŵiri zompatsa mphamvu ndi kumuzunza. Maseŵera a maseŵero amapangitsa kuseŵerawo [FLD: FFF]

Chilengedwe Chonse Chopanda Magazi: Chilengedwe Choyera Monga Chiyambi ndi Chovuta

Nkhani zapamwamba zazikidwa pa kusokonezeka maganizo kumene anthu amavutika kapena kukhala akapolo a. Nkhondo ya mtanda yonse ya Batman ili chivomerezo cha kuphedwa kwa makolo ake, koma [[FLT: 0] CBR imayang'ana pa pepala la [ kuwunikira mmene amasonyezera kulira kwake pamapeto kwa kulola kupsinjikako kumuwononga kotheratu. Pamene alembedwa mozama, Bruce Wayne akuda nkhaŵa ndi kumuchotsa iye ndi kuwopseza kumpangitsa kukhala chinthu chimene akumenya nacho. Zoipa zina ndi zisonyezero zofanana: Magne’s pulumu zake zopulumukira, ndi Surfer liwongo la kutumikira Galus pomzetsata. Nkhani zimenezi zija za m'mbuyomuthandiza kukhala mphamvu ya mphamvu, koma zingagwiritsiridwe ntchito monga chiwopsera cha chiwopsera chakale.

Ulendo Wofuna Kulandiridwa ndi Kukula

Sizopanga zonse zimene zimamamatira dzulo zimene zimagawidwa. Maambulera opulumukira alipo, ndipo kaŵirikaŵiri amapereka nthaŵi zambiri zokhala ndi mathero a katharatic posimba nkhani. Mabande ameneŵa amasonyeza njira zenizeni zochiritsira maganizo, kusonyeza kuti kuleka sikuli chivumbulutso chamwamsanga koma mpambo wa zosankha zadala, molimba mtima.

Kulimba Mtima Pomasula Zimene Simungasinthe

Kuvomereza kumayamba ndi kuvomereza kowopsa: Zinthu zina sizidzachitidwa bwino, ndipo zitseko zina zimamangidwa kosatha. Kulimba mtima m’nkhaniyi sikuli kwa kumenya nkhondo; ndiko kukhala pansi ndi kulola kusandulika popanda kuumitsa.

Kumanga Mpumulo Kupyola m’Njira Zazing’ono ndi Zosasintha

Kuchiritsa si chinthu chimodzi chodabwitsa. Kumayambika mwa kachitidwe kakang’ono, kadziko kamene kamakula kukhala katsopano. Munthu angayambe mwa kulekerera kanthaŵi kokhala ndi chimwemwe kwanthaŵi ino popanda liwongo, kenaka kena. Kuchiritsa, kulemba, kapena kungolola bwenzi lodalirika kuona kupweteka kwawo . Pakupita kwanthaŵi, zosankha zimenezi zimabwezeretsa unansi wa maganizo ndi chikumbukiro. Zaka zakale zimayamba kukhala mutu umene umadziŵitsa osati kulephera kwawo.

Chiyembekezo, Maganizo, ndi Kuchirimika Masiku Ano

Chiyembekezo ndicho kuwala kumene kumachititsa munthu kukhala ndi moyo wokha. Si kuyembekezera zinthu mwachimbulimbuli; ndiko kukhulupirira kuti kuvutika sikuli mapeto a nkhaniyo. Kulingalira mwadala, popanda kuweruza za nthaŵi ino, ndiko chiŵiya chothandiza kupatsa chiyembekezo chenicheni. M’moyo ndi m’nthano, anthu amene amaphunzira kuona kuwala kwa dzuŵa pakhungu lawo kapena kuseka kwa bwenzi lawo akusintha ubongo wawo kukhala kunja kwa ndende yakale. Luso limeneli, losavuta kufotokoza ndi lovuta kugwiritsa ntchito, kaŵirikaŵiri ndilo mfundo yosinthira kumene munthu amaima ndi kukhala ndi moyo.

Kugwiritsira Ntchito Nzeru Izi pa Nkhani Yanu

Kaya mukupanga kabuku katsopano, kupenda filimu, kapena kusinkhasinkha pa filimu yanuyanu, mtundu wa munthu amene amasintha molemera dzulo, amanyamula kalirole kutsutsana kwa chilengedwe chonse. Olemba angagwiritsire ntchito njira imeneyi yamaganizo kupanga machenjezo otchuka, okhulupiririka. Oŵerenga ndi openyerera angapeze chifundo ndipo mwina chenjezo lakuyanjanitsani kutaya. Ndipo kwa aliyense amene akulingalira kuti akulimbana naye, nkhanizo zingakufotokozeni: kale, koma sizingafotokozereni mutu wanu wina. Kusintha n’koopsa, koma kutsalabe ndi kuzizira, kumapeto, kopweteka kwambiri.